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    My wife has kept me in Chastity for around 10 years now. I saw a post on here talking about what was worse, not being able to become erect or not being able to orgasm. I had never thought about the erection component of Chastity in that way before. I proposed to my wife that we change our Chastity rules to the following and she agreed. I think these are pretty unique and intense rules that will really have strong psychological impacts over time and drive obedience and submission.

    1. You will be locked in chastity at all times. The only exceptions will be when I take you out to use or clean my penis.
      1. If for any reason you cannot wear it, each day out of it will count as an orgasm.
    2. You will be given UP TO 6 orgasms per year.
      1. These will only be provided when and if it would pleasure me to see you orgasm, and not for any other reason.

      2. You are not allowed to ask, beg, plead, or hint that you want or need one.

      3. Orgasms can be taken away for bad behavior or any other reason, and cannot be earned back.

      4. Wet dreams will count as orgasms and must be disclosed to me as soon as possible.

      5. Bad Behavior & A loss of submissiveness after an orgasm must be eliminated. The following rules will greatly reduce or completely eliminate this problem.
        1. You must agree to swallow all of the cum that comes out of you before I let you cum.

        2. I will capture it and pour it into your mouth immediately or have you lick it all off of me. If you refuse, all orgasms for the rest of the year will be forfeited.

        3. You must immediately clean and lock my penis back up.

        4. You must write me a letter thanking me and telling me how amazing I made you feel.

        5. You must buy me flowers the next time we go to the store.

        6. You must ask me what I would like to do and do chores or spend time with me doing whatever I see fit for the rest of the day.

        7. If all of these conditions are not met, 1 orgasm will be forfeited.
    3. You will NEVER be allowed to see or touch my penis erect because it is my property and is for my pleasure ONLY.
      1. If you look at it or touch it while it is hard, that will count as an orgasm.

      2. It is your responsibility to make sure this does not happen.

      3. You will never be allowed to become hard unless I explicitly want you to be.
    4. When you are unlocked for cleaning, you will NOT be allowed to become hard.
      1. You will be given Benadryl one hour prior to unlocking which will prevent an erection.
    5. You will obey me to earn points.
      1. These points can be used to pleasure me. e.g. You can use 10 points to be allowed to kiss my pussy. 20 points to be allowed to lick my pussy.

      2. I will take away points that you have saved up for misbehavior.

      3. A certain number of points might allow for you to warm the strap on up in hot water so it feels real and pleasure me with it until I cum.

      4. You will study how to give massages and provide me with massages any time I want.
     
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    How do you acquire points? and can you use points for your own pleasure?
     
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    What happens when 6 have been taken away? Do you just act up as much as you want?

    Suppose you have 6 each week, what if you jiggle the cage and make it happen. What then?

    Is there a punishment if you gain pleasure from being locked and denied?

    Whoaaaaa there. She wants to use a drug merely to use one of it's side effects. That's scary. https://morningsteel.com/benadryl-and-erectile-dysfunction/

    So, you could easily deny her pleasure by not collecting any points.

    She'll soon change her tune about the points when she gets fucked by the cold dead dildo a bunch of times.
     
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    She will be creating the point system, I can post that once it has been completed. There aren't any plans for me to be able to use points for my pleasure. This is designed for her pleasure, and pleasing her pleasures me.
     
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    And her pleasure is all that matters!
     
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    Maybe you missed the two important parts of Benadryl can cause erectile dysfunction, and she gives her fella Benadryl in order to induce erectile dysfunction - not to help with his allergies, ffs.

    It's nothing at all like asprin, but if it was then it would be like your partner forcing you to take a large dose of it to induce vomiting because that's her kink.
     
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    There are about 500 deaths a year in the US from acetaminphen. "OTC" does not mean "totally harmless." Anybody using any drug oytside of its recommended dose and application is taking a risk.
     
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    The whole thing is a bit much honestly. A simple agreement in writing with key bullet points is one thing. Drugging someone screams blink twice if you need help.
     
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    well not really. It’d be like her persuading me, within the mutually agreed dynamics of our relationship, to take a standard dose of aspirin.
     
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    Also, note that he proposed this and she agreed.
     
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    Thirdly - the distinction between therapeutic effects and side effects is moot. Effects are stipulated as “side effects” either because the licence is only for certain intended uses, or because said effects are considered adverse. Many drugs are developed and licenced for certain uses but then used off licence for other purposes and later this becomes part of their licenced use (e.g. drugs for epilepsy also acting as mood stabilisers, or tricyclic antidepressants being used for neuropathic pain).
    In this case a drug is being used with the person’s informed consent at recommended dose to induce an effect that the couple do not consider to be adverse within their chosen lifestyle.
     
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    I think the rub here is using a drug as it's not intended use. Seems kinda ruffie to some people.
     
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    this assumes a whole culture of deference to medical authority that I find deeply problematic. Your body is YOUR body. And in this case it’s not even about deference to doctors - it’s deference to the drug company.
     
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    I'm all for bodily autonomy and drug use lol. It still comes across weird. Never got the whole long drawn contract thing anyway. We have a few bullet points on paper rest is by having conversations. Honestly besides the drugging not much super unique then others I've seen on here and other places
     
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    Well yeah I agree with you on that. But some people actually get off on the whole “contract” thing. It’s a form of bondage.
     
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    I can agree with this. It's like self bondage you ask for done by someone else.
     
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    This is a tough one but doable. I often wonder if she has any idea how much I want one.
    Great ideas especially since you only get up to 6 O's per year.
    Not being able to look at it is cruel and unusual punishment! :confused::eek:
    This is the hottest thing about chastity!
    I never knew this. Does this work for you?
     
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    In end being this entire contract was written by you for you it defeats entire purpose of giving up control. You made a detailed list of what you want and like for her to go by. Made it entirely about your needs and wants, not hers. That defeats entire purpose of thing.
     
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    Detailed contracts are a bit like the fiendishly elaborate plans of cartoon supervillains. They’re enjoyable to construct and go on at length about whilst wearing a strange costume and adopting a silky, languid voice but they rarely meet the needs of real life.
    “We’re out of cat food, can you pop out to the supermarket?”
    “I would, but sec 5 paragraph 19 of our contract says that when undertaking shopping chores I must first have my scrotum massaged with Tabasco and we’re out of that too. And section 11 para 3 subsection vii clearly stipulates that if I fail to maintain an adequate stock of torture equipment I must spend 24hrs in the punishment cupboard so I’ll see you tomorrow. You’ll have to get the cat food yourself.”
     
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    all seems a bit over the top to me, but I hope it works well for you
     
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    Its all very I surrender control do as you wish. As long as you control and do as you as you wish exactly how I agree to for me.
     
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    It makes it very difficult for me. She would have to try very hard to get it hard.

    You're showing as being locked for 7 months. What part is over the top? Not being table to look at it?

    My wife is the most selfless person I have ever met. She needs help becoming stricter. I can help her create rules that result in the "Be careful what you wish for" mentality.
     
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    So you're surrendering control by telling her exactly how to control you. That's not giving up control at all.
     
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