Practicing chastity, my wife is my only sexual outlet. That is great for intimacy and for the relationship in general. But it also makes my libido becomes very visible in our marriage. We cuddle and I quickly get aroused. She teases me and I get desperate. I ask for sex or beg for release, etc. As long as I don't ask/beg too frequently, she doesn't have a problem with any of that. But I want to feel strong, rational and independent. Chastity sometimes makes me feel all the opposite in our marriage: Irrational (horny/desperate), helpless and dependent (can't take care of my own needs), and yes... a bit pathetic. Can anyone else relate, and if so how do you deal with it?