Being shown to old friends

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    So I’m divorced and my keyholder is my ex (mistress) and her new husband (master). For the past few years, things have been fine and I’m fine being naked in front of my ex and her hubby, in panties, or just in my cage while doing home chores (cooking, cleaning, etc). Recently they both out of the blue suggested that I’m shown wearing my cage to their friends who happen to be my good friends as well. I’m hesitant to that being naked in panties or just cage in front of them and being humiliated, how do I tell master and mistress I’m not comfortable with it as I don’t want to piss them off. Any suggestions?
     
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    You've accepted the situation that you are currently in. Ex wife Mistress & hub Master right. So either do as they want or move on.

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    I understand but I’m really shy being in that position in front of outsider that too our friends, may be I have to just accept it
     
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    Seems the only logical thing suck it up

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    You're at a fork in the road. You can go left or right, and only you can decide. Either way, you've a big decision to make... Good luck
     
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    Do your mistress / master have an intimate relationship with this groups of friends (swinging etc) or is it just an opportunity to humiliate you?

    Innocent third parties should not just have something like this thrown upon them. It may well be they already know about your situation?

    But as above, you can accept it or not, your choice.
     
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    They know the situation which I’m fine with no issues, they know I’m always locked up, wear panties etc. No they are not intimate or swinging, May me more to humiliate me I guess.
     
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    Choose wisely.
     
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    Okay, this should be fairly straightforward:

    If you are in a CNC relationship (Consensual non Consent for those who are not familiar) and this was not established established when you setup the relationship as a hard limit. Then not going through with it may put an end to your dynamic.

    If you are not in a CNC relationship, then man up discuss your concerns or state it as a hard limit. If they are not willing to discuss your concerns in a reasonable manner or won't respect your boundaries. Then you should end the relationship.
     
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    BINGO!

    You are correct.

    This is a relationship. Unconventional, but still a relationship. Relationships have rules and limits.

    Talk about your feelings and if they do not respect them and you are not comfortable then it's time to leave.

    If someone truly cares about someone they would not make them do something they are not comfortable with.

    If you DID NOT consent to this and WILL NOT consent to it and they still want you to do it, it is an unhealthy relationship and it is time to move on.

    Good luck and be strong.

    You may be a submissive, but you are still a person.

    Never forget that.

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    As others have said, it is your choice. One choice which may lead to the loss or your role as sub to them and the other choice would be a further entrenchment as a chastity sub. My questions would be:

    1). Do you get off on humiliation and if so, does this sound exciting to you?
    2). How much of an escalation does this seem to you, as the friends already know your sub particulars?
    3). How would you feel if you ended this sub relationship?

    Honestly, if this were me, i'm not sure what i would do. But good luck and enjoy.
     
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    well you cud always ask if you cud be allow to have a bit more on to cover you a bit more. ask if you cud have a romper on. and then if they really really want to see your cage it easy to show it.
     
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    I think it's not as bad as you think. Let other people snicker if they must but you have to be who you are. Be true to yourself for your own happiness in life. This is a golden opportunity for you, no more hiding from good friends. You have so much to gain from enduring just 5 minutes of laughter. Laugh right along with them.!
     
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    I think yes, I will let them do what they want and obey them, as that’s what I’m now a sissy boy.
     
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    If that is what YOU WANT....then go for it.

    Iso.
     
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    Will you be posting an updated on how it went?
     
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    Yes I will, they will here for lunch tomorrow so let’s see.
     
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    I say suck it up buttercup but it is truly your choice. But let us know how it goes
     
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    If your friends already know about your situation, I don't see what you have to lose by agreeing to be humiliated in front of them. I don't think anything will change for them if they see you. It is ultimately your decision of course. I say life is short, don't have regrets. I wish I had said yes more often.
     
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    Exactly. Talk first. If they understand and are willing to respect your serious concerns, then you may not need to do anything else. If they still insist on you doing what you are uncomfortable with, then you need to decide what is more important to you.
     
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    well he has sayed now that he is gonna show folks when he is told to.
     
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    I agree!
     
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    Many people forget that it is the sub who has the power in a sub/dom relationship.
    The sub has the power to say 'no' and should they do so, the game is over.
    A dom who cannot or does not accept that isn't a dom. They are an abuser.

    If you really really don't want to do this - don't.

    If the pull of your inner yin/yang inner tells you that do-don't want to do this, a compromise may be in order.
    Perhaps wearing a masquerade mask, or extreme makeup.
     
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    If you’re uncomfortable with it......
    THEN DONT DO IT. plain n simple.
    Screw your Ex n her new dupe.
    IMHO
     
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