Thinking about sissy maid husband.

On the communication front you could tell your sissy maid husband to keep a daily journal of his/her days activities and feelings as you specify. Weekly you could review review you husband's journal and have a discussion with him/her about it and "her" over attitude, behavior and performance.

 

This conversation about your desire to create a sissy maid out of your husband is so arousing.

I hope the OP feels the same way.

Your husband wants you aroused. Be sure to remind him how hot the idea gets you and that may be a great incentive for her.

 

From what I've found in chatting with and getting to know many sissies, almost all of them had a secret fetish or interest In wearing feminine clothing, at least panties, before their KH ever broached the idea with them.

As Miss Bella said, if you can learn about your husband's urges, kinks, secret fetishes, and desires, it will then be much easier to use them as a tool to get him eager to do as you wish. At least, having him in a lacy/silky pair of cute panties will be a good test.

 

Shein have some great stuff at reasonable prices, only thing is the sizing, i ordered something size 18UK for myself and to be honest it was more like a size 10

 

I always look for actual measurements whenever possible.

 

By the way, the uniform or dress is part of my being even close to ok with it. I wanted no part in being someone’s servant or being expected to do tasks around the house.

It gave me the impression of Tom Sawyer telling Huck Finn how fun painting the fence was. I wasn’t buying it. But throw in a dress or uniform, and then all of a sudden it becomes a role playing game, a game that has side benefits of a clean house, but is more about the act of serving her for her.

 

I lost a few March Madness tournament bets with my fiancé so I am in the same position as your husband. They were: one week of lockup and one week of domestic service while properly attired. It will be interesting to see if they get extended as she is enjoying them as much as you are.

 

Dear Gina

I am a complete newbie, with very few understanding so far.
I don' know if our (husband and I) current play will lead to anything.

I am impressed from your formal thoughts at the beginning of this thread.

 

Miss Bella, your thoughts are impressive too.

 

You see his penis straining in his cage when wearing panties. How do you react on this?
1. Tell him that you can see that he likes it and that you are proud of him.
2. Don't mention it and go a step further, more feminine panties, bra ect.
3. Something else.

I am just guessing about your methodology.

 

You are diminishing his reservations. Taking stress from him.
Is he just pretending to deny and already aware of the panty effect on him or is he still actually reserved about it?
Slight diefferences, that will need different approaches and you will have to read his signs, I assume. And maybe play on a few occasions simultaneouly. If the struggles with panties maybe try nail polish, start with clear polish.

 

Yes, but getting “drawn in” can lead to a slippery slope. And the apprehension of that can be paradoxically exciting.

 

I am not a full-time sissy, but my wife leveraged my panty fetish in much this way, so if I may, here is some advice from my pantyboy perspective.
While you engage him in this kind of light humiliation, give his ass a squeeze or a pat to his cage…with longer lockups, even a caress of his arm or back can do the trick. The point is to get him associating moments of physical pleasure with the fact that he’s somewhere along the way to being permanently pantied.
Ask him frequently if he likes wearing his panties, and as he denies it, ask things like, “then why does your cage twitch when we discuss them?” With a reminder that dishonesty is subject to punishment, you’ll eventually have him admitting that he likes his panties after all, or at least that he likes obeying you by wearing them.
From there, it’ll be an easy step or two for you to steadily link his chastity and his panties before you eventually tell him that the panties are now permanent along with his cage. Once you’ve got him pantied, you can work in occasional sissy tasks or days pretty easily, and proceed with the same gradual training. At some point, he’ll realize that his sissy ship has already sailed, and he’ll accept it as just another step onward.

 

Definitely start slowly until you have him fully dressed as a girl any time he is at home, and when he becomes used to it possible start him on hormones

 

Yes you are, I wish my wife would do this but she's dead against it, I hinted about it to her in a joking manner and her reply was (You are braking up the wrong tree, I'm not into that)

 

Really interesting.
I think for us the communication is vital. She would say, "I'd like it if you would do this and or that" I'd be all over it to make her happy. Dishes, cooking, cleaning. To get a well done from her was all I needed. I don't know if I'm a sissy maid or just hers? Maybe both. I know I make a mean tiramisu and she doesn't have to clean.

 

My wife did something similar with me when I was in trouble, except that I didn’t get to write in a journal - we did the review daily, and I was expected to remember all of the things I’d done and account for all of my time.

It was very intense.

 

i agree with the above, two sets of maid outfits: house keeping dresses for the dirty work, and the beautiful lacy, frilly and fanciful ones for serving!

 

Very good update. Chastity was a big factor for Mistress/Wife and myself getting much deeper into the FLR and my deeper submissive feelings. We have been together for +30 years now and continue to find deeper relationship with each other.

For me personally I have always had a want to take complete care of Mistress/Wife. I know my place in public and private times but I still know that I am her protector too if the need arises.

My chastity is pretty much full time these days with an online KH managing so Mistress/Wife has not need to give attention to admin and discipline when she has more focus on other things. I am requried to wear under everyday clothes though too as a reminder of my place.

Personal experience tells me too when I am in "maid" uniform, I have deeper level of submission and commitment. I am required to curtsey for all responses to Mistress/Wife for example. I also have multiple maid uniforms for hard working days and more formal maid days. Hard working days are top to bottom cleaning/chores all day so I can get pretty messy. Formal days may require heels and ensuring I "pass inspection" from Mistress/Wife nose to toes.

 

You are AMAZING! Your husband is a very lucky man.

 

Congratulations Ms Gina on a successful and happy 6 months. i know we (You and i, and You and Mistress Karen) have spoken earlier when You first joined here. i am happy to see You are still here and enjoying the community, and where this new lifestyle has taken You and Your submissive sissy husband. i've also spoken with @GinasSissyToni and feel he is enjoying it, and better off since You assumed control too. May You both continue to evolve and enjoy the next 6 months and then all the time thereafter. Please continue to keep us updated. Its always a pleasure to hear from members here like You.