Has you experienced very long continuous locked?

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    It looks like I'm destined for a long lock, 12 months at least. My GF is genuinely turned on by the idea and we have discussed it. I kinda want her to do it, and also I don't haha.

    I'll define what it means to us; This would be at least a year with;
    • Zero unlocks
    • No erections
    • No orgasms
    • No ejaculations (so no milking or ruined orgasms)
    • Unless there is an emergency of some sort then the key will not be used.
    Some background; Aside from 2 weeks cage-free due to illness I am caged 24hrs a day. Over the last couple of years, since getting the right cage, the only releases have been for sexy fun times, so perhaps an hour weekly or sometimes several times a weeks - her choice of course. Plus a couple of day trips.

    My fears are that my D will shrink or my D won't work. I don't have a small D and sometimes it can be too much so she says she is fine with it, and from what I have read, and my own experience doing 120 days without the key used, everything comes back after a couple of weeks of action anyway.

    Our current longest continuous lock period was 120 days, and yes everything worked right away (hard like an iron bar lol), and length was a little shorter but returned after a few cage-free times.

    So, I am interested in hearing other people's experience of similar long periods of being continuously locked.

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    Well I have been locked up for the past 5 years and 4 months so far. Absolutely no unlock time unless I was chained up to a wall and my hands handcuffed behind my back. That only occurs when I need to be shaved. She takes that precautions to make sure I will cooperate and allow the cage to be locked back on. If I don't then I stay chained and cuffed to the wall till I give in and lock up. That's only happened 2 times so far. I'm permanently locked up and denied everything.
    She recently installed a tether spout to guarantee there would be no way for me to pull out the back. Before she had a retainer ring which also worked but she liked the spout much more.
    It's a struggle everyday being locked up permanently. I want to get out but she will never allow it.
    My permanent lock up is totally deserved. It isn't what I wanted but once it was locked I lost any choice about it.
    I'll tell ya now be careful what you wish for you might regret it.
     
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    Was there a period of time required to get used to the tether spout? Tried without success to use an urethral tube... wondering if a tether spout is the next best step.
     
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    @JaySaysYes - It sounds like it's only a matter of time before you tell us that she has you in a sissy maid outfit with a 12" butt plug in cleaning while she takes on 2 BBCs. :p (sorry, I couldn't resist)
     
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    lol, I have tools and operate my own finances. I think I'll be fine :p
     
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    Is it a struggle?

    Do you want out?

    After 5 years you haven’t found a way to overcome a retainer ring or tetherspout?

    I don’t want to be a dick and call bullshit on this, but I think the world (and by world I mean chastity mansion) would be a better place of people were honest.
    You don’t want out. You like being chaste.
     
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    IB-Chaste Chastity Superman.

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    :eek:

    No thank you!!​
     
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    A few years ago I went seven months with zero unlocks in a Jail Bird. Njoy milkings about once every six weeks, zero ejaculations. So about 210 days. No problems, no permanent size reduction. Some minor skin soreness, and bar and compression marks which disappeared after a few weeks.
     
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    No, it was a little sore for about 2 days, but nothing unbearable.
     
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    LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING!!! You know NOTHING. I don't give a rats ass what you or anyone else thinks. Stick a butt plug up your ass and sit on it.
     
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    So you want him to have fun? o_O:D
     
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    i admit it. i don't want out. i want it to be permanent. Nothing wrong with that.
     
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    Thank you. That pretty much echoes my experience of 4 months continuously locked.
     
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    Did it happen, have you started your 12 month sentence yet?
     
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    No, not yet. It's only been around 6 weeks since I was last free.

    Maybe it has started, maybe not. Ask me in a year.
     
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    Ah, so you may indeed have started, you just didn't get the memo.

    And of course, when other people say 24/7, they qualify it with things like "I'm locked 24/7, I only get out once a week for a cleaning, and twice a week for a shave, etc, etc" but your 24/7/365 will literally be 24/7/265
     
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    In a Chinese 'Y' belt 24/7 for four months with no unlock. Actually 122 days without orgasm because once out everything was a bit of a mess of dead skin and old lube and soap as I could only clean it through the holes in the tube, so I didn't try to masturbate for a couple of days. It recovered fine and no long-term effects but another time I'd use a small amount of antiseptic like TCP in the cleaning and find a better way to force water in. With hindsight I could probably have gone on to five or even six months through willpower because I'd very much lost interest by then and the first orgasm was a total anti-climax but I was soon back to three times a day. As ever, the third week of denial was the worst.
     
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    I was locked continuosly from Feb 2022 to March of 2023. Apparently we didn't fly anywhere last year.

    I stay clean with small brushes, antiseptic soap, and a removable shower head. A proper fitting cage (A272) with a tip that allows easy access for cleaning makes all the difference for going long term.
     
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    I've gone roughly 6 months with no unlocks before but never with total denial. I don't think I could manage that.
    In my 6 month stint I was allowed the odd caged and ruined orgasm.
    That was a struggle :eek:


    Good luck on your endeavour!
     
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    New cage with three rings each 2mm smaller than the last arrived and was swapped over. 2 months in the larger ring, then 2 in the middle, and 2 in the smallest, and then apparently it's going to be 6 months continuous.

    But, as eisenhower said "No plan survices contact with the enemy", so whether it plays out as she plans or not is another story, and life often gets in the way.

    She was *very* excited by the new BAWR titanium cage, and she is smiling a lot wearing the key hidden in a pendant.

    With the previous BAWR hygiene was not a problem and I see no reason this will be a problem, so yeah, proper 24/7 for a while at least.
     
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    I have been subjected to long-duration lockups, but her number one driver for keeping me locked, is my frustration and desperation which increases my desire for her. She loves it. A never-ending lockup would deprive her of her enjoyment.

    Occasional love making without climaxing (me), teasing and stimulation, keeps me in the zone she prefers. It keeps the relationship fresh and me interested and motivated. If I was locked without release, I am sure I would get used to it and be no better than I was unlocked. I don't think I could maintain my motivation to please her.

    It's her carrot so to speak. She also has a stick.
     
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    Still one of my favorites!
     
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    That's the base ring that you're talking about? I thought when people talked about getting smaller cages, they mainly meant the cage length. Do people really keep reducing base ring sizes too?
     
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    Not that I know of. Base ring is base ring- it's about comfort and ball pop. Not make it smaller and smaller. Once you find the right size and gap you don't mess with it...
     
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    I started out 2 years ago with a 50mm but I'm down to a 44mm now.
     
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