Wife Enjoying Our New Chastity Life

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    She was engaged with it and spanked me for a good length of time and roughly squeezed my ass as she went. I couldnt see her expression. It was the last thing we did and she laughed and called me a pervert at the end before leaving to take her shower. Then we just were both so happy with all the play we had had but didn't talk specifics, more about how much we enjoyed it and we talked about her getting a vibrator. She smiled and said who knew that my husband was such a pervert and enjoys all the ways i can make him miserable. Then she laughed and joked that she could think up plenty more.
     
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    That’s a great start and great dialog to talk about what you both want and like. Get her to tell you what some of the “plenty mores” are she is thinking. This will give you a better idea of what she’s thinking. Sounds like she enjoyed and I think she will surprise you what she will do.
     
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    It definitely think she wouldn't freak out if we had a strap. Not after we have become a little more open about exploring what turns us on and she is obviously very happy with our play last night. She might laugh and say What?! I can't use this! It'll hurt you. But nothing worse than that. I'll go easy for now though and let us get used to chastity and at least have a few more playtimes and let her get used to her new authority.
     
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    Are you ok with her testing your limits even if it hurts a little. I mean are you ok with some pain.
     
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    Absolutely. I want her to go beyond and really make it a punishment that I fear. But that is a little extreme to suggest. But yes I'd like her to want to test limits. But who knows if she'll even want to try
     
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    That’s what you need to let her know. Just take it slow. She will have to get comfortable with it too. I was the same way when I started. But I warmed up to it. I really got comfortable when I started using a leather slapper. His reaction to it and his respect given to me was intoxicating. I wanted more. She will too. She will have you in tears in no time.
     
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    Is there an big age difference between you guys.
     
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    Actual tears? It's possible she could go from not wanting to hurt me to getting a kick from seeing me in tears from it?
     
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    No. I'm two years older
     
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    Sounds like you are on a fast pace here. Don't go to fast don't pick all the fruit at once. If you can get your first month's over and still be in love with the lifestyle you will probably never go back. Good luck
     
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    For sure, that's the general census I've been hearing from others
     
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    You don't have a CD or mp3 player radio or even a tv?

    then again in my experience with women and hitachi wands its not the wand people will hear.
     
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    Ok. I'm buying one
     
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    Yes dear actual tears. It will take several month for you both to work up to that point but you can. Again take it slow with her. She will find her groove. But yes don’t be surprised if she really enjoys it and seeing you quiver as she draws the leather strap across your bare skin.
     
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    That's so exciting yet scary at the same time. Is it too soon to buy a strap?
     
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    Yes it’s way to soon to buy a strap on. Take it slow or you will scare her out of the idea. At best you both might watch a video that has a strap on it in and watch her reaction.
     
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    ha! not a strap on. A leather strap
     
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    The answer is certainly yes. I'm getting too excited. Ok. Deep breaths
     
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    Haha. No worries. I misread your response. Leather strap yes.
     
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    Yes as in No or Yes as in Yes? haha.
     
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    Haha. No worries. I misread your response. Leather strap yes.
    I would go ahead a purchase a leather slapper but let her be part of the process. Let her pick the one out that she wants.
     
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    Definitely agree with the above it must be her choice.
     
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    Ok. I think she'll be interested in at least indulging my little fantasy to try it out. We have to go vibrator shopping so we can perhaps order from a company that carries both and do it at the same time.
     
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    Damn. Well, that was easier than I expected. We embraced (The amount of closeness we have already with this thing is like a miracle. Seriously, it's crazy) and she started talking about my cage and teasing it a little. I told her I was getting desperate and she laughed and asked me where I thought the key was. Then said., maybe you'll never find it. What if I just never gave it to you and you were searching for it desperately. She thought this was really funny. Then we really kissed and I said "We have a couple of toys we should buy" and she said "yes. I need a new dildo" and I mentioned we should get her one of those massager vibrators She said "what about a double dildo with one end for your butt" and she thought that was hysterical. Then I said "yeah, and um, we need, an implement for, uh, carrying out the, um, spankings" and her eyes went wide and she said "the spankings??!!!..............
    ................ there's only one bitch that's getting spanked around here!"
    We're going to peruse some sites like The Stockroom etc one night this week
    I'm in heaven and I'm going to be such a good boy this week
     
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    Sorry, I could not resist the parallels. I am impressed with the progress you have been experiencing. You seem to be adept at bringing out the best of your wife’s instincts and exploring your relationship together. I hope this new aspect grows into more than either of you could hope for.
     
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