New to key holding. Going from Submissive to Switch.

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    #1 Shakarie1221, Jun 10, 2020
    Hi everyone! I'm terrible with introductions lol. But im 29 and im starting to slowly go from being a complete sub to a switch all thanks to a good friend of mine.

    I am in poly relationship with 3 partners, 2 of which are my Dom, my 3rd partner is an untitled Daddy Dom.
    I love all my Dominate partners but I've always had some kind of need of wanting to control something with someone. Then a friend of mine approached me about Caging. After speaking with him for a while and discussing alot of what it entails and him answering all of my questions, I really do think this is a path I want to take.

    So im here to meet new people and to learn all I can from those who have been doing this alot longer than me.

    Thank you so much for taking time to read this. :)

    ~Shakarie~
     
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    #2 Alana, Jun 10, 2020
    Welcome, I'm sure you will love it here.
     
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    #3 locked_top, Jun 10, 2020
    Very nice. I've found that submissives make some of the best keyholders.
     
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    #4 amvetsb, Jun 10, 2020
    Welcome!!!
    Many find that although their needs are being met they still have a craving for something else. My holder was into chastity for herself when we met and had a fairly good understanding of chastity for other people... Years later, she will has someone tend to her chastity needs as she continues to enjoy controlling others like myself.
    Glad you found you way here. I hope that you find what you are looking for and never stop learning :)
     
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    #5 MissEmi, Jun 10, 2020
    Welcome, so much information within these forums. I hope you learn and discover more about yourself through the information and relationships you will build
     
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    #6 CagedJohn, Jun 10, 2020
    Having known my Goddess for some time, I can say I feel confident and happy giving @Shakarie1221 my keys and my trust.

    Truly a beautiful woman inside and out, I feel so lucky to be able to serve her. The thought of doing all I can to make her happy makes me smile like I haven't in some time.

    Subbing to her is my greatest honor, and can only hope to make her proud. To let her explore her inner Goddess and her inner Mistress. I will work to be her favorite toy, and wait patiently for my turn to play.
     
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    #7 Alana, Jun 10, 2020
    You are a lucky guy. ...I wish you both the best in your Journey.
     
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    #8 CagedJohn, Jun 10, 2020
    I really am, thank you
     
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    #9 sissydavenport, Jun 10, 2020
    Welcome! It was great talking and it's always super cool to meet Someone from right across the river (W/we're over in Illinois). Hopefully You can keep John in sub mode, where he belongs!
     
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    #10 MissyB, Jun 10, 2020
    Welcome to our community and it appears you have lots of friends already. Good luck and enjoy your journey.
     
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    #11 Rodeo cowboy, Jun 11, 2020
    Nice to have you here. I’m sure your path will be an interesting one.
     
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    #12 LesterBallard, Jun 11, 2020
    Hello and welcome
     
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    #13 MouseTee, Jun 11, 2020
    Hi Shakarie1221 and a warm welcome to the mansion! :)
     
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    #14 John, Jun 11, 2020
    Don't be afraid if you would enjoy the controlling part can be addictive and a confidence grower for many women.
     
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    #15 Cumschot, Jun 11, 2020
    Welcome here your highness
     
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    #16 Disciplined Boyfriend, Jun 11, 2020
    Welcome to the Mansion. Nothing like an experience sub who switches to make a perfect domme. Lots of good stuff here, enjoy
     
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    #17 latexbound, Jun 11, 2020
    Welcome to the Mansion!
     
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    #18 locked2serve, Jun 11, 2020
    Welcome. There are so many different and kind folks here brought together by our common bond (or cage) and you will find tons of good information here. Enjoy.
     
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    #19 jemima, Jun 11, 2020
    hello @Shakarie1221 and welcome to here and i hope You like it here as well. and i hope that You like having somebodys keys to keep him all locked up.
     
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    #20 CagedJohn, Jun 11, 2020
    I am her Pet, I'll be locked whenever she wants me to be
     
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    #21 MouseTee, Jun 12, 2020
    You're a lucky guy with such a beautiful KH! :)
     
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    #22 the odd tease, Jun 12, 2020
    Welcome and enjoy!
     
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    #23 Shakarie1221, Jun 12, 2020
    Thank you everyone for the warm welcomes :) and thank you Pet (@CagedJohn) for saying nice things about me :)
     
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    #24 CagedJohn, Jun 12, 2020
    Thank you! And you are very correct.
     
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    #25 madams-sissysub, Jun 13, 2020
    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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