Should I merge Locktober with NOvember?

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by Trisha-KH, Oct 21, 2020.

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Should I unlock him after Locktober or just continue with merging it with NOvember?

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  1. Trisha-KH
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    It's our first time celebrating locktober and I enjoyed it a lot. It's been 21 days of a hell(fun/pleasure?) for him and now I've heard about NOvember and I might apply it too. But I doubt if he can endure chastity that long. Anyways just vote it out to make it clear for me.
     
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    I once read that a good length of time to start with is to ask your partner how long he thinks he could go... and then add 50% to 100% on top of that, since guys will usually hedge a bit.
     
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    please Miss. it up to You how long the man is lock up for.
     
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    That's a real dilemma. I know the anticipation and buildup as you approach end of month and release has got to be on his mind. It certainly is on mine. Having you choose to put him through another month, especially if you tell him on Oct 31, would be crushing but also a new challenge. If he is truly your sub and obeys your wishes, then he will get over any disappointment and be happy to show his allegiance to you. But as @jemima says it is really your decision. BTW, i did vote for more.
     
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    I think I should unlock him but for a limited time
     
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    I haven't voted, it needs to be a call you (and he) make. I don't know enough about your dynamic, I would bet my last quid on the vote saying you should lock him up though. :D

    If he's made it through Locktober without issue and you think he's capable of longer then start him on NOvember. It's not like you get sent to KH prison if he doesn't complete it. You can always decide he's "earned" an early release at any point if you think he needs it.

    It's not worth the hassle if he's just going to disengage from the whole thing, and you're in the best position to make that call imo.

    In all honesty I'm feeling a bit "locked and forgot" at the minute and I'm willing to admit that is probably influencing my answer, take it as you will. :)
     
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    It totally your call. Keep him caged. After all he did request being caged. It's now your property. You should enjoy seeing him in total fustration and denial. He wanted this you should enjoy it. Tease him. Your in charge. Enjoy the power he has given you. Remember he wanted this. Enjoy it.
     
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    Miss....I think it really depends on the level of experience. If you guys are relatively new to extended lock up, as my wife / KH and I are, I might suggest a short release, an award for his perseverance, and THEN lock him back down for NOvember....which could always be extended into December at your whim.
     
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    M'lady,

    For my two cents, I voted keep him locked...and tell him its the whole month.

    But I think you can then let him out when you're ready! Use him, then lock him back up for the rest of the month. I know my wife/KH purposely doesn't tell me when she's letting me out. It's totally when she wants, and I lpve it!

    Thanks
     
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    I personally think that you should allude to the idea of staying locked for the rest of the year, ...and then at some point (when YOU want some fun) unlock him, just to show that the Calendar is NOT his KH, YOU are.
     
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    It sounds like this might be the first time he has gone this far? It might make sense to at least let him out and see if there are any problems. Then, it is your decision what to do next.

    I can think of a lot of different ways it could be handled, but it is of course up to you.
     
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    It is the power and privilege exclusively yours, what you wish and decide will be fine.
     
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    I say leave him locked till the new year. Let his next orgasm be in the new year.
     
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    I don't know why you need to have people vote on it honestly. I would make a mutual decision with some of his input on it.
     
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    Your EVIL :D
     
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    Perhaps a Cure for Covid Chastity Challenge, the 4Cs. Stay locked until Covid is cured.

    ;)
     
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    Don't write off Denycember. And Justanothermonthuary. And Forgetuary, And...
     
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    Lol
     
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    There are 4 couples in this locking club, only 2 will get out on Halloween night. One will be let out on thanksgiving with the last on New Year’s Eve. A party will be held on Halloween to decide on the lucky 2 and the wife’s are keeping the how a secret.
     
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    if you're relatively new to chastity, then going very long term straight off can be counter-productive. Best to build up the length of time slowly.
     
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    Don't know why some people says why do you posting this and make your decision on your own only. I am doing this for fun purpose and just to tease him a bit cause We all know the final poll result. So don't be so serious all the times..
     
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    I think that during the 'limited time' he should be restrained. You should edge him a bit, and make sure nothing hurts him, and lock it back up without any relief unless he has pain or rawness.
     
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    That sounds very much like Sarah Jameson.

    It is good advice. though if it gets you into your first long period of denial you might not think so at the time
     
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    Let me write, what I would dreaming of (regarding myself). Surely, don't unlock him on the 1st. Or even better, handcuff him on the 1st, unlock him, play a bit, thel lock back again. Then say, you was released, as agreed and you now going to be locked untill Cristmas. It would be great experience, he will remember about for all his life.
    However, on the 2nd, 3rd or later on you may unlock him and allow a full release or... you may not unlock. Generally, it isn't good to start too sharp, do it gradually. 2nd of Nov is almost the same as the 1st, but imagine what kind of dreams, whishes and desires you would pour onto his brain. He will thank you later!
    Play the game, he wanted! Breake the rule and make your own!
     
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    Didn’t realise there was a choice
     
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