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Chastity Contracts

Discussion in 'The Tower' started by Mistress Watchful, Sep 2, 2008.

  1. Brevity is elegant. I'm trying to imagine a relationship without issues and half wonder if that would be a blessing or a curse.
     
  2. I wish all Mistresses would see the beauty of contracts.
     
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    I think that so much depends on the individual situation. In some situations the dynamic and power balance means it's not needed.

    But I agree: it can be very useful: I posted one myself here some years ago.

    Thing is: to realise what it can and can't do. It can't (obviously) br legally enforceable, at least in any jurisdiction I know, so it's silly to pretend it is. But what it can be is an expression of consent, to anything to which consent can be lawfully given, so hr can't complain what he's receiving is against his will; and the FD can have other 'handles' up her sleeve so he won't want to change his mind.

    I look at the scenario a bit like rape in reverse. Any complaint it's very often his word against hers, so hard to prove at the best of times. And if she's given him something in writing prior that that's what she wants, then it can be high impossible.

    Well that, roles reversed, is the sort of situation the KH & wearer needs to have.

    I'm not sure I've explained this properly, but hope it makes sense.
     
  4. We have a Domme/sub Contract. It certainly works for us and has resolved a lot of issues for us, including my initial reluctance to accept chastity. We review it every now and then and update if necessary.
     
  5. Rule #1: Mistress makes the rules and changes them whenever she pleases
    Rule #2: See Rule #1

    Any questions
     
  6. As part of our exclusive relationship our simple verbal contract / agreement is as follows and is just a clarification if you like of;
    Rule #1: Mistress makes the rules and changes them whenever she pleases
    Rule #2: See Rule #1

    And to be honest we both found that sitting down and working this out was both bonding and a turn on.


    Me: I ask that I'm kept both locked and denied

    Without her clearly stated permission I will not try to get out of the Fort and will avoid doing anything that might make me ejaculate.
    In return I do what she wants when she wants it doing (or as soon as possible) and for as long as I'm told to do it.
    I am allowed to ask to be re-locked.
    I am allowed to ask for coporal punishment.


    She: In return for keeping me locked.
    Decides how long I am to remain locked, when and if I may ejaculate next, everything and anything else.

    If I ever complain, ask for release and/or permission to ejaculate then I will recieve a warning that what I said sounds like a release or ejaculation request or that what I said sounds like a complaint. If I fail to retract what I said following a warning she will return my keys and the game is over.

    This is to be re-agreed and open for re-negotiation every 3 months and next review date set at that time.
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    The re-agreement re-negotiation thing is mainly for my benefit as I is the only time I get an opportunity to ask for something without it being considered a complaint or request as she already decides everything whenever she wants. Though we have never changed anything other than first time when the the bits in red were added.

    It works for us, simple and strightforward. All the 'what ifs' are addressed.

    The bits in red were added to the agreement by my partner during our first re-negotation.

    I am allowed to ask to be re-locked. Was put in just in case I was not told put the Fort back on. Though this has never happened, because she told me once if I am not told to put it back on I should just do so.

    I am allowed to ask for coporal punishment. Because every couple from time to time have their ups and downs or minor disagreements even if I was proved to be right I can ask for this as it clears the air. I would have the satisfaction of knowing
    any offence had been forgiven. She would have the satifaction of knowing that was genuinely sorry for feeling I had to disagree with her. This has happened a few times and it we both do feel better after. I am not restrained for this as we would be in play, she really lays it on and I always thank her after. We always have always felt much closer after too and made love, of course I remained denied.

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    The idea of a formal written contract that was enforceable and legally bnding can not be realistically done at this time could for some people in certain circumstances have its appeal. Though for now that would have remain as purely part of the game or fantasy.

    And as melody said on another thread
    " It would be a very strange relationship if you were still strongly together and yet felt the need of going to adversarial court to fulfill a part of the relationship that the other partner was not providing."
     
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  7. Contract
    Mutually agreed upon, and binding,
    between H.A. and T.C.

    Section 1: Property

    From this day, forward, H.'s penis, scrotum, and testicles (a.k.a. genitals, as a whole)
    will become the sole property of T..

    The only person that may touch them, without prior permission, is T., with the exceptions of regular cleaning, hygiene and that of a doctor, for health reasons.

    At any given moment, with the reasonable exception of public exposition, H.'s genitals shall be available for T.'s inspection, personal pleasure, or painful torment.

    H.'s genitals shall never feel the touch (excepting in health reasons) of another person other than T., or another woman, if she so chooses.

    Section 2: Chastity

    From this day, forward, orgasms shall be at the sole discretion of T..

    For health reasons, one orgasm every month will be guaranteed, though said orgasm may be "ruined" so as to be without pleasure, or "milked" through prostate massage, internally, if mistress T. decides that is best.

    By signing this document, H. swears off all rights to his own sexual pleasure, leaving it entirely in the hands of T..

    All orgasms shall happen within T.'s body, be it through vaginal sex, oral sex, or anal sex.

    Any exceptions to this rule will be at her sole discretion.

    No semen shall ever be exposed to the air without the express command of Mistress T..

    Viewing of pornography is permitted, as long as it is done for the purpose of generating ideas.

    Any pleasure derived from pornography is expressly forbidden.

    If T. decides to purchase a chastity device, it will be worn, with gratitude. Complaints about said device are allowed only if based on a genuine concern about health.


    Section 3: Penalties, if necessary

    If H. disobeys the above rules, the penalties below shall be followed:

    1) touching self in a way that is to cause pleasure: minimum 15 whacks with the rod.
    2) masturbating to orgasm: No pleasure/orgasm for a 5 days, plus 50 whacks with the rod. Amounts can be increased or decreased at T.’s discretion, with a limit of 30 days on pleasure/orgasm. No limit on the number of physical strikes of the rod.
    3) orgasm without express permission: No pleasure/orgasm for 2 days.
    4) disobeying mistresses express orders: No pleasure/orgasm for 5 days, plus minimum 10 whacks with the rod, May be increased at T.’s discretion, depending on severity of offense.
    5) using the words "ow" or "ouch": 5 whacks with the rod.

    Section 4: Exceptions

    It is acknowledged that, on occasion, T. may not feel like being dominant. During this time she may decide to relax some or all of the rules. T. may end this period of time whenever she so chooses, upon which time the rules outlined within this contract will be reinstated immediately.

    Section 5: Signatures

    All of the above are completely agreed upon and are irreversible without mutual agreement.

    Signed:

    T. C. ______________________________________ Date: ________________

    H. A.__________________________________Date: ________________
     
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  8. The Mrs. determined that she didn't want to be burdened with the whole locking/unlocking thing. Instead, knowing how honest I am, we went with something a little different. I wrote this up to formalize an agreement we discussed over dinner:

    ...we agree on the following (feel free to make corrections):

    At no time am I to masturbate to orgasm, unless given prior permission by you. Failure to follow this rule will result in a punishment. The exact punishment will be selected by you in the event of an infraction, and will consist of one of the following:
    • Financial penalty - I will be required to provide you with funds, to be used in whatever way you deem appropriate, of an amount not to exceed one thousand dollars ($1,000). For items to be bought in-store, I may be required to accompany you to the place of purchase.
    • Chores - I will be required to complete household tasks not normally performed by me, including, but not necessarily limited to, dishes (pots, pans), washing floors, and laundry. The duration of this requirement will not exceed one month per punishment. If it is necessary to perform these tasks while our children need supervision, I may be required to arrange and pay for a babysitter to supervise them while I perform these tasks.

    Alternate forms of punishment can be negotiated in the future and added to this list. An alternate (not previously agreed to) punishment can be proposed by you at the time of an infraction, but I reserve the right to veto that in favor of one that had already been agreed to.

    Dissolution: either of us can dissolve this agreement. If I choose to dissolve this agreement, you may choose to issue a punishment. Also, if I choose to dissolve this agreement, it will remain in effect for an additional 72 hours. If you choose to dissolve this agreement, it will be immediate and no further punishments may be incurred.

    At this time it is expected that any infractions will be reported honestly and promptly. This agreement does not currently cover rules or guarantees relating to this expectation. You are free to propose further rules regarding this.
     
  9. New bee but interesting
     
  10. This is so useful thank you all for sharing !
     
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    This is one of the best threads on CM
     
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  12. I totally agree Joroincharge ;)
     
  13. I get all soaked up down there by this reading!!
     
  14. My Master just prepared this during the last week and we're signing it this weekend.
    Contract of Chastity:


    Whereas, this slave _________ acknowledges his deep need for loving female authority __________, and guidance. It is in the interest of both parties to have a strong, and loving relation.


    Therefore, the slave, desiring to improve himself and the relationship, has wisely concluded that he should agree to a Contract of Service for the benefit of his Master, in which substantially all control of the relationship is in her hands. The Master, in exchange, offers to fulfill Husbands need for loving female authority under this Agreement.


    Slaves obligations:


    1. The period length of chastity will be decided by myself alone. I will decide how often you wear this. No matter how much you may not want to wear it, you will agree without argument. I will take health issues into account but not a little discomfort. Sores or infections are health issues. When I say it is time to put it back on, whether you or I do it, it will be done. There are no time limits, and you never “need” to Climax.


    2. From now on there is no such thing as an accidental climaxing. When I am using you and you are not allowed to climax you should be obedient and control yourself. Any climaxes, other than wet dreams, that occur without permission, regardless of the stimulation being received, will be treated as an act of direct disobedience. You will receive a severe punishment beating until I am satisfied that any pleasure you received from selfishly climaxing is erased and forgotten by the pain of the beating that you are receiving.


    Climax = Cumming


    3. From now on you are to never ask or joke about being let out of your cage. You may tell me when you have a doctors appointment, going on a trip, or going to the pool. and you can explain why you think you may need to be let out of your cage, but unless you hear otherwise you are going in your cage. No amount of embarrassment will be too much for you to please me.


    4. You are not to ask me to take my penis out and play with it. I am aware of how long it has been locked up and I know better than you do how much attention it needs. If I do not think that it needs to be free, then obviously it does not. If you break this rule, then one week will be added until you may take it out again.


    5. If the chastity device slips off during the night you are require notify me, and to replace in during your morning shower.


    6. If the chastity device slips off at work or when out and about you are require to notify me, and to replace it ASAP.


    7. You may masturbate to the edge of Climax as often as you desires, when not confined in the Chastity Device. Privilege to masturbate is not approval for Climax, and you will assume the full risk and responsibility for even an unintentional Climax, which will be treated as Unauthorized.


    8. You may initiate a request for sex with me at any time, and cheerfully accept my answer, or terms under which it will occur.


    9. You may offer ideas and suggestions, especially in anticipation of my needs, on any matter that may arise between us.


    10. Lying is an infraction that will immediately double your time locked away as well as come with a severe punishment that your ass will not recover from any time soon.


    11. You are allow to use buttplugs, dildos and other anal objects to stimulate your anus. This may be only for pleasure. This privilege is not approval for Climax, and you will assume the full risk and responsibility for even an unintentional Climax, which will be treated as Unauthorized.


    12. As agreed you are no longer allowed the use of male underwear excluding jockstraps. You are to wear panties daily, unless order to wear a diaper. Jockstraps may also be worn on days that you are feeling sore from wearing the chastity device, but you need to inform me.



    Slaves Daily Obligations:


    1. Send daily “Good Morning” & “Goodnight” text message when away from Master.

    2. Send daily text messages throughout the day to Master.

    3. Make a minimum of two phone calls during a week (7 day) absence from Master.



    Slaves Day Specific Obligations:


    Monday:

    • Wear Panties to work

    • Send pictures to Master

    • Sleep diapered, caged, and plugged.

    Tuesday:

    • Wear Panties to work

    • Send pictures to Master

    • Sleep diapered, caged, and plugged.

    Wednesday:

    • Wear Panties to work

    • Send pictures to Master

    • Sleep diapered, caged, and plugged.



    Thursday: Free Day

    • You may go to work in anything you choose other then mens underwear excluding a jockstrap.

    • You may sleep in anything you choose other then mens underwear excluding a jockstrap.

    • You may feel free take off your cage, shave, and edge in any manner of your choosing. This privilege is not approval for Climax, and you will assume the full risk and responsibility for even an unintentional Climax, which will be treated as Unauthorized.

    Friday:

    • You are to replace your cage during your morning shower.

    • You are wear a diaper to work today.

    Weekends


    • Are dictated by Eve Or Master

    • If neither is present Master will give you specific guidelines for you to follow.

    Masters Obligations:



    1. The key will always be under supervision.


    2. Master, has the obligation to pay attention to slave’s health condition and arrange necessary suitable treatment, when any disorders are identified on the slave’s body.


    3. Master will supervise and let the slave maintain the chastity device every 15 days at a maximum.


    4. Master shall be discreet, never disclosing the fact that she controls slave’s sex in any manner that would affect family or work obligations.


    5. Master shall provide for periodic seminal release for User at the frequency and method of her choosing.

    Master’s Privileges


    1. May may have sexual relations with anyone of her choosing at any time and place of her choosing. The formation of a true relationship beyond sex & play would be discussed.


    2. May require slave to observe or participate in any sexual activities she desires, including with other participants.


    3. May privately humiliate slave in any manner she desires regarding his condition and inadequacies. Others may be involved if Master ensures they will also maintain privacy.


    4. May punish slave as deemed appropriate by the Master for any failings regarding his obligations. Punishment shall not cause permanent injury or markings and shall meet discretion requirements of this contract.


    5. May choose to take photographs or videos, publishing/posting as desired, as long as the identity of slave is not compromised and no facial images are shown.


    6. Requires slave to wear feminine panties as a daily regimen.


    7. May choose to purchase other chastity or similar devices.


    Duration of the contract:


    This contract length is until July 1st at which time it will be discussed and revised as needed.


    Cancellation of the contract:


    Slave may never requests the cancellation of the contract except the following cases.


    1. The relationship between slave and Master ends.


    2. Either slave or Master is unable to execute ones obligation due to long-term illness or some other reasons.


    3. It becomes obvious that wearing the chastity device results in serious health problems for slave.


    4. Either slave or Master moves out of the area due to career or family obligations.


    Both slave and Master agreed on all the above sentences with each own free will and each keeps a duplicated document signed by both.



    slave: signed_______________________ Date: ___________________



    Master: signed__________________ Date: ___________________
     
  15. My girlfriend signed that contract for me last year..


    Contract of Chastity

    1. Definitions:
    Throughout this contract, these terms are used with following definitions.

    Chastity: Prevention of all kinds of sexual behavior, including sexual intercourse and masturbation.

    Chastity Belt: Any lockable, wearable device designed to keep user's chastity and to prevent touching user's genitals by wearing and locking-up.

    User: The individual who will wear the device according to this contract, and who is to keep ones own chastity. By definition the user has granted control of his sexual organs and services to the keyholder.

    Key-holder: The individual who will lock the device up and will hold the key according to this contract. By definition the keyholder has absolute say in the use of the users sexual organs.

    Name of the Keyholder:__________________

    Name of the User: ___________________________

    Relation between keyholder and user: ___________________________

    2. User's obligation:

    By signing this contract User indemnifies Keyholder from any damage occurring based on any actions meeting the terms of this contract.

    User is under the following obligations:

    a. User wears the chastity belt at all times except when granted release by Keyholder.

    b. User is prohibited to engage in any sexual activity without the Keyholder's permission.

    c. User is prohibited to masturbate or ejaculate without the Keyholder's permission. User shall immediately report to Keyholder any instances of unauthorized ejaculation, be they intentional or unintentional.

    d. Making efforts to remove the chastity belt by User is forbidden.

    e. User is never permitted to leave from under Keyholder's control without Keyholder's special permission, when the chastity belt is removed by Keyholder temporarily.

    f. User is prohibited seeking permission in removing the chastity belt to Keyholder for the sake of User's sexual satisfaction.

    g. User shall perform all duties, sexual and otherwise, as requested by Keyholder, providing they do not unduly interfere with family and work obligations.

    h. User shall provide chastity device, lock, and plastic serialized tags to Keyholder.

    i. User's genital and orgasm are property of Keyholder so he cannot acces and use them without permission of Keyholder.

    j. User has to ready all time for sexually satisfy the Keyholder in any manner by genitaly(penis), physically(ohter instruments) or orally(tongue).

    k. User has to ready all time for inspection of chastity and teasing by Keyholder and her female representative.

    3. Keyholder's obligation:

    Keyholder is under following obligation:

    a. The key will always be under the supervision of Keyholder.

    b. Keyholder has the obligation to pay attention to User's health condition and arrange necessary suitable treatment, when any disorders are identified on the User's body.

    c. Keyholder will supervise and let the User maintain the chastity device every 30 days at a maximum.

    d. Keyholder shall be discreet, never disclosing the fact that she controls User's sex in any manner that would affect family or work obligations.

    e. Keyholder shall remove chastity device for medical appointments, supervising if desired.

    f. Keyholder shall provide for periodic seminal release for User at the frequency and method of her choosing.

    g. Keyholder is supervisor of the relation so she can't blame to User for sexual harrasment after signing the contract. also after cancellation of contract.

    4. Keyholder’s authority:

    a. Keyholder has full authority to access the orgasm of User. She can denied the orgasms for any period at any time. It will be for short period or lifetime danial.

    b. Keyholder may have sexual relations with any other person of her choosing at any time and place of her choosing.

    c. Keyholder may require User to observe or participate in any sexual activities she desires, including with other participants.

    d. Keyholder may privately humiliate, tease to User in any manner she desires regarding his condition and inadequacies. Other female friends of Keyholder may be involved if Keyholder ensures they will also maintain privacy.

    e. Keyholder may punish User as deemed appropriate by the Keyholder for any failings regarding his obligations. Punishment shall not cause permanent injury or markings and shall meet discretion requirements of this contract.

    f. Keyholder may choose to take photographs or videos, publishing/posting as desired, as long as the identity of User is not compromised and no facial images are shown.

    g. Keyholder may use User's hole body for any type of sexual activity.

    h. Keyholder may choose to purchase other chastity or similar devices.

    i. Keyholder shall tease and shows off the User's chastity to in front her female friends.

    j. Keyholder shall handover the keys to other females for the period of time decided by Keyholder and User have to obey.

    k. Keyholder shall transfer/gifted, sell or donate the all rights and key of the chastity to other girls for period of time desided by Keyholder. Its may be short turm or lifetime. After hanovering the key, all terms and condition are also applied on new keyholder also.

    l. Keyholder has total control of User's genital, orgasm and body. Anytime she used that for her sexual satisfaction. Also for other females.
    She can use them for business purpose.

    m. Keyholder can share the key's to other females so Keyholder can force User to be in under control of many females with all terms of contract.

    n. User's genital are Keyholder's property so she can precision and surgery on them for other new type of chastity or permanent type chastity.

    o. After frist duration of contract Keyholder can lock User in permanent chastity according to punishment terms of contract..

    5. Duration of the contract:
    The frist duration of contract is 1 year excluding the penelty period. If the contract will not cancelled in this duration by any reasons then the duration of contact extended to lifetime for User. All terms and conditons will remain same.

    6. Cancellation of the contract:
    User never requests the cancellation of the contract except the following cases.

    a. The relationship between User and Keyholder ends.

    b. Either User or Keyholder is unable to execute ones obligation due to long-term illness or some other reasons.

    c. It becomes obvious that wearing the chastity device results in serious health problems for User.

    d. Either User or Keyholder moves out of the area due to career or family obligations.

    e. If Keyholder did physical harmed to User.

    7. Penalties and Punishments

    a. Both parties agree that deviation from contract will result in either cancellation of contract or punishments to correct errant behavior.

    b. Breach of contract by Keyholder will constitute a cancellation of contract.

    c. Cancellation of contract will result in immediate release of User from device.

    d. Only Unauthorized removal of device will result in a extra 30day period of lock up and denial for User. Absolutely no sexual releases will be allowed for User during this penalty period.

    e. Unauthorized removal of device that includes a sexual release will result in a extra 60day period of lock up and denial for User. Again, absolutely no sexual releases will be allowed for User during this penalty period. Additional punishment may be added as determined by Keyholder.

    f. If User failes to obey the Keyholder's orders then extra 30 days are added.

    j. On the order of Keyholder if User dose not participate in the Keyholder's sexual or other activity means extra 30days of punishment.

    k. In case of selling, transfering/gifting or donating the rights and key by Keyholder. If User failure to accept this then User permanently denined to genital sexual intercourse with anyone.

    l. If User failuer to sexually satisfy the Keyholder with his genital(penis) and Keyholder accept that as well as Keyholder thinks the size genital is so small and she dosent require it anymore then Keyholder can lock it in parmanent chastity for forever.

    m. If User agrees that failure to accept terms of punishment for infractions. Then Keyholder can lock chastity for permanent without any orgasm for lifetime.

    n. If User and Keyholder are married then Keyholder can lock User in permanent type chastity for lifetime without any reason.

    Statement.:
    Both User(User) and Keyholder(Keyholder) without any mental or physical stress and in their full conciousness agreed on all the above terms and conditons with each own free will and each keeps a duplicated document signed by both.


    User NAME:__________________________signed_______________________
    Date: ___________________


    Keyholder Name:_______________________ signed__________________
    Date: ___________________
     
  16. We have one, but we somehow never really read it anymore... so, de facto it is: "I'm the boss of you"
     
  17. We found the word 'Contract' to be meaningless. It could never be enforced, it has no teeth all though I agree that depending on your situation, it may have an important strength to help you with your fantasy / reality.

    We opted for an Agreement and state very clearly, "It is the intent of this agreement to establish Guidelines so we each know what expectations we have for each other. Principles that serve as the foundation of our mutual understanding. And Boundaries that define the limits of our joint as well as very personal journey."

    I can only speak for myself but, I stick to the spirit of the agreement as a matter of personal honor.
     
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    Quite so. Obviously it can't be enforced as such so it's very silly trying to pretend otherwise. It can though be evidence of consent which is half way there. And within the context of other handles and aspects (which could be vanilla and/or enforceable).....there is plenty of scope.....:)
     
  19. Some of us are in emotional 'mate' relationships where contract does not make sense... I always considered the contract thing to be more in the "Master/slave" scene as part of a negotiation... eh, what do I know?
     
  20. As a BDSM contract is non binding in law, we have entered "an agreement" instead. It's quite simple but it says all that needs to be said I think:
    Chastity agreement




    In respect of my desire to place myself sexually under Your control, by offering you the key I am explicitly agreeing to the folowing clauses.



    1) This agreement is made at the specific and earnest request of the slave.


    2) The term of Chastity will run from now until 31 Dec 2015. On that date it may be extended to 31 Dec 2016 if both parties agree.


    3) The Mistress may terminate the agreement at any time.


    4) The slave may request termination of the agreement at any time. In such case slave is to be refered to clause 1 and period of chastity will be extended by one month.


    5) The slave is not entitled to any sexual release during the period of the agreement, and shall remain locked in chastity for the duration of the agreement except when permitted by the Mistress.


    6) The slave may be awarded points to be put toward temporary release from chastity device.


    7) The Mistress may offer the slave a release at any time of her chosing. The manner of the release will be at the Mistress's sole discretion, and the slave may either accept or remain in chastity.


    8) The slave may request release once a month, but this request may be declined. If granted the manner of release will be of the Mistress's choice,


    9) The slave shall be released periodically for hygiene reasons. The release to be limited to requirements of cleanliness.


    10) The Mistress is under no obligation to allow the slave sexual release.


    11) The Mistress is under no obligation to release slave from chastity except as required for health reasons.
     
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  21. I don't care much for the terms "master" and "slave" in chastity agreements, even though okay for short-term role play. For these chastity contracts I much prefer the terms "dominant" and "submissive."
     
  22. I have recently signed a chastity contract. I modified one that was received from a friend on Tumbler. I will share it here but only after getting their permission.
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  23. On December 20 we singed our chastity contract. You find the full contract below.

    My beloved HK instructed me to hang it on the wall next to our bed.

    Chastity Contract Between A and S

    Background

    A has harboured ideas and fantasies of male chastity and orgasm control, enforced by unbreakable chastity belts for as long as he can remember, probably since 6-7 years of age. A still finds idea extremely hot and exciting and wants to try to incorporate this in our everyday life. S also finds the idea very erotic, hot and fun, and has therefore agreed to be his key holder. We have therefore agreed that:

    Chastity

    • A is to be locked in a secure chastity belt at all times.
    • Any exceptions from this is decided by S.
    • A has no decision in this after the signing of this contract.
    Orgasm control

    • A is never, under no circumstances, allowed to orgasm without S’ expressed permission.
    • A is not allowed to touch himself without S’ expressed permission other than for utilitarian purposes.
    • Permission to enter S does not include permission for A to enjoy release.
    • During sex A always has to tell S before reaching the point of no return, so that she can act accordingly.
    • If approaching an orgasm while penetrating S, A is to stop until he calms down and then continue at a phase that will keep him from getting an orgasm, until S gets her orgasm or tells him to stop.
    • Even if S continues after A has alerted, and he gets release, S may at her discretion treat this as a breach of the rules above.
    • S has the right to cancel a given permission to orgasm at any time, with or without further comment.
    • S may keep A locked up and without sexual release for any time period decided by her.
    • A can ask when S plans to release him on one occasion per new lock up after orgasm. If S chose not to answer, A is not to ask again.
    Key management

    There are 2 keys to A’s chastity belt. One is to be in S’ possession at all times. The other will be regarded as a safety key. When together S will have both keys under her control. Using pre-commitment enabled by a time-lock,A is to keep the safety key locked away, always when home alone, and mostly when out of home. Timer to be set only to allow lock up for special commitments such as sports or activities where the chastity becomes an obstacle for normal life. When out of the belt A is to behave as if he was still locked up. No touching allowed apart from a swift cleaning and shaving (whenever possible under her supervision) once a week.

    Intimacy & sex

    • It is A’s obligation to make S’ key holding experience as fulfilling and positive as possible, at all times.
    • Both S and A has the right to initiate sex. If initiated by S, A has no right to refuse. S has the right to refuse A with or without any further comment.
    • S has the expressed right to request any sexual favours of her liking performed on her by A, or the other way around.
    • S may schedule, by date and time, when A is to deliver sexual favours. This is binding for A.
    • A is to have a positive attitude to any suggestions coming from S.
    • A can suggest sexual activities, but S makes the final decision.
    Disagreements

    • If there are any disagreements on this contract, S deems what is correct or not.
    Sanctions

    • Sanctions are to decided by Sandra
    • A has no right to question or argue any duration or severity of the sanction decided by S.
    Re-negotiation, amendments and cancellation

    • This contract will be reviewed, discussed and revised at 3, 6 and 12 months after signature. A may bring up suggestions for discussion. S decides on the final wording and all content of this contract.
    • S can cancel this contract at any time.
    • A has no right to cancel this contract.
    This contract will be valid immediately on A and S signing it. Keys to be handed over upon signing this contract.

    December 20, 2015, signed,
     
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  24. A little while ago I said I would post the contract I am using as long as I got permission from the people I received it from. I got it from a couple on Tumblr Their handle on Tumblr is "ifitisgoodforthegoose" I really like the comprehensive nature of their document. Here it is... It's 19 pages, so longish, but worth looking at... This is their original contract. My wife and I have changed it to suit us a little better, but our changes are minimal.
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