Should all males be in chastity?

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    I do not feel that chastity is for every person but it would make a great punishment for anyone guilty of sexual harassment and any sex crimes
     
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    Although it probably didn’t need to get into attack mode, I understand the fella’s confusion with the original question...and the point about it not really being a question. Any more than should every male cut off his foot, eat raisins everyday, drink cat urine, or use sandwiches to paint houses.

    Not saying conjecture on how that would play out, scenarios, and other fantasy opinions cannot be asked, but really...if that was a real question then I can understand him wondering exactly what the heck mentality he might be dealing with.

    Again, it didn’t need to be so antagonistic, but I did wonder about a question that was not real.
     
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    bnd2plz I keep my favorite things locked up tight!

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    No... I like looking at different men and try to imagine which ones wear chastity devices. Some I like to think of being locked up and others not. I might be a little biased towards the more handsome ones being locked up. Just saying. :)
     
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    Just wanted to say sorry I never intended for this post to spiral like it has. For a while there though I did witness some very good discussion regarding the actual topic so thank you all. :)
     
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    I wouldn’t say all men should be in chastity, but I would say all men would benefit from chastity. I certainly wish my wife and I had discovered it sooner. I think it would have prevented a lot of sex related bitterness between us.
     
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    I am not caged but I am chaste. My wife and I agree that it is best for me. My sexual activity is limited to daily milkings and peggings which I find completely satisfying. But I doubt that most males would agree to enforced chastity even though it has its virtues.
     
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    Hey now, you don't owe anyone an apology. :) I've rather liked the discussion that a thread like this prompted (confused-slash-belligerent visitors aside).
     
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    Your post certainly did not prompt that kind of anger and malcontent. I surely think that fun and new discussion is always welcome, even far fetched ones.
     
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    It's not a ridiculous question at all. The short answer is Yes, all males would benefit enormously from some form of chastity. @Shepherdsflock is right about that. It doesn't mean that every male in the world has to go around wearing a chastity device but there is something to be said for all males learning about the benefits of orgasm control/semen retention, the heightening of awareness and - for them what ain't spat the dummy yet - spirituality, particularly with loving encouragement and guidance from a partner (or KH if a device is preferred).

    Is it going to happen? Nope. But that doesn't mean the question is irrelevant.

    For one thing, the calming effect of semen retention would eliminate male tantrums, hissy-fits and the irrational need to have all their demands met yesterday.
     
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    There's no doubt in my mind that most/all males could benefit from at least learning about being in chastity and that it would be a wonderful world if all men were caged, but it could never happen as the nature of the male of the species is more Alpha than to permit it.

    This thread has stirred up a thought, though. What if there were a retreat or a kind of Fantasy Island, where couples could go to openly enjoy the chastity lifestyle among others with the same love. Of course, there would need to be some extra males there for cuckholding purposes and there would need to be some sort of sub etiquette in play, such as collars and leashes, exposed cages at all times, etc. There have been several fantasy stories written here on CM of such a place, but I am thinking that such a resort/retreat could really be possible! One can dream, I guess!
     
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    No, it should be a choice. To me its just the strongest sexual thrill. But that doesn't mean most men would experience the same thing.
     
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    I know of a close approximation: The Rio de Janiero Samba and Carnaval. This is an annual celebration of all things Femdom. I think its based on an extinct African goddess or several goddesses that only survives in Brazil
     
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    Carnaval in Brazil it is a celebration for four days, a multitude of people celebrating life.
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    I don't think all men should be in chastity, but all men should try it at least once;)
     
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    Obviously, "no" to the original question for ethical reasons. However, it's not really a meaningful question until we have male chastity devices one can't simply pull out of.
     
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    I think, chastity should be optional, but chastity belts should be available for every, who wishes to wear it permanently, especially from young years.
     
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    Aren't you so right! :)
     
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    There is no way I could pull out of mine. I also would never want to;)
     
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    I don't think all men should be in chastity, but then again...
    • Would Donal Trump be the same person if Melania held the keys?
    • Would Al-Qaeda or ISIS ever existed if they (the men) had been locked up by their mothers, wives etc?
     
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    Most of these replies are directed to the whole wolrd of males in general. However for those males who visit this website, should it mot be considered the norm, or even mandatory?
     
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    I completely agree Ms. Personally, I think probably more males are locked than we may think, unfortunately, many don't expose this though. Chastity is a huge commitment and such a total power exchange. I know personally, I'm a much more behaved submissive when I'm kept locked and only released with good behavior.
    y agree
     
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    They should.
     
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    Yes Ma'am. My life goes much smoother when I'm kept locked and obey Women.
     
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