My wife and I have been using chastity for about 7 years on and off. Never a very strict set of rules, I would usually lockup give her the key and eventually she unlocks for sex. Could be a couple days or a couple weeks. I wore multiple devices for years and like you all know even a tight fitting cage you can pullout the back of the tube. I've had everything from Cb6000s, cheap Amazon cages, cherry keepers, holy trainers, MM jailbird, and The Vice. Same thing everytime, could pull out the back wash up, edge for a bit or even jerk off. Sometimes it was just more comfortable to sleep with the tube removed while the device was partially on.. Stuff back in the tube and my wife wouldn't know . Yes I was only cheating myself and being dishonest but sometimes I was weak willed. Fast-forward to this past November I finally got a PA piercing. Healed for 6 months now and I got a MCN contender with PA pin. I can't pullout without the keys or heavy tools breaking the device. I finally feel locked and secure. Mentally this is a new level of chastity and I can't wait to see how it goes. I've been locked for a week straight now and have been told it will be a minimum of two weeks total lockdown before moving forward. Not sure what's next. I really want to be let out for a stretch right now but I'll just have to wait and see.
Yes that frightening yet exciting feeling of the first loss of control. After the piercing heals, and you realize, this really isn’t coming off unless she takes it off! No more playful touches, no grabbing it holding it, no more getting hard whenever I feel like it, no more option to orgasm. It’s all off the table and up to her. You start thinking, did I really just do this for real? Did I really give up being able to get hard? If she only unlocks me 5 or 6 times a year and we do this for so many years…do I really only have 122 more erections and even less orgasms in my life? The reality of it is very exciting but can be scary as well.
Ain't that the truth When my KH bought a piercing attached steel cage and then put all of the keys in a timed lock box it totally transformed the experience for us both. Hghly recommended, if you like that sort of thing
I'm happy for you, you've been thinking about being completely chaste for a long time, I'm glad you finally feel secure from yourself.
The PA piercing gives the KH total control. It is really frightening at first but I am lucky to have a KH that keeps our life very interesting. I hope yours is the same.
I’m wondering if this will be the next chapter in my chastity lifestyle? Like my Mistress @Ms. Cyn likes to say. “You never know what the future may bring”
@custardcb I hate to break this to you, but you are now in permanent chastity, no more getting out ever. I know your wife should have explained this a little clearer before she locked you up this time, but there'll be time for talking later, so much time.
I agree with Nicotime ... it can be daunting to think about how few orgasms you're going to have left in my life. I think in the past 5 years I've had as many as I would in a month or two before this. And since my wife likes it a lot, it's going to take a whole lot to end this ...
For me emasculation means only emasculation with regard to male sexuality, not for other parts of the life. So for me it's different from feminization, cross dressing etc. It's mainly taken away the possibility for hubby to get hard when ever he want (most important) and to ejaculate only extremely seldom.
My husband is not caged but because he is only allowed to orgasm occasionally it usually happens without him becoming erect.
Congratulations. I still remember the first time I wore my Contender with the PA pin added. It made a huge difference for both me, and my wife. She said it was real, with the piercing for her, and not a game. The MaleChastityNow Contender is an excellent cage. You can “live” in it.
If our normal sex pattern continues I'll probably have 3-4 orgasm a month. Unlocked without chastity play it is probably closer to 20+ because of masturbation.
Yeah I've pretty much knew that would be the case. The MM jailbird I've had for years is almost identical minus the PA upgrade so I knew what I was in for. Mentally though this is something different. I can honestly say I would have pulled out and edged at minimum by now.
I'm secretly hoping she keeps me denied for a month. Maybe unlocked for some play of course I want to cum but at the same time i don't yet. I'm sure you know what I mean
Congratulations, I have been pierced for seven months now and am about to start my journey with a P.A chastity device. Mistress says when the time comes and if I go first she will request it stays on even when I’m in the ground and says she is going to be ruthless when I get it on. Exciting times ahead
Got unlocked this morning for a bit of fun after a solid two weeks. It has been an interesting experience to say the least. Not relocked yet but probably will be soon.
What an ideal arrangment..! Only to be unlocked for sex with her.. that is her calling and decision.. whenever she wants… whether if she wants it twice a day or only once in 2 months.. so be it.. the male better be ready to serve… once locked away.. the libido is replenishing and the buildup is rewarding to the female… the male horny demands should be nipped in the bud (in this case the dick in cage)… if the male cant perform to her satisfaction, you better be creative in fulfilling her desires
We agreed that for the next couple months I'll get an opportunity to be unlocked once a week. If I earned an unlock is up to her and some conditions. Then once unlocked I may or may not get to cum. That also depends on how the week is been. Should be an interesting summer