What Would You Want To Pack For Together Time

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    We shall be leaving Scotland soon to spend some time in London together. In London we can play lots more as there is no chance of family walking in the door which is a distinct possibility in Scotland.

    I shall be starting to pack tomorrow and as I was thinking of what I wanted to take with me I wondered how others would pack for some together time? There are of course the obligatory vanilla items which are necessary then it is time for the fun stuff.

    2 Floggers, 2 single tails, 1 dragon tail, ankle and wrist cuffs, chains, padlocks, sleepsack are the beginning of the list for me. For @lockit the list is 3 devices including spikes, foot gel, massage gloves and that is pretty much as far as I have got for him.

    What would you take for some time away with your partner if you knew you wouldn’t be disturbed?
     
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    When we are going away together I normally pack what I know he really likes me to wear.
    I also pack some gifts for him. We don't tend to use a lot of props but normally he brings along the leather bondage straps I bought him.
     
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    When ever we travel together She packs a short black rubber strap that is very effective
     
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    If we were going to London, being cheapskates, we would be on a budget airline. As we are really tightwads it would be hand luggage 10kg hand luggage only, so we would be really limited. I'm not really into CP, so one flyswat would do. I would save weight by eliminating undies, just in case of emergency I would make room for a spare plastic lock. All I would take otherwise is our sheerest and most revealing clothes. Damn, I forgot it's London, 2 umbrellas, 2 macs, 2 pairs of waterproof shoes and 2 rainproof hats.
     
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    looks like you got all the bondage and spanking stuff covered...didn't see any toys. The strapon and wand would make the trip. Maybe a plug for him and some ben wa balls for you. I'm sure you have the mundane and normal stuff covered. I think a long drive in the country and stopping at local pubs would be fun in that area...you guys are probably used to it though. I would love to take mistress to europe some day and just relax, eat, and drink. Maybe be beaten in several countries in one day lol.
     
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    For a day out in town then a nice heavy plug for him is essential.

    What would I take for together time.... W has very strong hands and knows how to use them to good effect, but maybe a gag and cuffs.
     
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    I only really need my wand when he's not around.
    Having said that, I have strapped him to the bed, taken his chastity off and lay next to him and wanded my self to completion.
    I would recommend that to other keyholders as a tease.
     
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    @Mascara^Snake that very scenario is at the top of my wish list! (With my Wife as the main player, not yourself you understand.)

    My Wife and I are driving to London next weekend for the Athletics. I would love her to think about what she could do the evening we are in a swanky London hotel, but I know that will be the last thing she is going to do. I would love it if she took my delay spray, unlocked me for the evening and just had some fun.
     
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    I really like how his member bobs up and down while I'm wanding. Snuggle up to him after, while he's still restrained and wait for the swelling to go down so you can pop the cage back on.

    All sorts of bondage improvisations and other possibilities in a swanky hotel room ;-).
    The thought of the next guests in that room always makes me smile.

    How are you finding the Jag btw?
     
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    A cage
    Some rope
    Oops I forgot the key
     
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    Surely S it's swinging on a necklace tantalizingly between your breasts?
     
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    Talon Nipple Clips for me and a vibrator for the wife. That is all we ever needed. In the distant past I did pack a flogger or crop but too old for that now. My skin bruises too easily and takes a long time to heal. Left my good Cloverleaf clips in the last Hotel we stayed at so I have to order new ones. Hope someone put them to good use.

    True story, one time my wife was paged to report to TSA. They took her to her bag because it was making a noise. Her vibrator got turned on. Kind of embarrassing for her. Since then she knows to take the batteries out before packing. I noticed that some new vibrators can be put in travel mode to prevent things like that. Must be a common problem.
     
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    I've had my Hitachi personal massager removed from my luggage and examined twice.
    Thankfully it's mains operated not Battery!! :)
     
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    We stayed in a really nice ski resort last year where our apartment had amongst other areas two bathrooms, one of which was an entire wet room instead of just a shower cubicle. I don't quite know what happened but something was unleashed in Elle. She has always been more adventurous in the shower but something just clicked. She was... different!

    So yes, I am indeed hoping for something similar in the hotel we are staying in when we visit London.

    As for Jags I can't wait for the new E-Pace to come out next year. That promises to be quite a toy.
     
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    I know because we've done this before:
    Lube
    Strapon harnesses (hers and mine)
    3 dildos
    2 plugs
    2 vibrators
    Paddle
    Crop
    Various bondage gear (cuffs, rope, etc)
    Diapers
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    I'd have to bring my device because I'd be wearing it
     
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    We shall be leaving later this morning and I think we have it sorted. @Jasmic68 toys and their uses are not really something I discuss very often on here but I am sure that side of the visit will be suitably catered for ;)

    Thanks for the ideas everyone, it was fun checking off what we have packed.
     
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    We always travel a bit heavy :x

    For her- some latex, corsets, her wands + vibes.

    For me- My body harness, my leather straightjacket, posture collars, full head gag harness, wrist + ankle cuffs, my cage (duh), 3 or 4 anal plugs + a couple aneros, prostate wands, whips, floggers, remote shocking cock ring, tens unit. Sometimes we'll add my wrist to next restraints + armbinder
     
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    Isn't it amazing that when you are just starting getting into this world of kink and fetish you normally travel with just one or two items. Suddenly there's a whole bag full of playthings and sometimes even the destination is chosen to enable more use of such things. Instead of a hotel you choose a lodge in a secluded area etc. I definitely travel with a bigger bag than I used to lol
     
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    Lol, we started off keeping our toys in a box, then a bag, then a footlocker, now they are openly displayed on a full wall of hooks in our bedroom. We also travel with a spare suitcase.
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    We talked about getting her a wand the other day... would it be a good investment?
     
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    I take it your not Flying
     
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    With the new security Laws in the U.S. Your magic wand may be considered a weapon and confiscated
     
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