Asking for permission to pee

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    My wife introduced a new rule in our life. When I need to pee now I have to ask her for permission.

    She explained me the reasons for this new rule:

    - she loves that she does not only controll that I am soft in my cage, but also that I have to ask her to do a basic thing. A thing which is the only regular thing my / her dick is allowed to do...

    When we are home alone she nowadays also comes with me to the restroom and watches as I put up my dress, lower my pantys and sit on our toilette to pee just like a girl through my chastity device. She told me that watching me gives her a feeling of ultimate power and I am feeling unbelievable ashamed.

    Do you have similar rules or are you free to do what you like with your dicks, as far as it isn’t sex?
     
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    Only that I sit to pee. The cage actually for requires it to prevent a mess. But now it an expected action.
     
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    That level of control is admirable, assuming your Domme wants it. I would probably feel equally embarrassed, as it would reinforce how totally she owns my cock. But it also puts a burden on her, so it would only work if she is willing to use her time that way. My only question would be, if you are in a group, do you have to raise your hand and ask permission to go pee?
     
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    My go gorgeous Mistress loves to see me sit down and pee - then dry myself off with toilet paper to prevent drips,keep everything clean

    Often , she feels like going for herself for a pee and yours truejy has the honour of drying Mistress off with my lips.
     
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    Do not have to ask but have to sit. She did have me do naked house work. Well I was caged and plugged.
     
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    The only rule we ever had between us since we were married is I must leave the toilet seat down. Over the years there may have been a time or two I forgot to do that and it did piss her off. I am glad to say since I have been in chastity, I have never left the seat up. In fact, the seat is always down since I must use it that way as well.
     
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    It wud be no good for me cos i do housework in our house and when there no virus thingy Mistress is not here so i cant ask and i cant wait all day till She comes home cos i will wet my knickers.
     
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    I suspect the novelty might wear off for her after a while.
     
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    Sounds ridiculous, if you gotta pee you pee....
     
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    Does she ever make you wait to go? Is there a schedule you have to follow? Have you suggested this to her? Have you asked how you can make it more enjoyable for her?
     
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    So true! In my case if I've been having a day which has involved copious amounts of tea or coffee or indeed both, then my goodness do I wee a lot! Always remember in the days gone by when I used to drink alcohol, being amazed at how for every pint of beer I drank I would pee 2 pints!
     
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    Ive been made to stand in the bath tub and she's told me to pee in my panties, she likes to see my pee running down my legs, then said, "now go wash your panties"
     
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    My sub-hubby (who is at home full-time) must ask my permission to pee, which I always immediately grant. This reinforces his submissive position in our FLR.

    But this rule is not absolute. For example, if he knows that I am busy or unavailable he can pee on his own without asking my permission. But at the earliest opportunity he must tell me that he did so.
     
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    When I spend time with Mistress (we don't live in the same town), I must ask permission to use the toilet if she is present. (We don't spend every minute together.) If she is not present, I am free to go as I need.

    Usually permission is granted, but sometimes she will make me wait. It does amuse her to see me a bit uncomfortable, but she always allows me to go if an "accident" would result.

    it is not about being mean (although Mistress does enjoy being somewhat sadistic). it is about control. She wants to condition me to understand that the cock is her property.
     
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    @MissyB: yes even in a group of people I have to ask my wife for allowance to pee. She wants to make a statement to her friends and the people around us. Her goal is to make sure that other people know, that she is in charge of my manhood. That‘s why I am only allowed to wear female clothes, that I only have „sex“ without using „her“ penis and that she now even controlls when I have to pee because it goes through „her penis“.

    @anasyrma: my wife usually doesn’t let me wait until she allows me to go...she only enjoys the rush of beeing in charge and the feeling of absolute controll about „her penis“. I don’t have a schedule to follow...As I am a stay-at-home-„husband“ my wife set the rule that I don‘t have to ask her when she is not at home but I have to tell her when I was as soon as she comes back because she loves the embarrassment when I have to report this to her.
     
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    I think it is only proper that you report every use of your wife's penis to her. She deserves to know everything that happens to her property. It doesn't belong to you, you are only looking after it for her. Your devotion and constant humiliation in front of others is admirable. You are lucky to have such a caring wife.
     
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    Been married 39 years learned slowly at first lid down. For over 30 years lid is always down at home. I been sitting that long. Our original chastity experiments started it but it became a rule even after the cage fell from use.

    Today with her restart into using chastity has added another mandate for sitting. Now my challenge is watching what's happening in case things spray sideways. Hope a future proper fitting cage will improve things.
     
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    Currently during my week long bussiness trip she as part of a quest given to me is having to keep a diary of events.

    One of those includes logging all of my visits to pee during day and night. I also have to take and share her a photo of caged pee event as part of the quest. At work and hotel. I have include the cage and my panties showing because panties 24 hours was an additional requirement. Has made work week extra challenging to prevent any panty peeking out along with getting a stall when needed.

    The quest challenge is part of trying to prevent our future sleeping arrangements becoming separate twin beds. Penance for my bad actions she was upset with me.
     
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    I need to set to pee. That's all. She does have me trained though . Was unlocked for 8 months and I know I didn't stand to pee once. Back to being locked up.
     
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    Many things become habit. Work to stop the bad ones and propagate the good ones.
     
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