Chastity Contracts

madams-sissysub · Jul 10, 2020

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agree with this, but madam and I have a contract as well, it’s more of a show of devotion to her than a legal document.

willingblake · Jan 7, 2024

Badbob said: ↑

Here is one I like for a female led marriage. It provides what I think of as a reasonable basis for changes in the contract and control while still maintaining her in a superior position.

Contract of Service

This Contract of Service (Contract or Agreement) is entered into voluntarily by both parties without duress of any kind. This Agreement is by and between ______________ (Wife) and _____________ (Husband).

Article I Recitals

1.1 Whereas, Husband acknowledges his deep need for loving female authority, and guidance.

1.2 Whereas, it is in the interest of both parties to have a strong and loving marriage.

1.3 Therefor, Husband, desiring to improve himself and the marital relationship, has wisely concluded that he should agree to a Contract of Service for the benefit of Wife, in which substantially all control of the relationship is in her hands. Wife, in exchange, offers to fulfill Husbands need for loving female authority under this Agreement.

Article II Definitions

2.01 Abrogate the Contract The rejection by the Husband of the Contract, leaving the marriage without any terms other than the original marriage vows. Permitted at only one time a year.

2.02 Chastity Device A locking device for preventing both erection and Orgasm, but allowing for urination and reasonable hygiene. Currently the CB2000.

2.03 Orgasm (male) An ejaculatory release of semen.

2.04 Prostate Milking The massage of the prostate gland in such a manner as to release ejaculate and/or other accumulated fluids without an Orgasm.

2.05 Punishment Period of Denial A period of time in which Husband is denied an Orgasm for punishment, as opposed to ordinary periods of denial.

2.06 Regular Duties A list of chores, duties and responsibilities and their frequency of performance.

2.07 Review A regular meeting in which performance under this Agreement is evaluated. This is also the time when Husband should make any confessions of infractions of the Rules. Husband will be offered an opportunity to express comments, concerns and thoughts for the Wifes consideration.

2.08 Rules In general, this Agreement in its entirety, as well as any Special Duties, Programs, Rules or requirements Wife may impose at any time.

2.09 Special Duties A list, though it may not be in writing, of tasks, chores, duties, actions and responsibilities to be performed, typically of a limited or non-recurring nature.

2.10 Special Programs Actions to accomplish a specific goal, e.g. weight loss, stop smoking, eat healthier, etc.

2.11 Unauthorized Orgasm Any Orgasm Husband has by any means that occurs without Wifes specific permission.

2.12 Unauthorized Sexual Contact Any contact with Husbands genitals, by anyone without Wifes specific permission, regardless of whether an Orgasm occurs or not.

Article III General Terms

3.01 Husband will always treat Wife with the utmost respect and affection in and outside the home.

3.02 Husband agrees to cheerfully and without complaint immediately comply with all of Wifes requests.

3.03 Husband agrees, if after full discussion no consensus is reached, to defer to her decisions in all matters.

3.04 Husband agrees to accept without complaint or argument her evaluation of his performance under this Contract.

3.05 Husband agrees to accept any punishments she may decide to impose for breaches of the Rules or this Contract.

3.06 Husband agrees to perform Regular Duties to the best of his abilities as detailed in Exhibit A.

3.07 Husband agrees to perform Special Duties as Wife may require of him from time to time.

3.08 Husband agrees to take all necessary steps and follow direction to accomplish the goals Wife sets out in Special Programs.

3.09 Husband agrees to promptly and completely confess all infractions of the Rules or terms of this Contract.

3.10 Husband agrees to provide sexual services to Wife at any time, in any manner and under any conditions she desires. Including, but not limited to, providing her with as many orgasms as she desires regardless of whether or not he is permitted one.

3.11 Husband agrees to accept without complaint, both verbal or through physical demeanor or facial expression, Wifes decisions regarding any sexual contact he may have with her.

3.12 Husband agrees that even during sexual relations with Wife, he must seek permission for his Orgasm before it is inevitable.

Article IV Chastity

4.01 Husband surrenders complete control of his Orgasm to Wife. She alone has the power to permit him an Orgasm.

4.02 Husband shall not seek, nor permit, any unauthorized sexual contact, as defined in 2.12.

4.03 Wife has graciously decided that Husband will not be kept in a Chastity Device permanently.

4.04 Wife has generously decided that Husband will not be punished for an Unauthorized Orgasm, provided that it:
is confessed to her no later that the first Review following its occurrence,
has been at least 30 days since the last Unauthorized Orgasm,
did not occur during a Punishment Period of Denial, and
did not occur during a period in which his performance of Regular and Special Duties was less than acceptable.

4.05 Wife decides the method, manner and severity of punishments for Unauthorized Orgasm.

4.06 Wife may choose to conclude that an Unauthorized Orgasm has occurred solely on the basis of slipping performance of Regular and Special Duties. In this event, she will pick the date from within the last Review period to be deemed the date of the Unauthorized Orgasm.

4.07 Notwithstanding other punishments that she may impose, Wife has determined the minimum punishment for an Unauthorized Orgasm to be:
confinement in a Chastity Device for a period of not less than 30 days,
a Punishment Period of Denial of 30 days to run concurrently with Chastity Device confinement, and
30 spanks on the bare buttocks with the implement of her choice.

4.08 Wife acknowledges that for the general health of Husband, if he has not been permitted an Orgasm for 28 days or more, including during Punishment Periods of Denial, that his prostate will be milked no later than 35 days from his last Orgasm or Prostate Milking.

4.09 During periods of enforced chastity, Husband will be allowed out of the Chastity Device for routine cleanings and teasings, at times and under conditions to be determined by Wife.

4.10 While confined in a Chastity Device, Husband will always have access to an emergency key, which will be in tamper evident packaging. The unopened package must be shown to Wife upon her request, and returned following the end of his period of enforced chastity.

4.11 Unauthorized removal of the Chastity Device is a punishable offense. In addition, there will be an immediate presumption that an Unauthorized Orgasm occurred. Furthermore, the provisions of 4.04, exempting certain Unauthorized Orgasms from punishment, will not apply in this case.

Article V Punishments

5.01 Husband surrenders to Wife the complete discretion to determine the manner, form and severity of punishments.

5.02 Punishments may include but are not limited to:
extra duties or chores,
denial of other forms of affection for a specified period of time,
extending the period of Orgasm denial, such extension known as a Punishment Period of Denial,
confinement in a Chastity Device for a specified period of time, and
spankings, strappings and canings.

5.03 Wife, in her sole discretion, may offer Husband a choice between two or more punishments.

Article VI Privileges

Wife, in her kindness and wisdom, grants the following privileges to Husband:

6.01 Husband may masturbate to the edge of Orgasm as often as he desires, when not confined in the Chastity Device. Privilege to masturbate is not approval for Orgasm, and Husband assumes the full risk and responsibility for even an unintentional Orgasms, which will be treated as Unauthorized.

6.02 Husband may initiate a request for sex with Wife at any time, and cheerfully accept her answer, or her terms under which it will occur.

6.03 Husband will not be required to disclose the contents of this Agreement to anyone.

6.04 Husband will not be required to wear the Chastity Device for medical checkups or procedures, or in other circumstances where exposure is unavoidable. Husband may agree to wear the device in such circumstances.

6.05 Husband may offer ideas and suggestions, especially in anticipation of her needs, on any matter that may arise between them.

6.06 Husband will not be humiliated or belittled personally or in front of others in any fashion.

6.07 Every Sunday at a time of Wifes convenience, a Review will be held. This will cover the following items:
Husbands performance for the week
Husbands confessions of infractions of the Rules
Husbands comments, concerns and thoughts are offered for her consideration. Husband must not state these as requests, merely express his desires and feelings. Wife, being the fair and loving person she is, will take these under consideration. Her decisions about his comments will be final. Inasmuch as these are not requests, she is under no obligation to respond to them at the time of the Review.

Article VII Amendment and Renewal

7.01 The term of this Agreement is a calendar year, January 1 through December 31. The Agreement may be extended and renewed indefinitely.

7.02 Wife has the full authority to amend this Agreement at any time, not only in the addition to Regular and Special Duties, but also in any other aspect.

7.03 Wife expresses the opinion that more restrictive is not necessarily better, that her objective is not to merely increase rigidity or severity of control; but rather to improve the marital relationship. Therefore, Wife has generously decided of her own accord that such amendments during the course of the calendar year will not materially increase the restrictiveness of the terms of service. Wife has the sole discretion to determine whether or not such changes constitute material increase in severity.

7.04 With the exception of the first Review of the new calendar year, Husband will graciously be permitted to propose changes to this Contract and his reasons on the first Review of a calendar quarter. In order to preserve the final authority of Wife, this is not a negotiation, Wife has final authority to accept all, some or none of the changes proposed by Husband.

7.05 The first Review following the start of the calendar year, is special as it sets up the renewal of the Contract of Service. It is the one time when Husband has the most freedom, essentially to accept or Abrogate the Contract. Husband must do one of the following:
Accept the then current Contract (with changes made during the course of the year, including those which may have been made specifically for the new calendar year),
Accept With Concerns that certain provisions may be so restrictive that he fears he may Abrogate the Contract, or
Abrogate the Contract in its entirety.

7.06 Abrogation of the Contract does not mean the end of the marriage, but such decision should be viewed as of similar magnitude. Husband pledges not to attempt to use this privilege as a negotiating ploy, but to do so only in the most extreme situation.

7.07 In the event that Husband Accepts With Concerns, the Contract as currently amended by Wife is renewed for a period of one month. On the first Review of February, Husband must select either to renew the then current Contract for the balance of the year, or to Abrogate the Contract in its entirety. Wife may, of her own decision, choose to amend the Contract he is presented on the first Review of February as the one to be completely Accepted or Abrogated. The Contract he is presented in February has only two options for Husband; Accept or Abrogate.

Agreed to this date _________________________

Husband: _________________________________

Wife: ____________________________________

Exhibit A Regular Duties

Husbands Regular Duties are as follows, subject to amendment without notice:

<fill in what you need>

Exhibit B Rules

In addition to the entire Contract, Regular and Special Duties, and Special Programs, the following Rules are prescribed:

<fill in what you need>
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This is fantastic. Thank you. I am definitely going to draw inspiration from this as I write my own to present to a woman I’m hopeful will be my Mistress.

willingblake · Jan 7, 2024

sonhee said: ↑

Below are our "rules" (not really a legal contract because that's a turn off). It's partly based on the contract posted on the first page here.

This is fantastic. Thank you. I am definitely going to draw inspiration from this as I write my own to present to a woman I’m hopeful will be my Mistress

Satisfying the Wife: The Husband agrees to satisfy the Wife by whatever means she deems necessary for sexual gratification.

Initial lock-up period: There is an initial lock-up period of at least 3 months, during which the Husband must not be unlocked by the Wife. During this period, the Husband is not allowed any sexual release, and the Wife cannot unlock the device for intercourse. The Wife can extend the initial lock-up period at her pleasure, up to a maximum of 12 months.

Releases: After the initial lock-up period, the Wife is given sole discretion of how often the device will be unlocked, and how often and in which manner the Husband is allowed sexual release. The Husband agrees that sexual releases may be accompanied by being restrained as determined by the Wife, and that the Wife may release the Husband for the means of sexual play but that no orgasm is permitted until the Wife permits one.

No begging: The Husband will not ask or beg for a sexual release. During intercourse, the Husband will not ejaculate or ask whether he can ejaculate until the Wife proactively permits it.

Ejaculation warning: During intercourse, sexual play, or teasing, the Husband will announce when he is close to ejaculation, so that the Wife can decide whether she will stop stimulation or allow the Husband a full or 'ruined' orgasm.

Playing along: The Husband will not resist a re-locking of the device after removal. Furthermore, the Husband will not attempt to defeat the device in any way.

Keyholding: The Wife will retain the key to the chastity device and will not leave the key in a place easily accessible for the Husband.

Emergency key: The Wife will make one emergency key available to the Husband for use in medical emergency, doctor appointments, medical or extreme discomfort issues, and any similar situations in which the device needs to be removed for a limited amount of time. The emergency key will be sealed in a tamper-evident way. The Husband agrees that in such situation he will notify the Wife immediately and that no sexual release is permitted. Once the situation has rectified, the Husband will re-secure device immediately and the key will be sealed as soon as possible.

Hygiene: The Husband is responsible to keep his genitals as clean as possible and to shave his pubic hair regularly. In the event that the chastity device needs to be unlocked for the purpose of a 'deep clean', this has to be done under supervision of the Wife, and the Husband agrees that he will immediately re-secure the device afterwards.

Punishments: Breach of contract by the Husband, such as asking for release or the unauthorized removal of the device, will be handled at the discretion of the Wife and may result in punishment, including but not limited to additional periods of lock-up and denial for Husband, submissive acts such as consumption of ejaculate, or physical punishment of the testicles or bottom.

Outside the bedroom: The fact that the Husband is wearing a chastity device will be kept confidential. Both parties agree that every day life decisions such as child development, household finances, and other marital decisions outside the bedroom will have no effect on terms of this agreement, and that such decisions made can have no impact on the terms of this agreement.

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willingblake · Jan 7, 2024

xcitex2 said: ↑

Our first Contract

Below you will find a copy of our most recent contract, literally just finished this weekend. It is by no means an end all contract but it was important to both of us (My Wife and I) to keep some of the vanilla elements in here until we can establish a longer term arrangement.

Enjoy and feel free to use any part of this for your needs.

Chastity Contract

Definitions  

CHASTITY BELT Any lockable wearable device designed for continuous wear to prevent masturbation, infidelity, control sexual urges or aggression, or sexual intercourse.  

USER The individual who will wear the device, hereafter referred to as the HUSBAND. By definition the HUSBAND has granted the control of his sexual organs and services to the KEYHOLDER.  

KEYHOLDER The individual who will hold the key and the control for the device, hereafter referred to as the WIFE. By definition, the WIFE is the individual entrusted to have absolute say in the use of the user�s sexual organs and services.

Term

� Husband will wear said device for a period determined by Wife.

Hygiene

� Husband is responsible for daily cleaning of device.

� Husband will notify the Wife immediately of any concerns regarding function or cleanliness of device.

� The Wife will permit at least one removal of device in a seven-day period for cleaning and shaving.

� Husband agrees that such release may be supervised and agrees to all terms of release as set forth by Wife, including restraints if deemed necessary.

� Husband agrees that during release for cleaning he will shave accordingly to keep genital area free from hair.

� Husband agrees that he will immediately re-secure device after all cleanings.

� Both parties acknowledge that a release from device may be permitted for medical or extreme discomfort issues. However during such release no sexual releases are permitted and husband agrees once medical condition is rectified immediate return of the device will commence without delay.

Keys

� Wife will retain all keys to said device.

� Wife will carry one key on her person at all times.

� Husband will not attempt to defeat the device in any way.

� Wife will make one emergency key available to Husband for use in medical emergency, doctor appointments, and any other situation in which excessive bodily harm may be present to Husband.

� Husband agrees that in such emergency he will notify Wife immediately and that no sexual release is permitted. If self-release is attempted and/or carried out, punishment as outlined in the contract will be applied.

� Husband agrees that once medical condition has been rectified Husband will re-secure device immediately and notify Wife of said action.

Sexual Release

� Wife agrees that husband will be entitled to at least three releases in any sixty-day period. Releases will be for a period of no less than 8 hours but no more than 24 hours.

� Wife is given sole discretion of how releases will be carried out. At least two of the three releases will be by means of sexual intercourse.

� Husband acknowledges and agrees that Wife has certain sexual needs that may need fulfilled and such releases for Wife do not constitute a release for Husband.

� Husband agrees to satisfy Wife by whatever means Wife deems necessary for sexual gratification.

� Husband agrees that sexual releases may be accompanied by being restrained as determined by Wife.

� Husband agrees that Wife may release husband for the means of sexual play but that no orgasm is permitted until Wife permits one.

� Husband agrees to use any sexual aids such as (but not limited to) strap-ons, vibrators, dildos, and other artificial aids to satisfy Wife.

� Husband agrees that Wife may use devices mentioned above in addition to other restraints on Husband and Husband will have no say in objecting to such devices. (Although begging up to a point will be allowed, once Husband is told by Wife to stop, the expectation is compliance. Failure will result in punishment both immediate and future.)

Non-Sexual Releases

� Husband agrees that Wife may release Husband out of good nature and that such a release from device is not grounds for sexual release.

� Husband agrees to abide by all directions from Wife during such releases.

� Husband agrees to re-secure device upon command from Wife.

Attire

� Husband agrees that Wife may require certain clothing to be worn by Husband, including but not limited to feminine clothing such as heels, hosiery, and other items. In such cases Husband agrees to follow directives as set forth by Wife.

� Wife agrees that she will not require clothing that would be detrimental to normal public wear or that would otherwise affect public opinion, interfere with work duties, or that would cause public humiliation for Husband.

� Husband acknowledges that Wife may adorn herself in various clothing to tease and/or torment Husband and that Husband is not entitled to a sexual release because of such adornment.

General Understandings

� Both parties agree that every day life decisions such as child development, household finances, and other marital decisions outside the bedroom will have no effect on terms of this agreement, and that such decisions made can have no impact on the terms of this agreement.

� Husband agrees and understands that Wife may use various methods to tease and torment Husband at any time. Further more, Husband understands that he has no say in such teasing and that Wife may continue at will.

� Wife understands that she is free to receive any form of sexual gratification needed from Husband during periods of confinement.

� Husband is aware that rewards � up to and including sexual release � are given for good behavior including but not limited to pampering, dinner dates, gifts, massages, and other ideas Husband comes up with.

� Both parties agree that modifications to this agreement may be needed during the period of this agreement and that such modifications can be made as long as both parties are in agreement.

Penalties and Punishments

� Both parties agree that deviation from contract will result in either cancellation of contract or punishments to correct errant behavior.

� Breach of contract by Wife will constitute a cancellation of contract.

� Cancellation of contract will result in immediate release of Husband from device.

� Breach of contract by Husband will be handled at the discretion of the Wife as outlined below.

� Unauthorized removal of device will result in a thirty-day period of lock up and denial for Husband. Absolutely no sexual releases will be allowed for Husband during this penalty period.

� Unauthorized removal of device that includes a sexual release will result in a forty-five day period of lock up and denial for Husband. Again, absolutely no sexual releases will be allowed for Husband during this penalty period. Additional punishment may be added as determined by Wife

� Husband agrees that additional restraining, flogging, private humiliation, servitude, and any other means of punishment may be administered by Wife to correct or punish infractions from contract.

� Husband agrees that failure to accept terms of punishment for infractions is means for immediate termination of this agreement and that such refusal could lead to other detrimental behavior on part of Wife.

Wife Signature____________________________________Date_ _______________

Husband Signature_________________________________Date____ ____________

Upon signing of contract Husband is to immediately secure said device and hand over keys to Wife. Terms of this contract commence upon transfer of keys.
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This is fantastic. Thank you. I am definitely going to draw inspiration from this as I write my own to present to a woman I’m hopeful will be my Mistress

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