It is said that there are 5 stages of grief. Denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. So what are the 5 stages of long-term chastity?
Fantasy - "It feels so good to have the cage back on" Frustration - "I want out, and I can't." Bargaining - "I will clean the whole house, or trade a month of denial, for 5 minutes with my penis" Acceptance - "This is a good thing, and I'm locked until she decides otherwise" Forgotten - "Honey, do you even remember that I have a penis? Do _I_ remember that I have a penis?"
A body remains at rest, or in motion at a constant speed in a straight line, unless acted upon by a force. When a body is acted upon by a net force, the body's acceleration multiplied by its mass is equal to the net force. If two bodies exert forces on each other, these forces have the same magnitude but opposite directions
The Second Law of Thermodynamics states that the state of entropy of the entire universe (chastity cage), as an isolated system, will always increase over time. The second law also states that the changes in the entropy in the universe (Chastity cage) can never be negative. Does this prove that shrinkage is real and it's a good thing?
Hmmm. With us it was more of: This is an adventure! OMG it's going to be at least a year! Oh, apparently it's a new phase of our relationship.
The irony is that she rolled her eyes at you when you showed it to her. It's a great meme, one of your old ones isn't it?
For me it has been FANTASY - My image of a life in chastity to my wife AWAKENING - The moment my wife begins to enjoy the benefits of denial and service FRUSTRATION - The realization of losing control and sexual freedom REALITY The realization of possible permanent chastity and service to her ACCEPTANCE - True surrender to her
I like your FAFRA 5 better than the 5 in the photo caption. The caption completely leaves out the “She’s taking this further than I thought, what have I got myself into, this is more than I bargained for” and the incredibly helpless feeling of just breaching the point of no return.
For me, it's been: CURIOUSITY - the period after I first saw a cage, wondered what it would be like, and ordered my first cage GAMIFYING - the period where I played with it as a punishment for screwing up or failing to do something. Example: locked for every week that i didnt lose 2 lbs of weight REALIZATION - the period when I come to realize I have an addiction, really need chastity to break the habit, need my wife to hold my keys, and figure out how to introduce it to her. I also began to realize the change it was having on my behavior and how it would benefit my wife. HONEYMOON - the period we enjoy our new life together and have sex every day without male orgasms SETTLING IN - the period when we start allowing me releases whenever she wants which is about once every 1-2 weeks and discover that's bad because I start to misbehave OH SHIT! - the period when we read The Secret to a Happy Marriage and need a 90 day lockup and full orgasm denial period to beak the addiction. She also learns not to feel guilty about teasing and denying me. OH SHIT 2! - the period when we realize that the recommendation of single digit orgasms per year is all I'm going to get because that's all I can handle without making my wife unhappy. She now considers teasing me as the same as pleasuring me. She no longer believes she's denying me because she's regularly teasing me 3-4x per week. AROUSAL & FRUSTRATION - the rest of my life. The few orgasms I receive don't ever satiate me. I'm desperate for an orgasm every time she touches me which is often now because she controls me fully and never has to worry I'm going to come on too strong. She discovers Physical Touch is a primary Love Language for her because it's appropriate and is always under her terms. I'm dripping constantly.
A new acronym FAFRA lol Reading some of yours makes me realise even though I have been doing this for 16 years how far away I am from perfect