How do you hide the bulge?

Most people are not even looking and for those that do, I bet that 99 percent just think that your just much larger larger than you are.

 

When i have trousers on it doesnt matter at all, But when i have a dress or skirt on my Mistress likes to see that little bulge on a tight dress

 

My Queen’s Keep doesn’t show at all. What device are you using? What type of lock?

 

Get a Holy Trainer Nub. Makes your cock disappear almost

 

Never had a problem with the bulge, most people wouldn't dream it could be a CB anyway.

I am betting that you are more aware of it yourself than anyone at work is.

 

Unless of course you have somehow managed to put a curved device on upside down.

Then they will just assume you a permanent erection pmsl.

 

Good answers here and have to agree that I think it is a psychological hurdle you have to jump over. Have you noticed anyone staring, or do they know your lifestyle? I wear a stainless steel cage all the time. Like Shepherdsflock said, it could be a cage size thing, and if it is a larger cage, make sure you are using a curved one and point it down more so its not just out there. I use a small cage. Louislocked mentioned the Nub. I have a stainless steel about the same size and have no issues. However, no one has any idea that I do chastity so they would never suspect I am locked up.

Totally with you locked_cuckold, LOVE being locked all the time, so I try not to over think it about others knowing, so I can spend my time thinking about how great it is and no one knows. Though I feel bad about that because they don't know what they are missing out on, enjoying the same feelings I experience every day.

 

If your device fits properly and you’re not in the middle of an attempted erection, it’s usually the lock or locking mechanism that will stick out. I’m average-ish in terms of size and my Queen’s Keep is around 1.5” if I remember right from when I ordered it. Even in my boxer-briefs you can’t really tell I’m wearing it. It just looks like normal male anatomy under the cloth. I went with the security screw rather than a lock so that it would have the lowest profile and be as undetectable as possible to any casual observer. I wear it to the gym every time I work out. With careful planning I can change and everything and nobody is the wiser even if I walk around in my underwear.

 

There are different types and ones that actually do hide better. The one I own now does not show even under my tight women's jeans. So happy for that. So maybe look around?

 

Similar here, except my device is 2.5" long. Once you have worn it for long enough you stop thinking about it when out and about or at work, it is just always there like some jewelry. Recently at work I gave a formal address in quite an intimate setting and tbh forgot that I was even wearing it, even when several females came up to chat afterwards!

 

looser clothing. And, as others have said, it may not be as noticable as you think.

 

Weird, the Queen’s Keep and Jailbird are nearly identical. Unless you are absolutely huge downstairs I’m a bit surprised that it would be that noticeable.

I’m not sure how practical string would be. You might be able to try a snugger pair of underwear. I find that “adjusting” things periodically so the base ring is high and tight against my pelvis helps keep things compact. If the ring rides down your scrotum and the tube goes with it, it can cause a bulge.

 

Since we all universally agree that a device is unnoticable and our own self awareness is the only cause for concern, I believe a more pressing question is...

After a week when every thought of your significant other triggers an auto ejaculation how do you keep the wet spot from showing on your pants?

 

I also think when we are self conscious of what we are wearing, it becomes much larger looking to us.

 

When I wore cb3000 - just look I packing a little - as I gone smaller over the years
You barley tell i packing in underwear - in time you get over it - I mean if you have 3-4 in cage might look line you hung so is that a bad thing hehe

 

I don't think about the bulge as I don't think it is terribly noticeable. Besides, anyone looking down there is likely to be impressed!

 

When I first was locked up, was nervous about it. Then my wife/kh told me that if people stare they stare. I wear my cage everywhere with Jean's, dress pants, etc. I have not noticed anyone staring.

 

I've never given it much thought. I wear the HT V3 comfortable and great fit for me. Now as for the bulge I wear loose fitting jeans and I don't wear underwear. Haven't worn any in 30 years. I prefer to as they say hang loose baby. If your thinking about the bulge in your pants it might be you. My Mistress catches herself sometime looking at my crotch. Smiles and whisper in my ear says if they only knew what I Know about that bulge between your legs. I tell her I don't care what they think. Because that bulge between my legs is her property. She smiles and says your a good caged boy. I say thank you Mistress. Now what bulge we're we talking about.

 

I am also locked in a Mature Metal Jail Bird. Like you. at first I was self conscious of the slight bulge. As time went by I watched people and came to the conclusion that no one really looked at my crotch and if the did they didn't seem to notice anything that really caught their attention. I've been locked for about 4 years now and never experienced any kind of reaction from anyone. I even wear loose gym shorts when at my son's house and no one has ever said or indicated that they notice anything.

 

For me sitting has become more the issue. When you sit, even a fairly short device can end up pointing at a weird angle causing a bulge. Unfortunately my work slacks and jeans are a bit on the tighter side.

 

All of my plastic CB devices have been overly obvious inder jeans. I'm fairly big as it is, but there have been times when people have stared at my crotch, and people I trust have told me it's obvious. Loose summer shorts, not so much, but jeans showed it, and often had me feeling like I have a tupperware in my pants. Sitting down it's doubly obvious. I don't know what others have found, but when I sit in a typical CB, the end of the cage pokes out really obviously.

I've switched to wearing a Chinese, metal device that's basically a ring with the lock built in, and a small cup. I've got a bigger one with an oval ring, short tube and bars on the end, but it's also hard to hide. The shorty cage is actually LESS obvious than my own package unlocked. The downside is that I never managed to adapt to the urethral tube, so I have to take the cage/cap off to pee. The last few months I've switched how I wear it. Now I push the head of my penis down on itself, pull the loose skin up and over the head, and put the loose skin into the cage/cap section. This stops the sensitive skin of the glans from poking through the vent holes. I can pull out of it to pee, clean off, push the head back down, and be back in the cage, without removing the cap. This only works as we use the cage as a symbolic thing, and not as a secure device.

Anyhow, that's my best suggestion for the most stealthy device I've used (of 6 or so) by far.

 

I really don’t worry about it. Most people are not going to know what it is if they do see something. Besides it is none of their business what I’m wearing. I’ve worn very obvious collars out in public before. Some people looked, but I’ve learned that we are generally overly worried about others think. Even without a bulge or collar people are constantly judging you based on your appearance. Once you get over that and stop worrying about what strangers think you can start being yourself in public.

My Steelheart is really not that noticeable anyway. I’ve never noticed anyone staring. I’ve worn it through TSA checkpoints and been patted down while wearing it. Nobody has ever acted in a way to think they knew.