Simple Long Term Survey

Minimum 30 days.

 

Good question!!!!!

I would say it depends entirely on your own beliefs!

I read somewhere think of what your own limits may be, then double it!!!

With the absolute kindest regards

J.

 

I think that if you are young and horny then long term may be 1 month.
For me I reckon 6 Months or more is long term.

 

I have never got to a year.. once 320 locked with no orgasms..and last year 321 locked with about a half dozen orgasms most while locked..
For me reaching one year locked without benifit of orgasm would be a longish term...
Because I have been experiencing varying degrees of the chastity life for 14 years ....
.....permanent would be long term

 

One month is our target but I have only made it to three weeks. That seems to be my breaking point where chastity stops being fun. I am hoping that over time, we can push that limit little by little just like we did with BDSM.

 

I would have to say 30 days also, since I have to make that amount of time locked up.

 

Yes, depends on your level of experience. For beginners, an hour can seem an eternity. I'm teaching my sub so 2-3 weeks is long for him but I hope to get him to last at least a month soon.

 

In my mind, anything over 30 days is "long term."

 

I am now told I have to wait until Thanksgiving because my wife does not want me bitchy for our anniversary at the end of this month. She is even hinting at waiting until xmas if I handle the two months well. So I guess two months I long term to me. . Oddly enough, I am handling chastity much better than I used to. Practiced makes perfect.

 

Anything over 1 month, almost made 6 months recently!

 

chris82 I totally agree. Long-term chastity begins about after 3 months.

 

I think a month is long term. It certainly was hard work to extend beyond that. Now that my device is more comfortable (or I guess my body has just got used to it) we're enjoying pushing my boundaries a bit. I'm working towards the 90 day challenge.

 

i'd say that "long term" starts after 6 months. Tomorrow will be 27 months for this slave.

 

I will consider long term chastity will be locked away for life and not allowed to have an orgrasm.

 

For the first time, without any release ??? .... For most people, it's impossible.

Perhaps wearing chastity device whole year, and have an orgasm twice a day - it really just half day term.
IMO short-term and long-term, it's not just a calendar, between the dates of release.
It's different dynamics and feelings.
Eg.
This thread has been written about "switching" after three months

 

That is wonderful cagemeplease. this slave also experimented with several devices and was bounced from Mistress to Mistress for also about 10 years before settling on the present Mature Metal device which this slave's present Mistress / Owner Mistress Sonia, has of today 27 months, Commended purchased. Prior to this slave's present relationship it also accepted and believed that 1 year was considered to be long term and was permitted a ruined release at approximately that time. However, Mistress Sonia has a totally different definition for long term similar to your own.

On the 1 year anniversary of Mistress Sonia's Ownership, Mistress gave Her slave an ultimatum. Be unlocked and satisfy its selfish sexual desires and end O/our relationship immediately or remain locked indefinitely and remain forever in the service of the exquisitely beautiful Mistress Sonia be called simple Mistress Sonia's slave. After much discussion it chose the latter choice and hasn't been happier because Mistress Sonia is happy.

Congratulations cagemeplease.

 

I would say anything over 3 months is long term. However, 1 year is a big fantasy to me and many others, there are lots of stories about one year lock ups, i think i agree with you that 1 year is something to be looked forward to, 2 years would be the ultimate challenge.

 

I laugh at myself, when I think back. I made a contract with my wife, stating a release every week. Soon changed it to one in two weeks. From that point on I rapidly was stopped in my topping from bottom by her evolving commitment to a FLR-lifestyle , and soon I found myself accepting a full month, on her demand. She had found out that a release meant a drop in service and pampering, and a change in my temper. She disliked that of course, and now realized what powers I had surrender to her.
And what happened ? Well, I found out that the denial was oh so sweet, and my love for her, my affection and my complete surrender elevated from being a game we played again af again, to become a lifestyle.

I also soon realized that everything beyond 20 days or so, was getting easier to cope with by the minute... So when she demanded three month I was thrilled. When She soon hinted me about her desires for permanent I had no objections. Soon I found myself in it, and I can tell you it feels oh so right. I am more or less horny all the time, and just watching her moves, inhale her scents from her neck, watch her behind moving in her trouser, or a dress makes me crazy...

I might have to add to the picture that sex has blossomed - has become so much more a part of our life together then before. Before this lifestyle - we had sex all right , once a week or so, but in-between their was no tension, no fire, no flirting, no pampering , - not much altogether really. It has all changed. My wife loves penetration and i have been trained to endure without release. Also I get to serve her a lot. She has always liked me to go down on her, but she seems to be craving it by now! And with the girlfriend Ann, I feel spoiled, so no - i miss out on nothing here... Permanent means permanently horny and permanently serving and pampering. And I have become a much nicer person, she tells me. Others seemed to have noticed my pleasant awareness too, so, what can I say...

A month ago she took the device from me, and I thought I would panic, but again it turned out to be fuel for my submissiveness. She wanted to test my level of commitment... she told me.
Instead I wear a cockring - thats it. Loose enough for 24/7 wearing, and tight enough for doing its job, when she craves penetration, or when she likes to tease me, and forces her fingernails into the head... Sweet......
I' m pretty sure that she will not use the cage on me again, And I have come to terms with that. For special occasions maybe? we will see....
A leash to my PA during play is more of her liking today...

I think it is only fair to say that longterm has changed my mindset completely , to something I would love to keep forever....

Bottom line here - longterm is a progression, not something you can define. You will not know what you can endure regarding longterm, before you actually get there. And Your own definition is the only definition that counts, and it will evolve unpredictably....

BlueEyes

 

Too many 'it depend' to anwer that.
The brief answer would be any period of denial that is or was longer than you'd want is long term.

How long is too long?... Don't even go there

 

At least for 3 months or more
Without release, even for cleaning / shaving
My 4th month is going on

 

The longest I have gone without orgasm is 320 days while locked in a cbk 6000. . ..the device had a few breakage incidents, however over the 320 days, it was only off for a total of about twelve hours or so..(this was about 5 years ago)
On our first date two years ago ( Oct 6 )
I had locked on the cbk..
We talked for hours over dinner following a movie..Miss K asked all sorts of questions re chastity ..
And i have been wearing a device ever since
( except when the cbk finally became unusable). We ordered the jailbird MM..
This new device has been on now for 269 days.. (removed for four thorough cleanings)..
In this time she has induced orgasm with a magic wand a few times while leaving me locked. .it seems to have the effect more like a ruined orgasm..
with little or no drop in
hornyness. .
I'm a lucky locked up guy!
she shows no signs of wanting me unlocked and I'm glad for that.
win win!