I recently completed 120 days completely chaste on March 3rd. My girlfriend and I really liked the positive changes in my attitude and our relationship. She decided to g o the permanent orgasm control route and I am once again locked and on day 16. The horniness is constant and stronger than I remember it at this point in my 120 days. Is this normal? Shouldn't I have developed some sort of tolerance at this point? Any feedback would be appreciated.
Depends, were you un-caged for a while? That might have reset your desires and feelings. Especially if you were allowed to cum in a climax.
I'm inclined to agree. It can definitely go up and down. I'd suggest that you might ask her to milk you that might help.
I've found when I get to orgasm, it cuts the horniness level by only 50% for each orgasm. So if I was denied for a month, 1 orgasm would leave me feeling like I was 2 weeks in. 2 orgasms would be like 1 week in, and 3 would be like 3 days, or practically nothing. If when you got out on Mar 3, you only came once... you're probably not at day 16, you may really be at the equivalent of day 76 (60+16). And after 3 years of this I haven't found myself building a tolerance yet...
My wife sometimes comments that “it’s only been a few weeks, why are you so frisky?” Or something similar. Well, my being “frisky” isn’t a n a steady upward graph. At 3 days I’m horny, at 6 really horny, at 12 super horny, at 24 mega horny, 48 can’t contain myself horny...it’s not like that. I plateau probably around 6 days, and from then on it’s ebb and flow. What changes is the frequency of sexual thoughts, and how little it takes to divert right into 1000mph horny. I am probably just as ready to pounce on her at day 6 as I am on day 186. You will not be constantly horny during that 186 days, but if she brushes me, says something erotic, mentions some activity, or sends me something sexual, I’m instantly right there revving high. If we didn’t plateau, if we kept just getting more and more sexually frustrated, there would be a limit at some point.
You just get used to it! Never counted days myself, but I'm in my 5th month of being locked. And I mean locked 24/7 no removal at all. It's just the "normal" state of affairs for quite a few chaps here. Personally I love it! And yes I do feel frustrated and horny at some point most days. And yes Mrs Chaste does like to "have a feel" just to keep me that way! Most mornings as I say goodbye and go off to work she likes to "get me swelling" in my cage! Enjoy my friend!
I seem to be on a three day cycle. Every three days, frustration really ramps up. Then I settle down for a couple. Then the cycle repeats. It never stops. It is devastating when she figures out the cycle and focuses her teasing on that third day.
@Nicoftime great post. I agree. There is an ebb and flow of horny that peaks in the first couple weeks and then goes up and down based on other stimuli.
When I'm locked up after an orgasm I usually go into the first couple of days full of regret. Both for the orgasm and for locking back-up. Then the horniness really kicks in for about the next two weeks. That is the hardest time for me in terms of physically wanting out. Once we start getting into really long term denial (for us this is anything over 2 months) I start getting very emotional about wanting an orgasm. It's almost like I'm afraid I'm going to die before I get to experience it again. This comes and goes at random times and is very different from horniness, which I also still struggle with.
I'm a relative novice (1 year next week), my longest lockup is 90 days (and counting) and good-grief I have not gotten used to it. The horniness comes in waves now but each one seems to be more intense. We live seperately and each house has out town kids locked in so there is zero time for any play, the result being that I am at the "think I'm going to die" level of frustration. She doesn't seem to share my concern and just giggles.
I know that giggle. Your frustration is only getting started, I suspect. You should be getting to the really good, constant high phase soon. Hang in there. You'll feel amazing!