These rules are unique

How do you acquire points? and can you use points for your own pleasure?

 

What happens when 6 have been taken away? Do you just act up as much as you want?

Suppose you have 6 each week, what if you jiggle the cage and make it happen. What then?

Is there a punishment if you gain pleasure from being locked and denied?

Whoaaaaa there. She wants to use a drug merely to use one of it's side effects. That's scary. https://morningsteel.com/benadryl-and-erectile-dysfunction/

So, you could easily deny her pleasure by not collecting any points.

She'll soon change her tune about the points when she gets fucked by the cold dead dildo a bunch of times.

 

And her pleasure is all that matters!

 

Whoaaaaa there. She wants to use a drug merely to use one of it's side effects. That's scary. https://morningsteel.com/benadryl-and-erectile-dysfunction/

Not really. Benadryl is an over-the-counter hayfever medicine, it’s about as scary as taking aspirin, i.e not in any way scary

 

Maybe you missed the two important parts of Benadryl can cause erectile dysfunction, and she gives her fella Benadryl in order to induce erectile dysfunction - not to help with his allergies, ffs.

It's nothing at all like asprin, but if it was then it would be like your partner forcing you to take a large dose of it to induce vomiting because that's her kink.

 

There are about 500 deaths a year in the US from acetaminphen. "OTC" does not mean "totally harmless." Anybody using any drug oytside of its recommended dose and application is taking a risk.

 

The whole thing is a bit much honestly. A simple agreement in writing with key bullet points is one thing. Drugging someone screams blink twice if you need help.

 

well not really. It’d be like her persuading me, within the mutually agreed dynamics of our relationship, to take a standard dose of aspirin.

 

Also, note that he proposed this and she agreed.

 

Thirdly - the distinction between therapeutic effects and side effects is moot. Effects are stipulated as “side effects” either because the licence is only for certain intended uses, or because said effects are considered adverse. Many drugs are developed and licenced for certain uses but then used off licence for other purposes and later this becomes part of their licenced use (e.g. drugs for epilepsy also acting as mood stabilisers, or tricyclic antidepressants being used for neuropathic pain).
In this case a drug is being used with the person’s informed consent at recommended dose to induce an effect that the couple do not consider to be adverse within their chosen lifestyle.

 

I think the rub here is using a drug as it's not intended use. Seems kinda ruffie to some people.

 

this assumes a whole culture of deference to medical authority that I find deeply problematic. Your body is YOUR body. And in this case it’s not even about deference to doctors - it’s deference to the drug company.

 

I'm all for bodily autonomy and drug use lol. It still comes across weird. Never got the whole long drawn contract thing anyway. We have a few bullet points on paper rest is by having conversations. Honestly besides the drugging not much super unique then others I've seen on here and other places

 

Well yeah I agree with you on that. But some people actually get off on the whole “contract” thing. It’s a form of bondage.

 

I can agree with this. It's like self bondage you ask for done by someone else.

 

This is a tough one but doable. I often wonder if she has any idea how much I want one.

Great ideas especially since you only get up to 6 O's per year.

Not being able to look at it is cruel and unusual punishment!

This is the hottest thing about chastity!

I never knew this. Does this work for you?

 

In end being this entire contract was written by you for you it defeats entire purpose of giving up control. You made a detailed list of what you want and like for her to go by. Made it entirely about your needs and wants, not hers. That defeats entire purpose of thing.

 

Detailed contracts are a bit like the fiendishly elaborate plans of cartoon supervillains. They’re enjoyable to construct and go on at length about whilst wearing a strange costume and adopting a silky, languid voice but they rarely meet the needs of real life.
“We’re out of cat food, can you pop out to the supermarket?”
“I would, but sec 5 paragraph 19 of our contract says that when undertaking shopping chores I must first have my scrotum massaged with Tabasco and we’re out of that too. And section 11 para 3 subsection vii clearly stipulates that if I fail to maintain an adequate stock of torture equipment I must spend 24hrs in the punishment cupboard so I’ll see you tomorrow. You’ll have to get the cat food yourself.”

 

all seems a bit over the top to me, but I hope it works well for you

 

Its all very I surrender control do as you wish. As long as you control and do as you as you wish exactly how I agree to for me.

 

So you're surrendering control by telling her exactly how to control you. That's not giving up control at all.