Piggys Last Chance

sissy_connie · Jul 12, 2018

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I do worry about his needs, this is a relationship and the sexual stuff is based very much in fantasy. He caters to my every whim and as his wife and partner I see nothing wrong with engaging with him sexually whenever I want and as much as I want. Piggy does tell me about all the unlucky guys out there that's wives and mates won't consider this way of life and I feel sorry for both of them. Those ladies could have so much fun punishing their naughty men and getting the things in life that they want, I know I sure do now!. My hubby definitely knows how lucky he is that I play with him, I tell him all the time!. Lol
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Thank you ....well said...

AprilC · Jul 12, 2018

BKwife said: ↑

I can't even count how many times we've started and stopped this FLR lifestyle. For him its a dream come true and for me it's getting the respect I've always wanted and deserved. Unfortunately, my stupid impatient little piggy is never happy with the quantity of time I devote to catering to his every irrational need! One minute my pig would be on cloud 9 because of the sexual interaction we just had and the next day he was pissed because I didn't text him enough that day!. He would always tell me that my words and how I weilded them were such a turn on to him, nobody talks like I do and then as soon as I neglected to remember I was supposed to do something that day, it was game over. Because I didn't put enough time into dominating him, he said it wasn't as important to me as it was to him and it would never work!. I was devastated as usual. Months went by with us drifting apart and I had enough. We talked and he assured me he was done being a selfish little pig and he would give me the time I need to be the mistress I have the potential to be. So, is with great pleasure that I'm here to say my sub now accepts the fact that he no longer controls ANYTHING!. wish him luck

Question for you guys. If you love this so much why are you always screwing it up?

Keyholders... Am I the only one having these issues?
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He only "thinks" he has given up control

RLocked · Jul 13, 2018

I hate to be obvious but communication is everything.

Is he doing it because he is ‘topping from the bottom’?
Is he doing it because he is just high maintenance?
Is he doing it because he is insecure?
Is he doing it because he wants you to really punish him because he knows it annoys you?

Or maybe something all together different?

The only way you will find out is by talking about it.

I have been guilty of topping from the bottom before - I personally would think this is probably what’s going on

Being older and wiser now I think I have sorted out the fantasy from the reality and found a happy balance that doesn’t emotionally and physically drain my partner but I did push away a couple of previous girlfriends by being too needy

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