Wife Enjoying Our New Chastity Life

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    #1 lockedhusband11, Sep 2, 2019
    I think within a very short time my Wife has gone to being fully onboard with our new chastity lifestyle. Introduced a couple of weeks ago to her. Lasted a week before she said it was stupid. The next week we could both feel the loss of something wonderful that has started to emerge in that first week so she decided that this week we would lock me up again. This is Day 2 of that new lockup and she is already loving it. The attentiveness from me, my doing so many household tasks on my own inititative and immediately when she suggests them, my sexual pursuit of her, the massages and any other nice things I can think to do for her. She has said things today like 'Why have we gone without these moments of tenderness with each other when we should be so loving like this", I replied "We should have bought this cage sooner" and she wholeheartedly agreed. In one of our frisky moments she said "Wow. You are so horny and sexually charged. This little thing really does that to you? It's like night and day. It's crazy". She has jokingly called me 'Slave' a few times and had a few moments where she has demanded things. Oh and there doesn't look like there will be any release tonight and she hasn't mentioned any times or days for that.

    I honestly don't see why she would ever go back to how things were when I wasn't locked? She is enjoying this very much.
     
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    #2 LesterBallard, Sep 2, 2019
    Good luck with it all
     
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    #3 madams-sissysub, Sep 2, 2019
    Good luck on your journey!
     
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    #4 MissyB, Sep 2, 2019
    Congratulations, it sounds like you are finding what works for you.
     
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    #5 Elfman, Sep 2, 2019
    What a lucky guy, so far. Good luck and may you get more than you bargained for!
     
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    #6 lockedhusband11, Sep 2, 2019
    Last night I gave her a full body massage with oil, at her request of course. It ended up with me orally serving her and her masturbatng, which is something we never do but I love. Then she grabbed the cage and teased my balls and cage with her hands relentlessly and I was in ecstasy. I couldn't believe how incredible it felt. Then a nice surprise. I had mentioned spanking a few times but never as a full-on request, just little hints. She obviously understood that it turned me on as she started spanking me moderately hard, she was standing by the bed and I was on all fours on it. She spanked and would return to caressing my balls and the cage and then return to spanking again. Then it was over and she laughed and called me a pervert and went to shower as I lay recovering on the bed.
    I joined her in the shower (we never do that either). We were both so excited and happy and like new lovers again. I can't get over the difference it has made. It's kind of amazing.
    2 things - I asked if she would like a vibrator which made her eyes light up. So I guess I'm looking to buy something that will bring her to intense orgasms during our playtime, which may inevitably mean less need to unlock me
    and - I slept through last night for the first time wearing this thing without it waking me. Have the nocturnal erections ceased?
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    #7 Nicoftime, Sep 2, 2019
    I recommend something called the Doxy wand. Super powerful, head is soft (hitachi is hard), and I know my wife was a bit reluctant until 3 seconds after she started using it. I was told if this one ever goes belly up, we will be getting another the next day.
     
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    #8 lockedhusband11, Sep 2, 2019
    Thanks! I'll look it up. I want her to have intense orgasms to make up for my thing being locked up and useless. Hopefully this will do the trick
     
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    #9 SSBITCH, Sep 2, 2019
    Is it fairly quiet? We have others in the house and need to be discreet.



    QUOTE="Nicoftime, post: 346617, member: 42972"]I recommend something called the Doxy wand. Super powerful, head is soft (hitachi is hard), and I know my wife was a bit reluctant until 3 seconds after she started using it. I was told if this one ever goes belly up, we will be getting another the next day.[/QUOTE]
     
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    #10 mcfeely, Sep 2, 2019
    Congrats. I hope you and your wife continue with the rekindled romance and play. May it continue to develop into something you both enjoy
     
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    #11 lockedhusband11, Sep 2, 2019
    Thanks! That means a lot
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    #12 Nicoftime, Sep 2, 2019
    First two settings are pretty quiet, she rarely uses it above 2, and at that point she wouldn’t care who heard lol
     
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    #13 Blue00, Sep 2, 2019
    I suggest you first figure out what she wants. Some vibes can penetrate, some cannot. There are even devices that now work with tiny puffs of air. I’ve bought some fairly pricey vibes for her only to find out she didn’t like them.

    Will she visit a store with you to help pick one out? That way she can touch and feel to get a better idea of what might work for her.
     
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    #14 MissBrody, Sep 2, 2019
    we love the attentiveness - keep it up you will be rewarded
     
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    #15 lockedhusband11, Sep 2, 2019
    Oh I will! But will I be rewarded by her complete dominance over me and weeks of desperate but sweet denial?
     
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    #16 MissBrody, Sep 2, 2019
    Good boy. You are a fast learner.
     
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    #17 lockedhusband11, Sep 2, 2019
    It's hard to imagine that her dominance over me will increase until she has complete control and power and is merciless with it. But it seems like it's almost inevitable once something like this has truly begun and she can see so many benefits and also so many negatives in our old life without the cage.
     
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    #18 MissBrody, Sep 2, 2019
    Oh she can turn up the intensity beyond what you can imagine. When I first took control over my hubby , I loved the control and found myself daydreaming of things to turn up the intensity. Oh so fun.
     
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    #19 lockedhusband11, Sep 2, 2019
    Oh wow. Can that happen to a Woman who had never heard of chastity or shown interest in BDSM or power play before? What did you do to him?
     
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    #20 MissBrody, Sep 3, 2019
    Yes it very well can. If she was open to try chastity with you and after she sees the effect it has on you, how obedient you become and how much control she can have she will ease into it. After “he “ suggested he wanted to try it I said ok, thinking I wouldn’t feel much. But once he submitted and I had the control I tried things I had heard about. Of course the first thing I tried was with his “jewels” hanging below the cage and after about 2 weeks became soooo swollen I liked slapping them. I love seeing him squirm and try to negotiate with me.
     
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    #21 lockedhusband11, Sep 3, 2019
    Oh God. I can't imagine the depths of emasculation and humbleness that could possibly be reached. Has your enjoyment of dominating and controlling him, seeing him submit, increased over time? She's never shown a desire to implement painful punishments but after our playful spanking last night I may ask If I can buy an implement of punishement when we are purchasing her new vibrator. A strap or crop perhaps. Maybe she'll find some enjoyment once she gets the hang of it and seeing the effect it has on me
     
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    #22 MissBrody, Sep 3, 2019
    Yes it does increase over time. If she was willing to try with you , that’s the first step. She will become more intrigued. If you are trying spanking, I would definitely get her a leather strap or paddle. You need to let her experiment- and you have to be willing to have it get intense. When she sees the effects it has slapping your bare ass, inner thighs and how you beg and squirm, she will become more intrigued to try more.
     
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    #23 Kel Ford, Sep 3, 2019
    I suggest you give her lots of room. Don't break out the crazy shit off the bat. She may withdraw. Let her get comfortable in her new role and savour each day. We tend to push for too much too soon and the whole thing becomes too much for them.
     
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    #24 lockedhusband11, Sep 3, 2019
    I hope you are right, but worry she mught be totally turned off by seeing me so vulnerable and pathetic? Do you agree with the above? Introduce the strap much later? Or has the spanking given me opportunity to suggest it as a fun thing to try?
     
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    #25 MissBrody, Sep 3, 2019
    What was her response when you did playful spanking
     
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