Male chastity and her sex drive.

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    For any couples who have done chastity for any length of time: have you noticed changes to the female's sex drive the longer the male was locked up? Did it go up/down or stay the same?
     
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    I would say my wife’s sex drive has continuously climbed since I met her including the last 11 years I have been in chastity
     
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    Mrs Edge discovered that she loved having the control, that every chance passing didn't have to lead to turning me down. It freed her up to be more affectionate, which led to her wanting sex more often.

    When we hit our 60s, I noticed that we were having sex two, sometimes three times a week. It's way more than we did twenty years ago.
     
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    So some women do seem to become more sexually interested as a result of male chastity.
     
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    I have seen a more focused sexual drive in my wife, knowing she controls my cock and my orgasms gives her power. When she went back and forth with interest I had an alternative solution during my morning shower to get some relief (yes, I masturbated). Now I no longer have this escape and must abide by her wishes. Chastity has more or less set a schedule for us, Friday is a night of relaxing and some teasing and Saturday is play night. Those Saturday nights when I am to remain locked, all the focus is on her and if she had a great time I got a milking as a reward. Those Saturday nights when I will be released for fun, she actually desires to have fun and maybe even dress the part of a fantasy.
     
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    My KH has always had a healthy sex drive, which has probably increased as chastity has increased, but the really noticeable difference is the level of kink and the variety of play we have. I could never have imagined her doing any of this before chastity, but she loves it.
     
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    Madams is the same as it always has been, high!
     
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    Interesting nobody mentions a woman's sex drive decreasing during a partner's chastity. Most seem to mention an increase in her drive. How about kinkiness? One man here mentioned his partner became more kinky. Is that usual, too?
     
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    Yes it increases, but there are three essential caveats W/we've learned through direct experiences:

    1. She wears the key whenever Her submissive is locked. Without that, it can head into "out of sight, out of mind" territory. However, if the Mistress/Keyholder wears it, it acts as a consistent reminder and Her sex drive increases.

    2. She dictates the terms of sexuality. Being locked and denied causes a flood of shall we say creative sexual outpouring on the part of the submissive. This can be overwhelming and cut down on a Mistress' own sexual thoughts.

    3. The submissive must learn to act just as submissive after the orgasm as before. None of this "sub drop" stuff, just work at it and focus on being an excellent sub post-orgasm.

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    I'd love to her a woman's view on this topic.
     
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    My GF has a crazy sex drive, but it decreases in frequency and increases in intensity when I'm caged. Just an amatuer guess but I think it is related to a few things: she is historically programmed to attract through sex/sexiness so thinks about it more often if I am free (and probably hasnt had her fill by the the time I have had mine...), when I'm locked, i.e. most of the time now, she is in control and seperates more when she really wants to climax, and when she does it is for several.
     
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    My wife's sex drive has definitely increased, but that still doesn't mean we're having a lot of sex. She's always been somewhat low. Possibly artificially low due to meds, but doesn't matter. Now that I'm locked we're definitely in "sync" more often ... mostly because I'm almost always horny so when she's ready, I'm ready ;)
     
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    Interesting replies.
     
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