What happens if I get caught?

A chastity device should prevent that in the first place. Its purpose is to keep the temptation off you. If it were all about trust, why would you even wear a cage at all?

Nobody can ever catch me. I live alone. Before I start a session (online or with hardware timelock), I have to make sure that my locks and chastity devices are secure. Nothing is more annoying than to orgasm in the penis tube and then be forced to wear the useless device for another 2 weeks. That's like the worst punishment, but I don't feel punished for cumming, but rather for choosing the wrong device.

 

Of cousr it is "AT YOU" Pathetic male i'm sure.
Just like my sub Weenie. When I tell him to get the Iron Maiden you should hear him....No, No, Please. I wont do it again.
Your damm right you wont, Just pop your thing in here and I will close it, lock it on.
The uncomfy bit came as I pushed the catheter all the way in.
And yes, like you say "I just laughed AT HIM"

 

I sense that Mistress Julie just ramped up the stakes for a lot of us.

Not sure about the rest of you, but she's convincing.

 

Just the sight of the Iron Maiden made me shrivel up.
The mere threat of that punishment would certainly be enough for me.

 

I agree. It scared the heck out of me. Not just the spikes, but the catheter tube.

And I don't think she was kidding either.

 

and me as well.

 

First of all you have to consider how you and your KH understand your chastity - just like a sex game or like a relation? Essential that you both understand it in the same way! If it is a relation then you must be aware that each relation (and FLR relation even more) should be based on trust and honesty. If you cheat her, you will be on a good way to destroy your relation at all. FLR and chastity lifestyle demands male submissiveness. Therefore if you do something stupid in emotions and horniness you should actually regret and confess it to her. If you consider and discuss possible penalty, it looks that you are going to do it with premeditation even having fun out of it. It suggests that either you treat it as a game to play not a relation or your nature is not submissive enough to treat your Mistress wishes as sense of your existance.

 

I agree !!!

 

I have found that "self pleasuring" while caged is extremely difficult. And even if an orgasm is reached in a cage...I would classify in the category of a "ruined orgasm" which is not satisfying. I use a Holy Trainer and not only does it discourage erections....but "dulls" any direct stimulation....even a Hitachi Wand.

 

I will have to agree with an earlier reply. It's about trust. In most cases, it is the man that brings the whole idea up to the woman in the first place. Also in most cases, it takes the woman some time to warm up to the idea and to build the trust in that area that the man genuinely wants this sort of thing. When you claim to submit to her and place her importance above everything, including orgasms, and then you have that orgasm (behind her back I might add) anyways, that sends a message to her that you are still focused on your orgasms, and not her. Imagine the emotional devastation that that may cause. I don't know any woman who is ok with being "replaced". I know that I'm not. So as a few have mentioned "giving the key back', you would be jeopardizing not only everything that you have worked for to create this very special relationship, but you would be slapping her in the face with the trust that she thought that she had in you.

I'm not condemning. There is a great thread of responses here. I just wanted to add my two cents ;-)

 

You shouldn’t even been thinking about cumming as a way to blow off steam. Find a way to please you Mistress instead. Focus on the positive reaction she’ll give you when all of your hard work comes to her attention. That should be enough to blow off some steam.

 

Leave you junk aloing. focus on her and making her happy.

 

Early on, I was curious if I could orgasm while wearing a cage. It took less than 60 seconds with a vibrating wand to find out. Also had a prostate milking experience that led to involuntary (non-pleasurable) ejaculation.
Of course I felt guilty and told my KH about it. "If the cage isn't going to stop you from cumming, then why wear it?"
She had a good point. Since I could not be trusted when unsupervised, toys were hidden from me.
I earned her trust back.
Today, all toys are accessible. But I no longer try to use them behind her back.
Why? I enjoy being under her control. I enjoy being horny and desperate. I enjoy serving her in every way possible with hopes of being released on good behavior. I can't speak for her, but I imagine she prefers me this way too.

 

I'm in the same boat as @NEsubhub. I've found that i can climax in my cages and early on did take advantage of that a few times. But the drop i felt after a climax showed and @MistressAMA figured it out or the last time or two i felt guilty and admitted my mistake.

I added tracking and reporting on my "mistake" climiaxes to Mistress and that worked for me. I haven't had a mistake for 16 months now and am proud of that, so not likely to do it again.

Like others have said, i'd suggest just embracing the tension and resist the temptation to play with yourself in lieu of letting your Dominant play with you.

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I agree! And that’s what my madam said.

 

If you're caught masturbating?

God God, man. Think of the kittens.

 

when locked and cage we should only cum like true Sissies.

 

Kittens ? I've never thought of kittens ! Puppies occasionally: you two playful ones with the delightful pink noses; but never kittens.

 

i like kittens. and i dont think God wud kill one.

 

It's science.

 

LOL !!!

 

I am impressed with 1 year lock up. I have to ask . Did it drive you crazy , or did it put into a good sub space ? I just had to ask,because I am now working on 60 days . That will be my longest lock up to date . I want achieve a great sub space in my head and experience the feeling . It's been 14 days since my last release , and I am just now getting back into a submissive mind set.