Hello all i was wondering how many people have friends in this lifestyle. That hang out in person not just chatting, or is their any type of get together in Washington state north west preferably to meet like minded people?
I think only a lucky few get to have friends who participate this way, and meet in real life. But I feel like I have made several friends in this community, who even if I never meet for real, make feel better and more alive every day. Good luck in your quest.
I have one co worker who is openly in to the bdsm scene, and we will discuss fetish bits at times while working,
I used to have about 11 people into the lifestyle as friends.But they all were older than Me.And they now have the Pipe and Slippers, and hung up the fetish to dry.
I have about 3-5 friends who know that we have engaged in chastity play but I’m pretty sure none of them understand it’s a 24/7 thing. I don’t have anyone I know in real life that practices chastity.
we have meet none in this lifestyle we meet many that are into other life styles in area which is great as well
There are a total of 4 couples (including us) who are in our circle. Three of the wives are bi, the other straight and all the guys are straight. We also have a couple much older in the lifestyle, but she is more of a dominatrix and a younger couple who are in the chastity lifestyle but who don't play in our group.
Well not direct friends but 5 ladies are aware of my chasity and submissive position. They are clerks and owners of 2 boutiques in our area that service my needs in lingerie and now sex toys. Per my Madame they have authority over me during shopping events.
I have never had any contact with anyone in this lifestyle. However, I have met a few people here who I am friendly with. I have also meet 2 people here who I consider my friends. I have never met them in real life, but I consider them friends just the same. Iso.
About 10 of my wife’s femdom group friends all know, and have seen me in chastity. They where all at my permanent chastity ceremony over 3 years ago now. Most all know now as well, about my long term orgasm denial that she is implementing. Since Covid, there hasn’t been any gatherings or demo’s in person. However they still meet monthly on zoom. And get to see me naked sitting next to my goddess as they chat. I sometimes get mail from a few on fetlife asking about how I’m cooping and how frustrated I must be. I think they like to tease me. Some of the husbands/boyfriends or sub’s will send me messages as well. Mostly offering sympathy for me. None of the couples we know practice permanent chastity, so they are intrigued on how I have completely committed to sexual denial. And only accept getting pleasure not from my orgasms, but to commit to only servicing my wife’s sexual pleasure. I’m proud to be my wife’s sub/husband, and accept what she has chosen for me. She is fulfilling her needs and has gotten me to the place she had planned for years now. I’m sure her real life femdom friends are envious of her, and that makes me proud that they look up to her in this way.
Congratulations on your commitment to your Wife/Dom. I have committed myself to my wife/Madame my journey and path is still developing. I don't expect any future penis orgasms she says the ruined one at Valentine's 2021 was my last. Any future orgasm would be anal oriented if and when I achieve it. Continue your serving her.
Thanks, Prostrate milkings are the only relief I have had over the last 13 months. Was supposed to be monthly, but I have to do it while Ms. supervises. Only have 10 minutes and she verbally makes it extremely difficult. If I fail, then another month waiting period and a month penalty for failing. So last year, I only successfully relieved myself 3 times. I pay her $20 a month for this chance, and whether or not it happens. She still gets her fee. She loves the extra crazy cash. 20 years ago this started as fun kinky weekend play. I never could have imagined what my life had in store for me.
Well I get milking in one for or another more frequently than that. She has me focused on learning how to achieve an prostate orgasm. If I do get there I expect she will control my frequency to suit her plans. Our ladies own our orgasms along with everything else. Any relief or orgasm is by her directives only. Good luck.
We have been fortunate to have met 3 other chastity couples on our local clothing optional beach. One couple wasn't interested in further meetings and another we have met for dinner, drinks and conversation a few times. The third couple we have become very close with. Besides beach dates, we spend weekends at each other's homes and explore new adventures. As far as daily friends, my youngest sister and 2 of my special girlfriends know of our lifestyle and will see PK (kept nude) whenever they visit our home. There is another female friend that visits on weekends occasionally when she feels she needs a "structure adjustment" and my regular boyfriend when we get together. They are privy to our relationship too. Then there are the couples we have met at BDSM themed events at an Adult Lifestyle Club we are members of. None of those acquaintances have expressed a desire to meet outside the club. We really enjoy meeting other like-minded folks. It is always so interesting sharing experiences with them, and you never know what path the friendship will take.
Most of my friends are kinky. In fact over the years the number of vanilla friends I have has become very few. Other than work where I don’t talk about my private life, I prefer to be around others who will accept me for who I am.
Out of the many couples i know, most are practising flr.. Women are the key decision makers in mostly critical items.. men could be the breadwinners and just remain as that.. while their wives are incharged of everything else from childrens eduction, type of upbringing, major expenditure, her grooming, splitting of household chores to holidays..leave the sex part out for the moment… In not too distant in history and not too distant from where i come from.. flr is a long practised tradition.. i have posted earlier of the minangkabau tribe:- https://www.bbc.com/travel/article/20160916-worlds-largest-matrilineal-society my wife has a best friend who is pratising chasity on the husband.. but im not in communication with him.. I have a gym buddy who is a similiar house husband.. he fetches his 3 children to and fro from school and detours to the gym while his wife wears a power suit in a logistics company.. ok, its too odd to start asking whether his wife locks up his dick.. so, im not in closed company of anyone in similiar lifestyle..