Premature Ejaculation Training

My Wife just recently expressed her desire to see how long I have to be denied before I can cum within a minute or two. It’s very humiliating to think about when you’re used to being able to go for 30-45 mins or more.
I believe she knows it helps define my being her submissive now, after decades of dominating her.
If it makes her happy then I’m okay with it, of course when I ask if she’ll help me build my stamina back up eventually, I get a devilish grin from her and no answer….

 

Chastity has turned me into a pre mature ejaculator. There are degrees. If my wife tries, she can get me to cum in less than a minute--not even enough time to get fully hard.

https://www.reddit.com/user/LaneZz92/comments/jq5z13/tutorial_orgasm_faster_and_become_a_prejac/

 

Yeah, but many of the principles still apply. His recommendation to use a timer and using a trigger work way better than you can imagine. I literally trained myself to cum at the sight of a woman's foot--and I had NO previous fetish regarding feet.

 

I have been trained to be a premature Ejaculator.
I have been cumming now in less than a minute and denied pussy for so long I seriously doubt i will ever recover any stamina.
I love being rendered useless sexually.
Except for a
mazing oral ability of course.
I have a vid here http://eroprofile.com/m/videos/view/Cum-in-30-Seconds if anyone is interested.

 

After being locked up for more than a couple of months, my wife often only allows me to masturbate the first night unlocked before allowing me to have PIV on the second night. I normally lock myself up without question the morning after I've had PIV.

I can never tell what's going to happen though. Whether masturbating or having PIV, sometimes it takes absolutely ages for me to be able to get to orgasm, I get excited but just can't seem to get over the edge. Other times I've hardly started and then I cum and it's over really quickly, both seem to amuse her greatly.
It seems to be more often now that it's either one extreme or the other.

My first orgasms after a lockup used to be quite intense, but now they're all over the place too.
If I take time to cum, then it's just a gentle orgasm, pleasant but not ecstatic, but the quick ones can be either like a really ruined orgasm, just a flow with little sensation, or an explosion that's quite intense but over far too quickly. We both find it quite amusing not knowing what's going to happen, and she always gets the use of my tongue which so far has had no such problems.

 

No real training needed. Lock, tease, stay locked, tease, stay locked, tease, unlock, tease, lockup, on and on. Soon whenever you get out and teasing starts your ready to pop.

I’m holding back as much as I can in under a minute. I don’t think I’ve lasted longer than that in a few years, unless drinking was involved. Then it’s closer to 3 minutes.

When we first started dating 5 years ago I could go for 30 minutes or whenever I wanted to cum.

 

The second video is quite impressive even for a masturbator.

 

For me there isn't much of a choice. I think my wife would like me to go longer, but after doing this for 4+ years, 95% of the time I'm done in under 2 minutes, and that's *trying* to stay hard longer.

Every so often my wife'll do a thing where she'll set a timer on her phone or watch and tell me that if it goes off I'm done and going back in the cage - one way or the other. The thing is she's usually way overestimating how quickly I can cum if I try...

 

I do orgasm within seconds when she unlocks me to ride my cock. She calls me her “over easy” egg. I’m quick and she likes me without stamina or control. She feels powerful being able to make me cum so quickly and easily.

I used to have “infinite” stamina in 2015 but she trained me to not hold back and let go. She will ruin my orgasms perfectly and I won’t twitch in the slightest. I’ll pour out slowly and spill without spurting or a hint of orgasm.

Specifically I will not clench down and hold those PC muscles. I keep those muscles relaxed. I “hold open”.

She keeps me teased and denied and my prostate full. Then I’m brimming with cream and ready to cum.

My eyes go wide and I’ll quiver and tremble when she moves to ride my cock. (I rarely get to actually fuck)

Then I’m done within seconds. I beg her to let it draw out and let me feel her pussy for longer but she most often doesn’t let me soak inside her…. I’ll cum quickly and she encourages me to do so.

One time I lasted 3 seconds. Another 20 seconds.

My advice is tease, denial, and keeping yourself sensitive. She will only touch me gently when she changes the cage for edges.

 

Back in the day I could last. Now, after being trained to almost cum on command, it's humiliating to say the least. Makes me feel like a slut or something

I have not had PIV sex in years. She trained me to be a slut for her Magic Wand. Only she can use it on me. Cage removed, panties pulled back up and away we go. I cum in seconds in whatever she wants. Panties, dish, towel etc. It takes me longer to lick it all up than it did to make the mess! LOL

She loves no fuss releases and the power she has to have me cum on command.

Once you get over the embarrassing, humiliating part, it's all good.

To be able to be inside of her for a soak?? WOW Those days are long gone

 

After being locked and teased, and my Wife(KH) allows me to cum. She wants it fast and done with. 99% of the time she lets me masturbate and it only takes seconds. I know if I go too long, she will stop me and put my cage back on. There is no taking my time and enjoying it. I can have a orgasm and be cleaned up in about 2 minutes. When I'm lucky and my Wife wants to play a bit. She will give me oral, but when she says "cum"...I cum...Again, if I wait too long...Locked back up with no release...

 

Being locked for a long time is the best way to become a premature ejaculator. I have PIV sex very seldom now, because my Wife realised that it is pointless. As she says, it takes more time to unlock me than fucking. I usually need about 3 strokes to get to the edge. Last time I was able to fuck my Wife for about 30 seconds that was surprisingly long.

 

I am used to last one hour and I still can do it. but after 2 weeks of full chastity all things change a lot.
She nows how to do and with position to take to have me jerck in 30 seconds, maybe lass. it is terribly humilating and it destroy your manly self estim, or the rest of manhood you still have.

especially when she look at you and says "already?" while she knows what will happen because she made it to hepen that way.

 

Back around 2010, when I was still allowed to fuck, my wife started telling me not to stop during intercourse to last longer. She told me to just go ahead and cum without holding back. I began cumming pretty fast, and eventually, after a few months, I began cumming on the first stroke going in most times. If I took a long time to start cumming, it was usually on about the fourth or fifth stroke, and I never recovered from the change. By 2015, I was no longer allowed to have regular intercourse again, except for once in February, 2017, my last fuck forever.

 

I used to last for ages, but now after being denied for weeks on end I become so horny and frustrated that I can cum just by her touching my cock with her fingertips, or by rubbing my hard cock on her beautiful soft body. She looks so satisfied when this happens.

 

the last few times I had a penile orgasm, I came within a minute or so and was only partially hard. I think it's inevitable if you do long-term lock ups.

 

Very interesting thread.. Thanks for the link !! I've read in the past on a French forum that's possible to make the same with a chosen word but unfortunately the link is no longer valid...

 

Quick question. Do you wish you still had your stamina or to you enjoy being a prejacer?

 

For me, cum on demand is more fitting to being a submissive. Being told what to do and when is the training I asked for years ago. Cumming just seems to be part of the bigger picture. I cum very quick now with her using her Magic Wand on me. No matter what, I have to ask permission to cum from her. When i ask, I better be right there if you know what I mean.
To me, having stamina is more alpha male.

 

I do wish I had my stamina. I do. Even though it’s been gone for years now. She prefers me “over easy” and made into a gooey sticky mess quickly. She has a negative interest in me regaining control and having any semblance of power.

“Don’t try to be something you’re not.” she told me. She doesn’t want a manly fuck. She called me her sweet sensitive boy, who gushes for her easily. When I first gushed out cum from my cage while in her arms, just from verbal teasing, she was ecstatic. She praised me for it.

I don’t have a choice anymore. It’s out of my hands. I wish for stamina and control but I’ve given her ownership, and she’s keeping me the way she wants. There’s no backing out now.