Locktober 2023 if you are already 24/7 caged

It's really what you make of it/your own goals.

Last Locktober I had the opposite goal of giving myself a ruined orgasm every day while caged and forcing myself to eat my cum - Some will call this failure but I call it a success/progress. I also made it a goal to reduce my unlocking from cleaning every 3 days to only once a week. Another huge goal of mine was to learn to adapt to sleeping in my cage. This Locktober will be my first time having a Key Holder - we are actually setting up some vanilla goals such as more stretching/exercising, losing weight, eating healthier, meditating, reading, etc.

Are there other kinks that you are interested in/beginner in, in which you can use this Locktober to be a catalyst to progress/learn more about those other kinks?

So really it just depends on what you want to accomplish.

 

,My KH has tasks planned throughout the month that test ability not to Orgasm in my cage. She has a number of lockees (long distance KH) and has done this for a couple of years. Tasks go beyond just edging time.

One she has done in the past before Locktoboer as example is tied to chair with a vibe stuff against the cage. Generally this task can go up to an hour. For Locktober the "random time can go as long as 3 hours before release.

Needless to say the one time I did draw the longest test I didnt pass. Punishment ensued.

 

This will be my 4th Locktober, and 3rd one after being locked basically 24/7. But my Wife just does what she wants as far as unlocking me to use her penis for piv, and even making me have ruined or full orgasms. It doesn’t matter what month it is.
I asked her if she thought we should try a “real” Locktober, no unlocks for anything except an occasional deep clean & shave, just 31 days of no erections or play. Her response is the same as previous years….”we’ll see”.
She’s been in total control of everything chastity & sex related and been more strict with each passing year, so I just do as I’m told. I’d like to see how I handle a full month of total lockdown, and see how she handles it as well, but I don’t know if it’ll happen. I’ll find out soon enough

 

I have a style metal cage with a big enough opening at the tip. I can rub myself and give myself a ruined orgasm if I want to. I've only had a regular orgasm/release twice in the last 6 months (Around May and just this past Wednesday) - all my other releases have been either ruined or hands-free.

Maybe you can use a vibrator or some sort of other toy?

I should point out that my Dom is very new to being a KH - she is leveraging my solo experience and other resources to feel more comfortable/confident.

 

That's my wife's view on it too. When I gave her the key, I turned my body and sexuality over to her. That's how she wants it.

 

For us it’s just another month… cheers to those of you going in for your first full month!

 

We are off and on with the cage …a few weeks at a time with one solid weekend every month to keep me used to the cage … locktober is our big month wher we go for duration I usually wear it everyday in the 2 weeks leading up to it with full time weekends during that time and start full time 24/7 on the first so we just play it by ear during the most she does on sept 31 is really tease me to give me blue balls to start the month other than that…meh

 

i am locked 24x7 and denied most of the time (which is great for me), so Locktober is nothing super special for me. But it's still fun, because being in chastity and being denied is fun. Locktober adds a bit of panache and publicity to my normal state.

Kind of like Octoberfest for me--an extra fun reason to drink beer, not that i really needed one.

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I've wondered. But locktober seems kind of tender and a game. I'm only locked 3 weeks so far, but it's not a game. There's nothing to dare or challenge with. So for us, it'll be like every other day. Besides, my kh doesn't even know what it is, and I don't have permission to bring it up.

 

In the past we interpreted Locktober to be no orgasms at all. It's a bit different for us because we normally we don't have defined periods of denial for me, it's normally just her mood.

 

I am already locked 24/7, so it makes no difference.

 

just the same here!

 

That having been said, I support it as a way for new people to get experience with longer lock periods.

 

I have been caged for 2 weeks and by the time Locktober starts I will have been in chastity for 3 weeks.
My Owner @NadiaKeyholder informed me that I will continue caged in NO-vember or more.
At least I will be in chastity for 12 weeks WITHOUT ORGASM of any kind.

 

It may mean I get to cum in November. Probably not. Unless she desires it but I seriously doubt that. She gets off on not letting me cum. Ever.

 

Love that idea!!! A daily ruin and recycling at the same time!!!
Good plan!!

 

It's just another month for me

No change

 

I'm struggling with that question myself. I want to do something to make the month special for hubby. Caged is already a given, as is the lack of an orgasm Neither of those is a special occurrence these days. Last year I didn't unlock him for any teasing during Locktober. That was too strict and was not enjoyable for either of us.

I'd like to find something in the middle. At the moment I'm considering unlocking hubby only on Sundays during Locktober. That would be a noticeable decrease from our usual cadence of three or four times a week, but still enough playtime to keep things fun.

 

I am locked 24/7 so its just another month for me. This will be my 3rd locktober since i was permanently locked and i wouldnt want it any other way

 

My gf is on holiday with friends. Wrote a rather wordy message including the romance of still being under her control.

"You are a perfect submissive..." then she went on.

Did I want more? Need more? It didn't matter, I felt proud of myself staying another day in her enforced chastity.