Chastity and porn consumption

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    #1 BavarianWoman, Jun 28, 2023
    Hey guys

    What is your approach? Still watching, allowed or not, secretly?
     
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    #2 JaySaysYes, Jun 28, 2023
    Allowed, still watch from time to time but it's less and less each passing week.
     
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    #3 SissyMichelleNJ, Jun 28, 2023
    Not only am i allowed, i am ordered to watch porn. i love it solo but when Goddess joins and teases me it is an amazing torture!
     
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    #4 Susanstoy91, Jun 28, 2023
    My Wife (KH) allows me to watch it still. But, I don't watch much anymore. It's too frustrating. Get all excited knowing you can't relief yourself like before.
     
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    #5 captivatedbyher, Jun 28, 2023
    No porn, I think it sets up unrealistic expectations in my mind that I then project on my wife. Chastity for me is a way to focus my attention exclusively on my wife. I wish I could cage my eyes and see only her. However, I want to watch porn, even though I think its destructive.
     
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    #6 littleguy3, Jun 28, 2023
    My desire to watch porn was all but snuffed out by chastity. My wife expects me not to watch it. Now I drool over her. She's more beautiful and sexy now than I ever remember! It's liberating to have the desire to watch it virtually gone.
     
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    #7 Her Beloved, Jun 28, 2023
    Same!
     
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    #8 Pepe_, Jun 28, 2023
    After I'm locked for a while I don't really want anyone else other than my KH. I fantasize about her all the time. I look at things like captioned pictures and whatnot on this site and similar content others but not Pornhub or other classic porn-type sites. I'm just not into it. Even most erotica fails to excite at that point.
     
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    #9 Jay Sub, Jun 28, 2023
    It got milder and milder and now I rarely watch anything. The desire to be aroused when she isn't the one doing the arousing is just not there.
     
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    #10 BavarianWoman, Jun 28, 2023
    Different approaches but the majority seems to reduce porn consumption.
     
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    #11 JaySaysYes, Jun 28, 2023
    One soon realises the abject emptiness of the porn experience when denied for a while.

    Porn is a hollow experience.
     
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    #12 knightly, Jun 28, 2023
    Agreed. Porn is a path (like alcohol, sugar, scrolling Facebook) to distract from the underlying issue or pain. Once the core issue is resolved, the distraction isn't needed. Or can be contextualized into a place of moderation (ice cream or cake once and a while vs junk food all the time). If you're having a fun, sexy time with your partner and both can freely express yourselves, both get your needs met, etc, by that in a far more satisfying way, and the NEED for porn drops off.

    It may still add some spice as part of the meal. Or maybe not.
     
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    #13 A4w2, Jun 28, 2023
    Secretly generally, but my wife did know that I watched - but she didn’t realize how much. Since last may (when we started our mostly 24/7 chastity) - much less so. Now I have found out I am to be locked for the next 21 weeks - I think I am really going to avoid it.
     
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    #14 Midnight1966, Jun 28, 2023
    I've never really watched a lot of porn, solo arousal has usually been through the use of erotic hypnosis mp3s and erotic (usually femdom/FLR) fiction.

    I'm still listening to Mistress's audio files as they serve to deepen her control and my conditioning but I'm forbidden any climax. I haven't felt the need to read any erotica since being locked though, my thoughts are dominated by Mistress, as they should be.
     
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    #15 herluckyboi, Jun 28, 2023
    Not nearly as much as I used too
     
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    #16 Queens servant73, Jun 28, 2023
    Mostly bdsmlr and if I do watch any actual porn, it’s mostly chastity related stuff, although it’s fun to torture myself by occasionally watching things I’m not allowed to do anymore. I’d say overall my porn watching has dropped significantly since the cage went on.
    And my Wife allows it, she’ll watch some with me, and we both like to read some stories on Literotica sometimes too.
     
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    #17 SubSnuggler, Jun 28, 2023
    I also read Literotica and have thought a couple of times about writing out some pieces for them. I often have bouts of insomnia (night before last I slept only 3 hours) so I quietly read in bed. I lost my Oasis reader and so I read on my phone so as to not wake up the Wife with turning on lights.

    I do watch some erotica from time to time but not often cause... well like the rest of the guys here I can't rub one out and it sucks to just be aroused and not be able to do anything about it! If I do watch it's my own featuring my Wife or amateur stuff on XHamster.
     
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    #18 Shepherdsflock, Jun 28, 2023
    I'm sure my wife wouldn't allow it, but it's not something we've ever agreed to any formal rules about. I tried looking at porn twice in my life, and it just didn't do anything for me. It's like watching a cartoon or something, it just doesn't stimulate me.
     
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    #19 madams-sissysub, Jun 29, 2023
    I am allowed and me and my Madam also watch a lot of porn together to,
     
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    #20 LesterBallard, Jun 29, 2023
    Censored porn only
     
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    #21 laohuboy, Jun 29, 2023
    Still watch a lot of porn - always have.

    I enjoy it as I like the variety and can look for things as the pop-up in my head (asian nurse anal - for example).

    Porn consumption is now almost exclusively pegging and chastity (with some feet worship) and anything 'gentle femdom' (anything where she say's "Good Boy!" - will get me going immediately).

    I was always very open with my GF/KH about watching porn and will share things with her I think she'll like, e.g. gentle femdom pegging.

    I suspect she probably thinks I watch too much but the alternative is all my sexual energy would be focused on her and she needs a break sometimes :)
     
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    #22 CuriousAndy, Jun 29, 2023
    There doesn't seem to be any point when things are locked. I always thought of porn as something to masterbate too, not that I was ever massively into watching porn.
     
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    #23 BarbCD, Jun 30, 2023
    That’s kind of how I am. And no porn when locked up. While I LOVE being denied by my wife, it’s no fun at all watching porn while locked. The denial isn’t the same.
     
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    #24 Steelwerks Slave, Jun 30, 2023
    Watching porn has been greatly reduced. Much too painful at times.
     
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    #25 herluckyboi, Jun 30, 2023
    I have also noticed that now when watching porn it isn’t as arousing as before. Probably knowing that I can’t masturbate freely like I used to be able to is part of it but I think the real reason is being locked and now solely focusing on Her and Her pleasure makes porn boring.
     
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