Having a wife on this site is a double-edged sword!

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  1. Gigaman
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    Well it finally happened, it’s happened to many of you and I knew it would eventually happen, it just happened sooner that I thought it would. BK received a very disrespectful post to one of her pictures.

    I know some of you will say don’t post pictures if you can’t take what people say. It’s the internet and thoughts are free. I get it, I really do, but I’m thinking from a different side here. It’s not the derogatory remarks. I’m an old guy, I have lived, worked, and played with jerks all my life, we all have. I even joke and tell them, I’m so good at it I teach people like you how to be a jerk.

    My problem is that it has taken us almost a lifetime to get where BK and I are at. She is now on CM and engaging people and starting threads. She has conversations and it is truly unbelievable. If you would have told me my wife would be enjoying a Femdom lifestyle and talking to people on a Chastity site I would have told you your nuts.

    Sorry I’m ranting, so back to my original thought. I don’t want her scared off or to hate coming here. We are finally at a good place right now and she needs CM to grow and get different views so she can make her own way. I know it’s a very small percentage of the guys that are assholes and I guess I just thought it would take longer before BK had to deal with it.

    Thanks for listening to me bitch.
     
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    sorry about that. There really are some morons out there, and it's best for your blood pressure if you just leave them to fester in their own soup of stupidity.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    Wow, odd, she seems quite attractive both physically and personally. Rather rude to share derogatory comments with anyone, yet alone a demographic that is so sought after.
     
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    I know there is no way around this kind of stuf on the internet. I just have been in heaven how BK has taken to the site and the people. And I have hi hopes it will take both of us to where we want to get in life. She having a blast her and believe it or not that’s a turn on for me. Win Win.
     
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    As the others have said please pass on an apology from us men on here for this idiots bad behaviour and bad manners, unfortunately as you say in this world there are so many ignorant folk who should but appear not to know better. This site would be all the less enjoyable without the wonderful female members who have decided to visit and share their time with the rest of us and although this moron was supposedly another member here he obviously has missed out quite a large chunk of his manners training possibly due to the over use of his hands and scant brain cells for other purposes of self pleasure. We can only hope your wife can see past this idiots shortcomings and pass on any information to the wonderful moderators of the site to try and eradicate this poison from an otherwise fantastic place to share moments of shared pleasures. Please tell her we are all in full support of her and loathe scum like this.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    @Mistress Amanté used to frequent here often, not so much to participate, but did check on what I posted and to see what others were doing. Unfortunately, she received a few too many invitations to be a key holder, as well as other messages that were either creepy or just enough that it bogged her down with alerts. She could have turned them off, but really just knowing they were creeping on her kinda put her off. It’s a pity, I had thought this would be a great place to chat about our “secret”.

    Turns out she is fine being an army of one, and that’s ok too, but I know how you feel about others scaring your partner off, it’s like “wtf buddy?!”
     
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    I definitely realize that the majority of men on this site are very respectful, this asshat will NOT dissuade me from continuing to enjoy my time here. I will continue to deal with them when they show their ugly selves. Thanks guys
     
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    Just tell @BKwife they are probably intimidated by her. I feel if they have to that write that
    crap they have nothing better to do. I think it will take a lot more than stupid comments to
    keep her away.
     
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    That is upsetting. I will unapologetically say that many guys are idiots and need to use their frontal cortex and a good dose of manners when they see a body part that stimulates their penis. Yes, there is a woman there, not an object. Is it any wonder why caging up a penis can be so effective. Control the penis, control the behavior. Sometimes I think men are very simple, I’m sorry. Maybe I am a manhater, but behaviors like you mentioned are so aggravating. At the same time, I’m not surprised. (Btw obviously this rant does not apply to all of you respectful, well mannered subs.)

    I hope your wife continues to share with us nevertheless. There needs to be more female support on here, and like her, it’s taken me sometime to become more comfortable, and I appreciate her sharing her experiences.
     
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    @Ma'am M, oh I'm definitely not gonna let this little loser ruin my fun at CM, no worries. Thank you for your kind words :)
     
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    Just because I am a submissive male to my Princess that doesn’t mean I won’t protect my wife and family. But reading BK posts I guess she really doesn’t need protection, at least with the online boys anyway. Maybe I jumped the gun by starting this thread.
     
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    @Gigaman Isn't she wonderful. You better watch out, you better not cry, you better not pout I'm
    telling you why BK is coming to town. You didn't jump the gun, you respect her and so do we.;-)
    :love::+1:
     
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    I think it sucks that you "have to" deal with this BS. @L-u-c-y should just ban whoever it is (and their IP address), so at least it won't happen again.
     
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    At first I was pissed that this would scare her off. But seeing how she reacting maybe this is a plus for us. Maybe she is understanding how to handle males better and from a different perspective. To early to tell righ now but maybe it’s not as bad as I thought, Hmm.
     
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    I totally agree with trash like that being banned!. There's no place on here for that!
     
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    It’s an opportunity for teaching insubordinates I suppose ;) I look forward to your future lessons!
     
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    Dr MBogo You heard the lady! In you go.....

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    Gigaman and BK: make sure you tell Lucy so that the moron can be removed from this site.

    I feel bad for you-this is one of the main reasons my beautiful wife/KH prefers not to actively post here. She observes but does not participate because there are so many bad people out there.
     
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    Good morning Ms BKwife,
    I did not see the offensive post and I am not sure that I really want to. I'll just agree with the others here and submit my apology for ignorant males everywhere. You sound like a wonderful and understanding person, Gigaman is truly lucky to have you in his life. There are too many ignorant people to try and keep up and I fully support having animals like you described removed from this site. Keep a happy face, except when Gigaman displeases you! :)
     
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    i agree...nicely said
     
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    Looks like you're doing a great job of not letting the bastards grind you down. ;)
     
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    Thanks
     
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    All Women are entitled to complete respect here.
     
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    Thanks to everyone for the kind words. Looking at it now I guess it was worse for me than it was bor BK, go figure.
     
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    Yes, for the Lady's Knight, (even a submissive one) it can get the blood boiling! Our ladies are tougher than we sometimes give them credit.
     
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    Good for you BK! Thanks for being here.
     
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