Where will this lead?

This morning my Queen was in the shower, and I was going through my weekly shaving routine. As I was finishing up, she sticks her head out of the shower and says, “I was thinking about locking you up this morning, since you’ll be home alone all day.” It was after saying that, she noticed my penis starting to stick out a little more. I replied that if that was her desire, then please bring me the base ring while I’m in the shower. The Jail Bird is in the shop, so we have go to the backup Amazon cage, which is a tad smaller, and requires a looser scrotum to fit through the base ring.

Nothing more was said as she finished and I started my shower. I washed my hair and was concentrating warm water on my lower regions, when I realized I hadn’t washed the rest of me yet. Yeah, I was a tad preoccupied. As I finished washing she stepped out, then returned in a couple of minutes. She slid the door back and hands me the base ring. I said. “Thank you ma’am” and set it down to warm up. I managed to get the ring on with minimal effort and was drying off when stepped in to instruct me to finish locking on my own, while she attended to the dogs.

When I joined her in the kitchen, I unzipped my jeans to show her I was caged. She motioned me over, and gave everything a quick and teasing feel before have me zip up.

Oh what a sweet Queen I have!

 

I had to ask to be unlocked Saturday night. Major ring burn/irritation to the scrotum and bottom of the penis.

I did get a call from William at Mature Metal Sunday morning. He had an idea on the modification to my JB, and I gave him the he go ahead. It should be here later this week. So hopefully I’ll be heals up enough to try it by the end of the weekend.

 

The Jail Bird arrived Saturday. With the grandkids here, I didn’t get a chance to try it out until this morning. I’m still nursing a raw spot on my scrotum, so I didn’t keep it on very long. William modified the cage to stick straight out, with no downward curve. As short as I am, it’s not noticeable anyway. It felt fine at the moment, so I’ll try it for a few hours tomorrow. Hopefully by the weekend my scrotum will be healed up enough to give it a longer run, and see how my penis gets along.

 

My Queen shared a dream with me, that she had just before waking this morning. Not a lot of details, other than I was nude and wearing a rather large cage. She was leading me on a leash attached to the cage past a large group of people who were having sex with one another.

I smiled while she told me, and thought about how far she has come in her dominate role. This was her first dream with male chastity involved.

 

After a scrotum inspection this morning, my Queen says one more week unlocked for further healing. I have one small spot that is not fully healed, so time and bacitracin are the requirements.

I did wear it for a few hours last Tuesday, but the base ring rubbing on the sore area got to be a little much. Otherwise it felt fine.

 

This past weekend I gave the Jail Bird another try. The straightening of the cage made a huge difference, as it definitely took a lot of pressure off of my scrotum, which in turn kept the cage from pushing back against my penis. I wore it from Friday evening, until Sunday morning when I started to develop a sore on the bottom of my penis again. That’s about 24 hours longer than I was able to go before. Although sleeping caged for two nights may not have been the best choice. So until the first weekend in February I have been instructed to remain cage free. At that time I will be locked up during waking hours only. Looks like I am going to have to sneak up on overnight/long term lockups. I know, I rushed things as we all tend to do.

 

In the past two weeks I’ve worn the JB for a few hours at a time, in an effort to toughen up. I did manage about 5 hours on Saturday, but nothing yesterday due to vanilla life interfering. This morning I asked my Queen if sex was on the agenda today. We discussed our morning and early afternoon tasks, our busy day tomorrow which includes my annual urologist appointment. I told my Queen that if we were going to be sexually active, I would take a Cialis. If we were not, she might want to cage me to prevent masturbation while she is away this evening. I also reminded her that she may want to keep me from having an orgasm until the weekend, when we go away for some hotel playtime. That put a smile on her face! She said, I’ll think about and let you know.

We went to town and took care of some business, went to eat, stopped at the grocery, then came home. Nothing was said as we went about our routine. I finally sat down for a moment, when my Queen walks up with something in her hand. It was the base ring for the JB. Right away I went in and put it on, added some lubrication, and slid the cage on. She watched me close the lock, gave it a little tug, then reminded me that I shouldn’t be playing with HER penis while she is gone. So here I am locked away until she returns from work tonight.

She will leave me unlocked, but supervised until Friday evening, when she will do god knows what at the hotel. I am so looking forward to it!

 

We head home in the morning, and what a fun weekend it has been. We drove here on Friday evening, and just crashed into bed. We were both exhausted, so rest was a priority. Saturday began with a good old fashioned PIV session, since that was what she wanted. Saturday evening she locked me up. After some talk about our various kinks and fantasies I massaged her feet, which led to more. We adjourned to the bedroom where she requested we get out the new bondage equipment and give it a test run. I restrained her and began the teasing. I’m still locked BTW! In spite of her negative thoughts about spanking, she really enjoyed the flogger. After her earth shattering orgasm, we went to sleep with me still locked.

I should have unlocked for the overnight, as I was a little tender this morning. Eventually we ended up in the Jacuzzi, where she unlocked me and started teasing. We ended up back on the bed with me restrained, butt plug inserted, and getting flogged. She has really taken to the flogger, so I anticipate a quality leather piece in our future. She climbed on top, and we had another great PIV episode.

What did I learn? I learned I am not up to overnights caged, but I am gaining ground on time in the cage. In time overnights will be attainable.

 

A little review.

In October of ‘22 my Queen and I first tried chastity. It was a short lockup, somewhat awkward, but a start. A month or so later we tried again, along with going to a shop to find a better cage. She lead the way and obviously had been doing research. She was definitely on board.

A few months later we ordered a Jail Bird in an attempt to find a cage that was acceptable. My Queen had went from, “we aren’t getting a custom made cage, that’s ridiculous,” to,“we need a quality cage.”

While we have had some adjustments made to the cage, we are seeing progress. I still need to get myself accustomed to it, which I believe has been my problem.

The good news is, my Queen is enjoying the benefits of keeping her cock locked, in spite of the time I spend unlocked for healing. She is really taking to keeping me locked as much as possible.

She is also finding herself enjoying things she would have never thought about enjoying a year ago. She recently found that using a flogger on me was quite the rush for both of us. Plugging me is also something she would not have done, but now it has turned into a favorite activity.

Overall she and I have grown personally and sexually, as we have been open about our likes and dislikes. Sharing our deepest secrets and desires openly has really made a difference. We both recently wondered aloud where would we be had we opened up about all of this years ago. While we’ve always had a good sex life, this past year has been full speed ahead. I am so glad I was able to embark upon this journey with my Queen.

 

This morning as I exited the shower, my Queen looks at my unlocked cock and asked where the base ring was. I showed her that it was in my hand, in preparation to put it on. (I don’t sleep caged for now). So as I finished drying, I put the ring on, followed by the cage. She finished her shower, then laid on the bed with me. After a while she got up and dug around in her toy bag for her two favorite vibratiors, and began to play. Due to some low battery issues, we were soon down to a small AA powered vibe, and a decent sized dildo, but we managed to get her the big O.

At that point my cage was full and I could stand some relief. She says to me, I think I’ll leave you locked, but after I go to work you can unlock and take care of yourself. So I’m doing as I was instructed.

 

This past couple of weeks I’ve been wearing the cage a few hours each day. Nothing last Friday through Sunday, since we had the grands up. Monday was the start of a new week, so I’ve managed to get a few hours in each day. I’m locked right now until bedtime, then I’ll lock myself in the morning, for a day long session. If all goes well Sunday through Tuesday will be more all day lock ups, and I’ll attempt short term lock ups Wednesday through Thursday. Next Friday we’ll have the grands again for the weekend. I seem to be getting along with the short periods, and not injuring myself, so at some point I’ll try overnights again.

My Queen is ok with my self locking while I work on my longevity. I haven’t had an O since February 19th, and it sure is tempting to do that when unlocked, but I’m trying to be a good boy. Especially when she tells me how she took care of herself in my absence.

 

After drying off after my shower, I put the base ring on. My Queen asked how it went last night, thinking I had slept caged. I told her that I slept just fine, as I slept in caged. Of course she was stroking me during this time, and reminded me that we should have the house to ourselves Monday and Tuesday. Oh she is a great tease! She got in the shower while I finished locking and dressing.

After her shower she asked if I’d gotten relocked OK. So I unzipped and she checked me, while giving more teasing touches. I do love this woman!

When we first started this journey she wasn’t sure if she would “know what to do.” I had no doubt about her ability to take charge and enjoy herself. She hasn’t disappointed.

 

Well crap! I spent too much time locked yesterday, as well as too much time driving, so I didn’t make it past 10 am this morning. I was pretty sore feeling, but no noticeable redness, so I’m giving Aquafor a try. I will say the relief I felt was pretty quick. I’ll go back to my evening routine to see how it goes. Got the grands back this coming weekend, so I’ll have a break from Friday through Sunday.

 

Here I am locked again after two weeks of healing. The area on my scrotum almost penetrated the skin! So I waited a couple of days past the irritation to try it again. My penis has been in good shape for about a full week.

So this afternoon when I returned from my part time job, I took a nice hot shower to get cleaned up, and relax my scrotum. Then before I could tighten up, I easily slipped the base ring on. Once dry, I lubricated with baby oil gel and Vaseline, before slipping the Jail Bird in place and locking up. Nobody else here until late this evening, so I’m enjoying some naked time, which my locked cock seems to appreciate. I will unlock at bedtime, then relock tomorrow evening. I’m going to try only locking for a few hours each day as my activity allows. Sneaking up on long term lockup periods is frustrating, but rushing sure hasn’t helped.

 

I’m getting close to trying another brand, but I don’t think that will help. I’ve got one testicle that is much larger due to fluid retention in the inner sack. I believe that is the real issue, as it pushes on the cage, which puts pressure on my penis. I didn’t have this issue before my prostate surgery. I think my best bet is to see my urologist, and have him drain it down. I dread the thought of surgery, however minor, but it may be my best option.

 

Well, it’s Monday late afternoon, and I’ve spent a fair amount of time locked these past few days. Friday from 4 pm until 9:30 pm, Saturday 4pm until 10 pm, Sunday from 5 pm until 9am this morning, and now relocked from 3 pm until 10 or so. I took a chance sleeping with it last night, and did ok. Some minor irritation that I treated with some ointment, then stayed out of the cage for 6 hours. My Queen was pleased I’d made it all night without damage!

Tomorrow is our day off together, so I’ll lock up in the morning before we start any play. Don’t want to push it with another overnighter, that is unless she requests it.

 

I tried locking up Tuesday morning, but the beginning of a sore spot ended that pretty quick. A little bit of Aquafor and the rest of the day running free seemed to take care of the problem. I will say that in the past, a sore would have been noticeable much sooner, so I must be making progress. I’ll stay unlocked for the rest of the week and upcoming weekend while the grands are here. Monday and Tuesday I’ll relock, without any overnights.

 

Monday morning I locked up for the day. I unlocked 13 hours later at bedtime. No noticeable issues, so it was back in the cage after a morning errand with my Queen. Since then I have repaired a crack in our shower, replace a spindle assembly on the lawn mower, and had a late lunch. I enjoyed lunch au natural, and I’m spending the rest of the afternoon that way. My Queen will return in a couple of hours, I hope she approves.