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    #1 FPH, Sep 5, 2022
    I have had a Behind Barz full belt for about five years and my wife has been supportive of my curiosity about chastity despite it not being of interest to her. I have self locked when I wanted and then given her the key to look after.

    My sex drive is currently higher than my wife’s. When we were discussing my level of horniness at the weekend, she told me that it sounded like I should put my belt on and give her the key and that I will remain locked until we go away for a few days at the end of October.

    I have been locked for longer, however I have always initiated the belt wearing. I find this new turn of events exciting and wonder if it marks the start of greater interest and involvement from my wife.
     
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    #2 SlaveCuck BR, Sep 5, 2022
    Wow. It's a nice news!

    Congrats!
     
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    #3 Cagedhubby92, Sep 5, 2022
    My wife has always held my keys since we started with this earlier this January even though it was something I was into much more than her but here of recently has started to show more interest in having me locked and as of about a month ago she has decided I am to be locked 24/7 unless she wants me out and the re locked immediately. It’s definitely a exciting turn of events to see your partners interest and participation increases. Hopefully her interest continues to increase in keeping you locked.
     
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    #4 Cagedhubby92, Sep 5, 2022
     
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    #5 madams-sissysub, Sep 6, 2022
    Congratulations!
     
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    #6 LesterBallard, Sep 7, 2022
    Good luck with it
     
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    #7 FPH, Sep 10, 2022
    A week in and everything is comfortable with my belt. Keeping clean with the power shower means no need to remove it.

    My wife and I are both quite tired at the moment so there’s no fun and games on the agenda. On the other hand cuddles and snuggling with out any expectations is relaxing for both of us.

    Six weeks until we go away. I wonder if my wife will want me locked up on our return.
     
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    #8 FPH, Sep 17, 2022
    A fortnight in and my body has adjusted to wearing the belt again. It has become more comfortable and better fitting around my waist. Wearing pouch style underwear means I have not suffered from chafing on my thighs.

    I don’t like to feel that I am pressuring my wife for sex when I am horny and she is not interested. While masturbating on my own gives relief, I find no enjoyment from solo play. My wife is becoming more relaxed about having control of my orgasms and is feeling less guilty for keeping me locked up. I have become more relaxed as well.

    It is now five weeks until we go away for our holiday, a couple of weeks before that the two of us have an overnight stay. I wonder if I will be released for that. I will not be asking.
     
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    #9 FPH, Sep 23, 2022
    From the time that the Behind Barz belt arrived, my emergency key has been in a signed small sealed envelope wrapped with sellotape. I have normally carried it in a trouser pocket, unfortunately this week I forgot to take it out of the pocket before putting the jeans in the wash.

    In five years of intermittent belt wear, I have never used the emergency key. My wife has decided not to sign and seal the key in a new envelope and instead keep both keys in a safe place.

    I find this series of events quite a turn on and are curious to see where the journey takes us next.
     
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    #10 Deleted member 97201, Sep 23, 2022
    I have always wondered, should we ask our partners for a release or let them decide? It’s exciting and scary all at the same time.
     
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    #11 IB-Chaste, Sep 23, 2022
    The goal is to be able to ask or say your dying for it… and still be told no! (Without pestering of course)
     
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    #12 captivatedbyher, Sep 23, 2022
    I agree! Being able to take no for an answer was a game changer in my relationship
     
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    #13 FPH, Sep 23, 2022
    I am not sure that we are at the stage were my wife would say no if I asked for release although I think that she is starting to see benefits of having control.
     
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    #14 bondinchas, Sep 23, 2022
    I solved that predicament by sending her this meme...
    She totally agreed, so now we both know that it's pointless me asking to be released, so I don't ask and she never has to feel pressurised by being asked!

    promise.me.2.jpg
     
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    #15 OwedbyJM, Sep 25, 2022
    I don’t ask. About every two weeks she will work me over with a vib externally on my prostate or have me use a plug to basically milk me. My Queen has no interest in piv. In fact it has been 6 months since We did that.
     
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    #16 billzboats, Oct 2, 2022
    I think it is very exciting when my wife gets involved. She is currently having some health issues and said we could do something else to get me off. I told her that I did not really get off unless she gets hers
     
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    #17 Chaz69, Oct 2, 2022
    When you say "I wonder if my wife will want me locked up on our return", you are of course assuming you will be unlocked while on holiday, if she's really taken control that might not be the case.
     
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    #18 FPH, Oct 2, 2022
    At the start of this lockup, my wife Indicated that she wanted me unlocked for our trip away. However there is nothing to stop her changing her mind before we go.
     
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    #19 Jessica Alexander, Oct 2, 2022
    Well, if you are unlocked for the whole trip, you should lock back up as soon as you get home without asking and give her the keys.
     
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    #20 Missy Tanya, Oct 2, 2022
    It's wonderful when your Wife/Keyholder takes the incentive. Be very supportive as it can be a large step in your chastity life. In my case, my Wife knows about all Tanya's quirks, but medical issues keep her from participating. I personally believe that chastity play will improve the relationship.
     
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    #21 Chaz69, Oct 2, 2022
    And if you are unlocked, it will be a test of your self-control, don't go slipping back into any nasty habits.
     
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    #22 FPH, Oct 10, 2022
    We had our overnight trip away, about a week before we went my wife said that she might unlock me before we left home.I suggested that if she wanted to take a key, she could decide if she felt like unlocking me for play time while we where at the hotel. I did not push her for release and in the end the key stayed at home.

    This was our first overnight trip away with me locked and no chance of release. Both of us had an enjoyable and relaxing time.
     
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    #23 Chaz69, Oct 10, 2022
    That was interesting, so she was prepared to unlock you before you left so you would be unlocked for the whole trip, then you simply suggested that she could bring the key so she could unlock you when she wanted, and her response was to not being the key at all. Reading between the lines here, I think you might need to start getting used to being locked on a more long term basis.
     
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    #24 FPH, Oct 16, 2022
    After six weeks of continuous wear, my body has got used to wearing the belt and there is noticeably less straining against the cage. However this morning, I awoke feeling incredibly horny and straining against the confines of the cage. With no chance of the belt coming off until next weekend, I just had to let it dissipate on its own with no release. I had not missed being able to masturbate until that point and after everything had calmed down was glad that I did not have that option.
     
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    #25 BigSkyB, Oct 16, 2022
    Losing the ability to touch! Is a very hard thing
     
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