Turning a negetive into a positive

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    #26 Gigaman, Dec 7, 2018
    I’m embarrassed to say it but the little boy in me loves corner time thing. It’s a powerful tool.
     
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    #27 BKwife, Dec 7, 2018
    EXACTLY On all counts!. Reality always gets in the way and my piggy is finding that out and finally accepting it (much to my happiness). Thanks for the reassurance of my feelings about whether I'm a good mistress or not. I am ok with my progress and it is progress. What we have right now is very rewarding for both of us and I can only hope it continues to serve us both well
     
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    #28 BKwife, Dec 7, 2018
    Thanks. These are the types of things he would love and as simple as they are, they are the things that just escape my mind sometimes. Thanks for the input
     
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    KittensProperty Kitten's Happy Property

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    #29 KittensProperty, Dec 8, 2018
    Kitten and I just celebrated 45 in September. We were drifting apart due to my actions and behavior before I introduced chastity to her in June. In the last 5 months we are connecting again. It is a learning process and, like the 2 of you, it has been easier for her to become more dominate than for me to learn submission. Her only real problem area is with corporal punishment. We both agree that it is needed but, because of childhood experiences, it is hard for her to administer. She has made several new girlfriends that are dominate and with their help is learning how to overcome her fear of hurting me.
     
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    subhubandy CFnm loving sub hubby

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    #30 subhubandy, Jun 22, 2021
    You are not in the mood but still want to let him play a little?
    Tell him to take his clothes off CFNM
    1 Have him put clamps, clothes pin or suctions on nipple
    2 Take a pic of him
    3 Inspect him...lose weight, improve posture, shave this and or that, exercise, no eating after dinner
    4 let him pick the movie
    5 tell someone he is your chastity slave, make him show someone
    6 send him out for drinks with another in chastity
    7 give him kink jewelry
    8 send him to serve someone else, i.e. Do a vanilla favor for someone else
     
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    Hubby&Missy Love keeps us together

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    #31 Hubby&Missy, Jun 22, 2021
    Gigaman, Every body and every relationship has some ups and downs. When you argue keep the arguments about the "argument" and don't get personal. You can never unsay anything. Occasional fights mean at least you care. Don't be afraid to apologize when you hurt or disappoint her.

    BK, There are times when everyone is too tired or stressed or ticked off to want to attend to their loves needs or wants and he needs to understand that. Find a way to tell him you need him to just leave you alone or maybe pamper you when you are a little down. As long as it is not a situation that happens more often than not it is just being human. If it becomes an everyday thing you need to figure out what is going on in your life or your relationship that has you down most of the time.
     
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    #32 Tamed2019, Jun 23, 2021
    Your husband is a lucky guy as am I. 40 years to as luscious a body as you show in your avatar. You just tell him to go find something to do because you are not in the mood.
     
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