Do you want to feel you're in chastity or not?

Somewhere in between the two. I want comfort as I am locked 24/7 but I also want a bit of discomfort to remind me that She has me locked. Each time I feel the pinch or pull of the cage, I instantly think of Her.

 

I agree. It needs to be comfortable enough to allow you to go about normal daily activities without being distracted or looking uncomfortable but let you know she has you locked as soon as you stop concentrating on day to day activities. Also I think it is a good idea for the cage to become rather uncomfortable if you go get more than slightly hard. Uncomfortable enough so that you really want to lose the erection rather than pursue the thought that caused it.

 

Comfort is paramount for 24/7 wear, can't afford rubbing or chafing. I'd forget I was wearing mine were it not for the constant dull ache in my balls.

 

I’m the same, I like to be comfortable but I like the feeling of knowing I’m caged. My madam likes it to be somewhat uncomfortable so she knows I’m enduring it for her.
Madam enjoys me having to deal with the daily discomforts and difficulties that go with chastity.

 

Comfort, unless I try to get hard.

 

Comfort.

 

I dont like pinching whenever I move/shift/sit/etc but otherwise a bit of discomfort now and then reminds me the cage is there for my "benefit"

Over long periods of lock up I need to be sure to use lotion from time to time to prevent any irritation from ring rubbing. Works well for me.

 

its got to be comfy if you have it for long long times.

 

The cage has to be comfortable unless your aroused. The denial should be challenging enough without a reminder.

 

Both. Loved how comfortable my birdcage one was but was almost too comfortable oddly. Been wearing a new one since Saturday that's a hair shorter but way less in diameter. It's comfortable and snug at same time which is great. I don't think a cage should pinch, hurt etc if it's meant to basically live in.

 

I like to know I have a cage on, but that's through the feeling of constant restraint around my penis/balls, not pain or discomfort though. Not all the time, but periodically during the day a reminder that you're caged is good

 

In a micro cage you can get very comfortable, but as soon as you're aroused you know about it . Perfect for 24/7 wear.

 

My cage fits me nearly perfect, when flaccid I am just up against the end of the cage. When I wore a slightly longer cage, it just never felt right and I was always adjusting the shaft and trying not to get pinched in spots. A good metal cage with some weight, accurate fitting, and internal lock fit the bill and there are days I actually forget its on. Then there are the days where being excited or having the wife grab it reminds me I do have it on and I focus on it.

 

Chastity isn't about cages for me.

 

My cage is comfortable but annoyingly restrictive when aroused because there is virtually no room for an erection. It frustratingly prevents stimulation during her intensive teasing so that I can't reach an orgasm. The challenge is never being able to get an erection.

 

I too found that to be the case once the cages got shorter than my flacid length is tough and sweet. Not being able to stretch out at all is frustratingly delicious. Probably the way I should feel about being locked rather then enjoy a 1/2 boner.
However,.
after a longer pause from chastity, getting to re-aclimate to a no-grow cage is more humbling and faster to bend your will towards surrender.
In 3 days flat a no-grow cage has me chomping at the bit.

 

For me, it's comfort. I have several cages, but the one I like the most is very small. I can wear it doing anything and it doesn't get in the way. Only bad part is, my Wife will tease me and try to get me hard, knowing that my poor penis is getting squished...She thinks it's funny that I can't get a full erection unless she allows me to take the cage off...

 

Comfort first.

I cannot stand having my balls tugged on, thats a no go. I find a good full belt much more comfortable to live in, so I accept the minor amount of negatives that come with the full belt life.

 

My cage is tight enough to feel like I am being gripped at all times. I don't like "bouncing off the walls", even if it is more comfortable. I like feeling it all time.

 

Funny thing is .... I don't notice it now unless I am trying to get hard. So that feeling is good and frustrating.

Crazy that I can now where my cage with no lube and I almost have no problems at all anymore. Everything has adjusted and got used to it.

The real question for me now is should I go s little smaller?

 

I think you know the answer!

 

I like knowing I am caged. Tighter the better I find. No erections possible and no chaffing.

 

Comfort is the key IMHO. I don't like cages. Start making anti-climax pills that are completely completely completely safe long-term and I'll be all in!

 

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