When we met, do you think I was giving off some subconscious or subliminal sub vibe, and were hitting me with a subliminal or subconscious Domme vibe? Is that a part of the reason we clicked and ended up together? When we met, neither of us knew anything about terms like domme, sub, and femdom. But something clicked and we ended up together - and I was a pretty big slut at the time. Monogomy was not a game I was particularly good at playing. She had a good job, and I frankly was a few years away from finding any real success...so my money certainly wasn’t a selling point. Fast forward to today - She knows that her true nature is a Domme, and I know my true nature is a submissive. I’m locked 24/7, always in service to her, and as she said - the game of Femdom is long gone, this is our life together. It just seems that with so many people struggling for partners in a femdom lifestyle, that odds of ours developing out of random happenstance would be very small indeed. Anyway, her answer to the question that she’s not 100 percent sure. It’s a compelling thought; and may well be true. It’s just very hard to know at this point (like almost 30 years later). So I thought I’d ask others about there experiences.