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    #1 T.G., Dec 23, 2022
    Hello Everyone,
    I am 56 years old and starting into real life D/s relationship I hope. I live on the West Coast of the US. I am under consideration from a Domme and she would like to lock me up. I also would love to lock myself up for her. I was lead to this site by doing a google search to solve a problem I have with some cages I an bought. I only have one testicle (missing the left side) and my right side seems larger then normal. So I looking for advice and help.

    Looking forward to learning more about chasity and getting to know people
     
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    #2 Fisherman, Dec 23, 2022
    My guess is that one testicle would still work for a ball trap device, especially if it is large. Now you need to determine your measurements and get something ordered. Good luck!
     
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    #3 Deleted member 96384, Dec 23, 2022
    You could add a belt?
    I prefer having Dom/KH do the locking. It fulfills the need that is deep in our subconscious
     
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    #4 LesterBallard, Dec 23, 2022
    Hello and welcome
     
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    #5 Xileh, Dec 24, 2022
    PA piercing?
     
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    #6 T.G., Dec 24, 2022
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    #7 Chaz69, Dec 24, 2022
    I don't think having a ball cage on the device will really make a difference as to whether one testicle will be enough to hold the device in place. Probably best to take some measurements, so you get the right base ring size, and then buy one and try it. You may need to try several to get one that is comfortable and fits right (we've all been there, even if we have 2 balls). But, if you strike out, you could consider getting a PA or a belt.
     
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    #8 DonnaSue, Dec 24, 2022
    I also have only 1 ball and after buying and trying and failing on many, I finally bought one with various sizes of metal rings and the smallest ring would keep it on until I went to sleep, then fall off overnight. I was able to put the ring into a vise and bend it into an oblong shape which made it difficult to get on, but it never comes off. You will find lots of metal cages with various size metal rings on eBay.
     
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    #9 madams-sissysub, Dec 24, 2022
    Hi there and welcome to the mansion! A second vote here for using a waist strap and trying to fit the smallest base ring you can.
     
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    #10 MissyB, Dec 24, 2022
    Welcome to our community. I hope you find it helpful and enjoyable.
     
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    #11 jemima, Dec 24, 2022
    hello @T.G. and welcome to here and i hope you like it here as well.
     
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