The Great "anti" Porn debate

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    Quite the opposite. I am very happy to have overcome my porn addiction so I could save both my family and my job. The journey started in 2015 when I I opened up to my lovely wife and asked her to help me. There are many adults negatively affected by porn and they don't even realize it until their Penis stopps working when there is no porn present.
     
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    The parents need to educate their children about it yes,, but they won't if they think porn is great. One reason for starting the thread was to raise awareness.
     
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    There's plenty of awareness campaigns for alcohol, drugs, sugar etc, so I don't disagree that there should be a level of awareness around porn addiction. Porn addiction is something that is generally overlooked or ignored - likely because it's still seen as quite a taboo topic.
     
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    The credit card companies generally disassociate themselves with sex work of any kind, including porn. When you sign up for porn sites, the payments aren't processed by the credit card companies. They're processed by third-party companies that act as intermediaries. Credit card companies immediately turn off merchant accounts of anyone they find doing sex work, including escorts, massage parlors, cam girls, etc. (as does PayPal, Venmo, and other payment processors). There would literally have to be an entire remaking of the billing infrastructure to create a system whereby people are required to "pay" for access to porn.

    In other words, not happening.

    And as someone else pointed out above, there are a shit ton of people who produce amateur porn purely for entertainment and put it out there for free. And, in fact, I very, very rarely even watch porn produced by non-amateurs myself these days (the amateur stuff is just so much more "real" than the studio produced stuff).

    lmfao
     
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    So how do all the paid for porn sites receive money?
     
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    In the days before unlimited free porn I purchased porn. it was done by Credit Card - merchants were companies like ccbill etc...

    haha but dear @RangerCuck you will just LOOOVE this next piece of info... haha :), well at least I love it - and I hope they will implement it all over the planet. a step in the right direction.

    The Brits are at it and are implementing mandatory age verification to watch porn:
    https://www.wired.co.uk/article/porn-block-ban-in-the-uk-age-verifcation-law

    Even though there are ways to circumvent it is a small step in the right diretion. Dear @RangerCuck they wouldn't take away your porn they would just want a copy of your passport to know their clients haha.
     
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    #108 RangerCuck, Mar 1, 2019
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    doesn't seem that the first amendment calls for the display of extreme porn to kids.
    seems there was legislation being worked on to force age verification but that didn't go anywhere:
    https://www.firstamendment.com/innocence/#ref1

    The article there describes a ton of arguments why age verification is required and good for everyone. Again, you would still be allowed to watch your favorite porn.

    Lets hope that soon kids will be better protected soon.
     
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    some more details.. pretty interesting... :)

    A man wanking in front of a computer screen to amazing women being raped, gang-banged or covered in semen / or like the stuff i used to watch "brutal face-sitting" doesn't feel normal does it?

    And why would this work better (after years of doing it) then having an intimate relationship with a woman?
    Lets take some clues from the animal world.

    an excerpt from bigthink
    He called this a "supernormal stimulus" — a phenomenon that occurs when an artificial object triggers an animal's instinctual response more intensely than the natural object the instinct evolved to seek out. Because nature could never produce eggs like Tinbergen, the songbirds could not adapt evolutionary defenses to prevent the fake eggs from pulling so strongly at their instincts.

    Nikolaas Tinbergen ( 1973 Nobel Prize in Physiology/Medicine) devised several other experiments to show supernormal stimuli affecting other species:

    • Herring gull chicks beg for food by pecking at their mother's long yellow bill with contrasting red patch. When presented with a fake bill sporting three red patches, the chicks pecked much more furiously at it.
    • Male stickleback fish will ignore real rivals if presented with a wooden fish flourishing a brighter red ventral.
    • Male grayling butterflies will attempt to mate with fake butterflies more than real females if the dummies are larger, darker in color, and flutter "enticingly." Shape does not matter. Graylings will try to make it with a rectangle if it flutters with enough come-hither.

    Birds, reacting to fake bigger more colorful eggs, Butterflies reacting to brighter bigger fake butterflies, men reacting to women on computer screens - now it gets supercharged with "hentai" porn. And hentai is on the rise.

    So to the men who want to continue wanking to the computer screen, please do so. Anyone with kids be aware of the dangers to them, any KH from porn watching subs, please see what you are trying to compete against. BUT if you decide to curb your husbands porn usage make sure to do it together. It most probably won't be easy for him to stop.
     
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    The First Amendment not only guarantees the right to speak without interference from the government, it also prevents the government from censoring or inhibiting access to the speech of others with certain very narrowly limited exceptions.

    It didn't go anywhere because the lawyers were telling them it would violate the First Amendment. Congress tried to pass legislation to restrict minors' access to porn twice, with the Children's Online Protection Act and the Communications Decency Act. In both cases, the SCOTUS ruled the relevant sections unconstitutional.

    Pornography is protected speech in the US (Miller v. California, 1973), and so the government is not allowed to impose restrictions on its access (which requiring credit cards for purchasing it such as what Lucy is suggesting would be). A significant number of people do not have any credit cards, and requiring such for access to porn would be a de facto inhibition of their access. And even if such a thing were legal, given that somewhere between 15%-20% of teenagers have their own credit cards or access to their parents credit cards these days, that's not a terribly effective solution, either. Anyone who actually thinks that simply requiring a credit card # to gain access to porn is deluded. Given the things that go on on the Internet now, I can't even understand how someone would think that would work.

    Quite frankly, I am literally astounded that some of you folks are so incredibly clueless about this stuff. I guess those living in the UK or outside the US could be forgiven for that, since they deal with a different set of laws than we do, but anyone with even a rudimentary understanding of how the Internet works should realize how ineffectual trying to limit access to porn would be.
     
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    Because I can get what I need for free? In broad terms, if there's something I'd like to watch that requires paying for it, I have absolutely no problem whatsoever paying for it. I have paid for access to porn sites in the past. These days, as I mentioned earlier, there's so much free amateur stuff out there (that has more sense of reality to it than studio porn anyway) that I just don't see the need to pay for it.

    To be honest, though, these days there isn't a lot of porn watching anyway. My cock's in a cage and watching porn would just be counterproductive.
     
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    Please tell me how people pay for porn if they don't use credit cards or paypal.
     
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    So you're saying it's your human right to view free pornography? (of which most is stolen)
     
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    Restricting porn for 80 -85% of kids sounds a great start to me.

    You are coming across as incredibly selfish, you don't care what happens to anyone else as long as you get your free porn.
     
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    You know what's really funny? You clearly have half a clue about some important shit but you chose to go onto a website dedicated to CHASTITY to try and prove how smart you are. You chose to go to a Femdom/Chastity website to spit out some averagley nuanced shit. Good on ye, big man. You want to know something else? I was tasked to look at your post. A friend I know from America said "How stupid is that man, seriously?" - and I refuted it and then judged you myself.

    But still, I came to the same conclusion. You are a moron, mate. You're a pretender.
     
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    You seem to have a reading comprehension problem. I didn't say people don't pay with credit cards. What I said was:

    The credit card companies generally disassociate themselves with sex work of any kind, including porn. When you sign up for porn sites, the payments aren't processed by the credit card companies. They're processed by third-party companies that act as intermediaries.

    Note in particular the bolded part. Now, do you think you can actually tell the difference between what you're suggesting I said and what I actually said, or do you need me to diagram it for you?
     
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    Chief, I could not possibly give less of a shit what you think about me. lol
     
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    In the US, it absolutely is a right. The US Supreme Court has said so. It doesn't matter whether it is "free" or not.
     
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    How can someone *possibly* be this clueless?

    If cherishing my right to view what I want without interference from the government is "selfish," then I'll wear that title without any reservation at all. The solution to some issue that causes "harm" to a subset of people is not to prohibit everyone from engaging in whatever behavior is considered "harmful." History is replete with examples where that was tried and it failed miserably (see: Prohibition).
     
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    There would be nothing to stop you engaging in it, just pay for it.
     
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