Hi all, Since chastity started 6 weeks ago I'm trying my best to be a perfect husband. Now my good wife Madame Vanilla luvvvs PIV but dislikes anything to do with her vaginal emissions. The thing is ofcourse that her pussy nectar is my most favourite delight. So I thought up a monthly challenge to gain points or stars towards her letting me go down on her. Every day she gets to grade me with one star for each of 5 criteria of good husbandry: - helpfulness - respectfulness - attentiveness - generosity to her - desire for her So potentially 5 stars a day. Or 150 stars a month (30 days), for the perfect husband. At the end of the month if I reach 150 stars she would reward me with one hour of time by her pussy. 100 stars, half an hour. 50 stars, 10 minutes. I could redeem 50 stars maybe twice in the month maybe thrice if I was perfect! Every month the counter gets reset and the game starts over. This is not an orgasm thing as she must have her weekly PIV and she likes to make me come when she's having it. So during my rewards I'd remain in chastity, ofcourse. I have not yet proposed this game to her as I'd like your reasoned input.
it seems pretty convoluted to me, but I know some people enjoy these games so I hope it works out for you.
So, your game is an attempts to earn points by doing things for her, with the reward being to force her to do something she does not like. You may not see it that way, but that's probably how she will see it.
Every couple has a different dynamic and if this works for both of you... who am I to tell you what to do... I personally would not see it working for my wife and I... but I could see us trying anything to see how it goes for a short period of time. At the end of the day if it is good that she knows what action could motivate you and get you excited. I am sure even if she is a huge fan of receiving oral sex she probably enjoys it sometimes. Hopefully she can at least use this information to better the relationship you both have. After all, some things are better when put into moderation... too much of anything could make something you love doing become stale.
If it works for you both, then great, but doing things for her to "earn points" towards a reward seems questionable at best.
My wife and I have tried some games like this in the past, but we’ve found that they have two big drawbacks for us: 1. She ends up doing most of the work to track points and determine score each time and what the total is, etc. 2. She doesn’t like the fact that it takes control away from her. She likes to pick when my releases are, not some game based on a score or chance. We found that I am a better sub when my releases are unknown to me and are picked by her on her schedule. I don’t know when it’ll happen, but I definitely know when I’ve extended that time for doing something wrong or subpar.
i think you should consantrate on what your wife whants and just hope to get the ocasional reward i dont think id propose such an idea id prefer to serve my woman in whatever she whants . but then again we are all diferent so best of luck
Well that was just a suggestion to pep up becoming the perfect husband but I ll refrain for the moment seeing the negative reception here. I think I can love without coming but can not love without having just a little cunt taste from time to time. I realise how demeaning this may sound...but that taste physically defines in my head every woman I have loved. As Bob M would have said No Woman no taste. On the other hand Madame Vanilla used to be a clipboard bearing quality control pro. You see she might like giving out stars!
Great start, but remember less is more. So instead of points and whatnot, why not leave it up to her and use the number of orgasms or days to start. You need to break the thought of a game to game her heart since it says I am 1/2 into doing this for you, and I need motivation. The fact she has you in chastity should be "it".
1) I agree that simpler is better. Keep your idea simple and let her maintain control. Make it a simple dice or coin toss game once a month. She tells you how many rolls you get based on whatever whim she has. She could choose zero chances as an option. 2) Can you discover what would make her comfortable enough to let you go down on her. Does she want to shower first? Does your technique need an upgrade? 3) Do her expectations for oral worship meet yours? Is the goal a problem? (Is the goal an orgasm, foreplay, or humiliations? Does your goal match hers?)
Mine is the easiest. locked for 7 day and she decides if I get let out. Many times she gets pleased that night and I remain locked for another week. That weekend is what she wants and if lucky, i get out possibly multiple times that weekend. I do enjoy a great orgasm and then being relocked by her.
Yes her having me in chastity is a supreme gift. My idea is not to barter orgasms at all...but for her to encourage my attitude with her juice. She controls my orgasms, period.
Yep, it sounds pretty demeaning. Here's your problem. Some women simply don't like to be licked. If your wife falls into that category, you may have to accept that as part of the price of being in service to her. If it's a dealbreaker for you, then it may be a genuine incompatibility.
I think she dislikes her own cunt excretions. She refuses to go pantiless except in bed thank the lord. And she always uses a pad...Sometimes I fish a discarded pad out of the bathroom trashcan to have a good ol' sniff.
Well when I have licked her she doesn’t resist it once Ive got going. But she rarely allows me to slide down. We havent discussed it ever as she is Madame Vanilla. But weve now started discussing chastity...so the communication channel is very slowly widening.
Gee, my wife told me i would never need my cock as long as my tongue worked. I may not get out my cage every week, but my tongue gets a weekly workout.