Fetishes in in stressful times

That is for your KH to decide. But I think, we should resist the temptation and use the energy to release the stress of your KH. For me, I love to massage my lover/wife/mistress when I'am horny.

 

This pretty much sums it up for me too. I had expected to be locked again after a recent trip, but everything else is casting a shadow over that. And with a constantly full house it's much more difficult for me to sneak off and masturbate anyway.

 

For us it has been a mixed bag. Since we are alone my crossdressing has escalated. I am caged in a much smaller cage as an experiment. Three days of heavy kink followed by a day of recuperation. Not sure what today will bring but my kinky side has definitely increased during this time. She is about the same. We will see how this progresses.

 

For us, our two young adult children have been with us. One was in grad school, since gone remote, and the other was furloughed from work. Both lived alone without significant others, so thought spending time with us was preferable to sitting home alone. We’re glad they are here (for the most part) but many of the things we took for granted as empty nesters we now refrain from. We don’t discuss chastity, bondage, or my Barbara side when they are home. Even our evening routine of my wife putting her pantyhosed feet and legs on my lap for stroking (which is exceptionally calming for me) is now on hold.

It’s an unexpected return to a full house that’s impacting us, not the lockdown itself.

 

It’s funny how it never seems to occur to kids that their parents might actually have a life of their own, and that they might just possibly be impacting that!

I’m not locked either, even though I can’t dress with them home. Their presence dampens the mood, and I have learned that being locked when my wife’s interest is low because of stress or the presence of kids results in disappointment for both.

 

A few of our fetishes or kinks have taken a back seat, but we are always Domme and sub, and I am always caged.

 

Bizarrely social distancing has tapped into a long held elaborate fantasy of 'not being allowed near women', even holding hands, hugging etc. in a chastity/denial/humiliation femdom dynamic - I have toyed with a few different scenarios around the same thing. As a single male my fantasy has literally become a reality!!

 

12 days locked in my Contender since I received a new cage portion. World and business events are not really helping the kink side of things but my wife has not offered to remove or let me off.

 

In response to the original post. I find my particular fetishes to weigh even more heavily due to the fact i see them as a potential escape from my very stressful position. Sadly due to the vanilla nature of my relationship it is even harder to practice.

 

We both work in health.

She's being an absolute stress head, she's still needs to head out to work every morning.

I'm working at home and swamped. She got home today, saw me stood I front of the laptop in the kitchen, last night's dishes still in the sink. I'd gone down to sort them, my phone went and I grabbed the laptop from upstairs to sort the issue. 3 hours and many calls later I still hadn't touched them. She just said "I'll do them, you go upstairs and do what you need to".

We're getting a bit more into the swing of things if anything but it's not really a priority, it's just happened rather than anything we've discussed

 

Yes.

 

I'm always shocked to discover that I have fetishes, I thought everybody believed in FLRs and worshipped a Goddess. But I'll carry on regardless. Perhaps more thoughtfully.

 

Actually Mistress just left after spending the night, I was pegged, spanked and I was allowed to relieve myself while being pegged.

She has left me uncaged and told me I am allowed to masturbate ...at least for the day because of the stressful times we live in (I didnt request it)...She will be coming over for dinner tonight, I am cooking salmon and salad that will last us for the next few days for lunch. I havent been told I can take the tether out yet so expect the freedom is short lived, indeed I will be disappointed if she doesn't re lock me but thats her call and I wont complain.

We are both feeling very sad for those people in unemployment ques. We are both fortunate so far to be keeping our jobs, in fact we have been run off our feet with demand.

We both work in a large DIY store which has been running at almost double its normal turn over because people are taking the opportunity to do jobs at home. While not medical front line I see us as working on the front line and still important for the mental health of the people staying housebound.

 

both in my past but I have only one fetish now (and she is stronger than ever)

 

good point - worshipping women is the new normal

 

or as John would say...……"Everybodys got something to hide except for me and my monkey"

 

I think this is the perfect time for those closeted sissys to go 24/7!

 

Second option
Escape from the real world

 

I am lucky in that i can now work from home. I am still getting used to a cage, so being able to adjust things without having to go to a bathroom is nice. I can just make sure i am out of range of the webcam, adjust, and go right back.
As far as masturbation under stressful times, that tends to not be my first concern

 

I’m “essential” so, despite diabetes, a heart monitor, having had a stroke and high blood pressure I’m at work with the public everyday. I find being locked comforting, which is good because I’m stressed beyond belief.

 

I don't think it has made an ounce of difference to us.

But should anyone become ill I would think it only reasonable to unlock before drgging yourself off to hospital. If things get that bad you could be bed bound and there is a real likelihood of ending up with a damn catheter.

 

Every day elected officials convene for press conferences to both give updates and explain new quarantine rules that are rapidly evolving. Don’t be surprised if you find your Governor on the news announcing a ban on all shoe licking. Hopefully women who have men in chastity are practicing proper social distancing and instituting an indefinite ban on all chastity releases... you know, for the virus and all

 

Health, safety and following medical guidance must rightly given be priority over everything else at this time

 

My answer is that it is definitally tougher to be in chastity at this time. At day 56 of a 60 or 100 days goal. As a self locker it would be easy to quit after 60, but I truly want to improve. Please advise!

 

Enjoy your fetish, makes you realize how amazing your fetish is for you and your mind and well being. Talk and get some fun.