Why Do Folks think Chastity Makes You Calmer

So you want an audience. Why not start a podcast? Do you really think that your writings have gotten you any closer to this unicorn you seek.

"acceptance of my sexually and romantically isolation through BDSM humiliation-therapy (from a non-feminist Domme)" So you aren't looking for romance? Are you happy to go through life alone?

 

How? You have your whole life ahead of you. Nothing is set in stone

 

I hear you. If you want to share privately I would love to help

 

This gets funnier and funnier as it goes.

 

I don't think it makes me calmer, I know it does.

My heart rate is lower, my blood pressure is too. I sleep fantastically, my thoughts are slower and more in control...

I suspect it's because when you abstain for a while, say a few months, you must learn to control your urges and your own thoughts. After a few weeks without having an orgasm you will drive yourself insane if you don't rein in your wild horse thoughts.

If you haven't experienced the calmness then I would suggest it's because you simply haven't abstained for long enough. We are all different, of course.

Also, I've seen studies that say testosterone peaks around a week and then drops back to around normal, so even if it does cause stress (which I can believe) then it's only short lived.

 

I checked a few or your witterings on FL and saw your posts were mostly ignored. Even looking at those with a few comments it was mostly you hammering out replies.

Life is a string of decisions until death. If you have a lost decade of youth then you need to own that, because it's yours, made by you and for you.

 

There is always a way out. Never give up.


"The key to success is failure." Michael Jordan


"I've missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. Twenty-six times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed."
Michael Jordan

 

If some bad shit happened to you, and that's not your fault, then no-one should blame you for that. However... There is nobody else in the world to blame if you don't seek help to move past these negative feelings you are obviously living with.

 

You know what the prize you get when you win an argument on the internet is? Nothing. I didn’t read this whole thing because it’s not worth reading. But this thread is pretty cringy.

 

its all shouty men being a nuisance i think.

 

of course this does not apply to everyone
and as in regards to myself for example I would my experience has been very different to the example above and I'm sure I'm not alone in this

It is very easy to get caught up when responding to some posts and reply only according to your own experiences and it is often possible to garner responses from a wider selection people and use them to derive a more informed response to your own question

 

It would seem most likely that females on this site would be more likely to be in some way of a more dominant nature than any similar sized group of women from some other unrelated site. Which would imply that might be more likely to find women that are supporters of a lot of feminist issues if not themselves also identifying as feminists. Feminist I would imagine are more likely to put the feminine identity first what ever that is. As for where to go to talk about this in depth .. I have no idea really .. but bringing this up on a feminist website might prove interesting if you don't get tied up with any for the more aggressive feminists you might get a decent conversation provided you approach them in a non confrontational way.

Good luck with that.

 

I'd go in telling them that in all honesty whilst i do agree with people being treated equally in terms of pay working conditions expectations etc and I do understand that there are some guys who for what ever reasons think its their female partner's role in life to serve them and put their own needs and preferences aside in favour of his, obviously that kind of thinking is not reasonable. But what I want to do without being lectured or getting into arguments over is understand the feminist ideology. Then listen a lot and without digging holes for self answer appropriately w=hen asked anything and try to ask reasonable questions. Soft quiet approach and take in all you can. Yous should learn somethings and may be not excluded from returning for more.

You will encounter extremists but that's life... just don't let them phase you or draw you into making inappropriate comments whether or not they are your own views or opinions

 

So funny. Lol

 

This will only goes to a fight, we have a radical speakers (who speak loud with colors and so), chastity is for 90% a choice a fantasy and I am feminist, I don't want women to be abused but as a woman i love to be. paradox?

yes because it is a fantasy at fex exception (and there will be exceptions) we have a lifestyle that makes us happy, we are not mainstream, far from nor new, all time some women leads houses or tribes. But who really cares? We don't do politics nor discuss the shape of the world.

We just enjoy a sexual fantasy life that bring us good and sometime bad times. But most of us can stop it or goes away. I also never hear of a man in chastity cage killed by his KH while women killed by a jaelous husband is not that rare.

All kind of fantasy exist and ours is not harmful for anybody. Don't be afraid to see the patriarchy die soon, it certainly won't for the world, just for few of us in a deep pleasure.

If you don't like gynarchy there is a lot of forum for male domination. Just enjoy the forum of chastity for what it is and let people around enjoy it too.

In our sexual fantasy world, logic no longer exist, we are edonist that embrace pleasure and pain in a lifestyle that suits us. nothing more.
just enjoy it yourself and don't judge others.

 

You did a great job describing what a lot of visitors to this site fantasize about. Congratulations! Have you considered getting a job at xHamster?