What happens if I get caught?

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    Chris_S Be careful what you wish for!

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    Ok, so I am new to this and am so desperate right now that I am considering just cumming in my cage to let off some steam. Has anybody been caught self-pleasuring and what has the punishment been?
     
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    When we first started she said if I cheated my device she would hand me back my key. A few years later she changed her tune and said that wasn’t an option and definitely keep me locked for at least a year. We all evolve so careful lol!
     
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    Talk with her, tell how desperate you feel, and see if you can make a deal for relief. Or she might have other options to cool your desires. Either way, cheating isn't a good idea in the long run.
     
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    If you get caught. The trust will be gone.
    what would make her trust you again.
    I got told when we started. I could stop at any time. But that would be it.
     
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    It would destroy trust why would you do that? Cannot see an orgasim being worth her trust in why you have the cage on.
     
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    Clearstatic Any reception yet?

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    If I give my self and unauthorized orgasm, she gives me the key back.
     
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    I think you're going to get back more than the key. I could easily be wrong. Good Luck
     
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    Clearstatic Any reception yet?

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    Not sure what you mean. But I will expand on my post above.

    I have worked so hard to get my wife to warm up to chastity play and some bdsm. The entire crux of this dynamic is her control of my orgasms. If I decide to take that control away from her she will simply give me back my key and no longer play my game.
     
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    You need to relax let her be in control. Find something to do.
     
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    I've never been caught. But I do admit to having done it. Can't seem to cum in my cage, but if the deadly combination of being unlocked and being alone occurs, I am in trouble.
     
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    I didn't. I was replying to the OP.
     
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    Pretty Monnica 24/7365 chastized sissy in an FLR.

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    I wouldn't say that you are particularly guilty of anything other than a momentary lapse in judgement and a loss of faith in the process.

    The bigger issue is that by not telling her, and sneaking around like this as you are, you risk putting a dent in her trust. Women are very funny creatures, but urea in this regard because they know that men are sexual little beasts and that we can be very creative in indulging our needs under pressures that are not typically there for us. I would tell you that she already knows, quite likely. That may be in her heart, and not something she has evidence of, per se.

    I would be tempted to just come clean and tell her the next time you are say, having a "How are you doing?" type conversation. It doesn't have to be a step back for you guys.

    But what would seal the deal, is if you continue, and get caught somehow doing so. At that point, she will feel ridiculous and that feeling never manifests well, or leads to future endeavors.

    You control how far this goes, and for how long. My comment to you would be "Don't mess it up over being dishonest with yourself and her.". Good luck.

    It's not the mistakes we make, it's how we react to them.
     
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    I wouldn't advise "cheating the system" but I think it would make sense since you are new to this to let your wife know how you are feeling. I would try explaining that you feel this way though because of how badly you want to spend emotional and intimate time with her. I know getting a little intimate attention from my wife takes all that sexual tension away from me.

    It could be something as small as her putting her hand on my chest while we sleep, or my inner thigh when I am giving her her nightly massage. Simple verbal messages and jokes, like "I beat you wish this was you" *while eating a banana* or "Don't worry you won't be getting that excite today" *as a 2 litter bottle of soda fizzes over*.

    I enjoy all of it, it nice to get those reminders from time to time.
     
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    Chris_S Be careful what you wish for!

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    Well, you will be pleased to know that I didn't cheat. I showed her this thread and I'm back in my more secure polycarbonate prison anyway.
     
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    Oh boy, now that all depends on what your mistress decides, after all it is her decision.
    I was released to have a shower and I thought I could knock a crafty one out. There I was in full swing and I opened my eyes only to see my Mistress watching me. I did not hear her come in because of the water running.
    She ordered me out and instructed me to get the "Iron Maiden" ................
    I begged and pleaded....all fell of deaf ears, boy she was mad....mad as hell
    I was told to put the Iron Maiden on and present myself so my mistress could click the padlock. Then I was told to lat down while she inserted the wee tube, Jesus this thing is torturous to wear.
    I was made to wear it all weekend...no matter how much I complained.
    My tool looked like mince meat on Monday morning. I can honestly assure you I have not done it since.

    Here is a pic of my mistress holding the device....

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    That certainly is something to remind you against doing yourself on the cheat. I guess she was prepared for your weakness.
     
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    Chris_S Be careful what you wish for!

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    What do I do, do I LIKE this post? Do I really want to do that?
     
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    Guess you could ask your KH what to do. Of course that could bring on new ideas for your future.
     
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    He is a mere male, what can you expect? Most of you just can't help yourselves. Thats why we need to take charge and prepare for what we know will happen.

    I could not believe what I was seeing.....him in the shower, bashing it like no tomorrow..... Then his little face of horror when he saw me stood there.

    There was a lesson to be learnt....and he certainly did.
     
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    From this and your album photos. You appear to to be an excellent instructor. That is natural of course.
     
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    Chris_S Be careful what you wish for!

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    After reading this my KH said "I like her." That is terrifying. Oh and I have been instructed to "like" the iron maiden, which is also terrifying.
     
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    I can understand the fear in that. It would take effort to achieve that requirement. I can only hope my lady does not adopt that. Good luck.
     
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    if i seen that thing i wud run away quick.
     
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    Chris_S Be careful what you wish for!

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    It's all good. I make her laugh so I'm safe. Laughing WITH me, right? Not AT me, right?
     
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    That I would not be to sure of. Possibly AT you.
     
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