What have I done!?......on the road to the unknown

Ha. That’s what I’ve been telling my wife, more and more frequently as she reads posts on this site.

 

My wife also wants me to be her manly man. We’re new to this but I think she wants me to be her big man outside the house and her sub at home.

 

Oh I’m thinking that a lot. It’s a major mindfuck when you realize you really don’t have control of your cock anymore. I’m still struggling.

 

This is correct @BigWoodsmanLittleWood The biggest compliment to my power is when everyone on the outside looks up to you and all the while I have you on a psychic leash.

 

So Woody, on the one hand, most guys here would love to have their wives be as enthusiastic as your wife appears to be, but on the other hand, they're also scared of the very same. Hence the catch phrase of this site: BCWYWF

 

I really was not careful about what I wished for and now I’m kinda fucked. I really, really screwed up yesterday and @Gloria88 is making me pay. Cannot believe what I’ve done.

 

That's a great way to look at it! I'm thinking that my wife is quickly approaching that mindset

 

this short thread does seem to encapsulate all of that into a short exchange!

we're on the same path, it's been a little slow (for me) so far, but all of a sudden we're in what I'm realising will be an extremely exciting but also very short slope, and then <boom>, all too soon I will have a lot of time to reflect back on what I've done here.

and the kicker is that I asked for it - but still aren't trying to escape before it's too late!

 

I also asked for it. Get out while you still can!

 

Do tell !!!

 

I gave her attitude and @Gloria88 added three weeks to my release. Someone seriously needs to tell her to chill. She’s getting carried away. This is going too fast.

 

On the surface, 3 weeks does seem a bit harsh for a first offense but, not if they're have been multiple and you have been warned.

 

Being in chastity is supposed to do away with all that attitude stuff. I think it's still early days for you, but that is one of the benefits of chastity, I often find there are times when I might normally give a flip reply to something but instead, I hold my tongue and consider how what I was about to say might be received, and if I think it wouldn't be received well, I don't say it.

It is important to set aside some time once in a while where you can talk things through, sort of putting chastity on hold for a few minutes, so you can each say what's working for you and what isn't. While you might be giving up control, you're not giving up your self, your feeling still matter. But having said that, while your wife should certainly take your feelings into consideration, she might still make decisions that you don't agree with, and them's the breaks.

 

"I think he can hear you Ray"

 

Three weeks may sound like a lot but in the end analysis it could have been worse. It sounds like you intentionally pushed the envelope. This is where you learn to go with the flow and modify your behavior to be the best you can be for her. Enforced chastity is simply a tool to help you learn how good it can be. Of course you’ll be incredibly horny but you’ll learn how to cope.

 

be carful what you wish for!

 

@547378263 , since you're on vacation and well, we think about this kind of stuff way more than many women, I'd guess it's an "out of sight, out of mind" type situation. ADA, she doesn't care ...at least not right now, while you're on vaca. Will be curious to hear if/what changes when you get back home though.