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    My love has decided I have a phone problem. And she's right. So she has put parental controls on my phone. I have no social media besides Snapchat (for talking to friends and whatnot). Everything else was deleted. App Store downloads are blocked, so I can't get them back. The websites are blocked so I can't get to them in browser. And safe search is on. The closest I can even get to porn is the flr section of this website as the pictures and other forums, even some threads in here, are blocked by Her safe search. Thank gosh too because I anlso have a porn problem. Our goals were to help keep me off my phone unless I needed it and to make Her the only woman I can look at sexually.
    Thoughts? Ideas to make it more strict? Ideas to make it more free? Ways to do it differently?
     
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    Did you have a porn problem even though you were wearing a chastity cage? i have been told that wearing a cage helps alot with porn addiction because the whole end goal of watching porn is masturbation, and if you are wearing a chastity cage, it disincentives watching porn greatly
     
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    What a great idea it’s like chastity for the mind too. Which parental control does she use? How could she block parts of this website and not others? She could install a webcam monitoring you and a app she can monitor your location at all times.
     
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    She uses apples screentime and has safe search so any explicit sites get blocked. Apple has weird guidelines for that. Like I can't steady anything with the word "strap." And the pages here with words like "sex" and "orgasm" in the title won't open. But I can go search all about chastity
     
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    It's not a masterbation addiction though and that's the thing. We've already solved that with the cage lol. Porn addiction is its own separate thing I've been dealing with for a long time and this is the first thing to work
     
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    Good for you and your lady! I'm guessing you've been honest and transparent with her about your addiction. Has she gotten angry & upset with you about this? Do you find she's constantly questioning you and looking over your shoulder?

    It doesn't sound like you need anything else unless you are finding other ways to cheat.
     
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    Nah we're good. She doesn't even care about the porn. It's more for me than anything. It was a time waster and and attention dump. So I brought the idea to her and it's been really helpful. I get ready quicker in the morning and I barely get distracted by the social media OR porn anymore. The social media was really the biggest addiction of the three.
     
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    Mistress tooked my phone of me cos i keeped text Her when She at work and She got fed up of tell me to stop. But i got a new one now and i dont do that no more.

    So the best way to stop you is to have it tooked from you.
     
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    How do you set "safe Search" on a Apple device?
     
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    Screen time then content and the rib act then content restrictions. It's in there
     
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    I tried using it too it’s a bit mysterious how it classify and blocked sites. Sometimes it makes no sense and chastity is apparently a good thing according to it. There’s another software that even monitor social media and txt etc
     
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    Not into tech and dont have a cell phone. I was wondering if your phone could be restricted so you can only receive calls and texts and then your lady can block anyone she does not want you to communicate with. Of course there is the obvious question ... do you really NEED to have a mobile phone.. if not there's your solution..give it up
     
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    I took my sub-hubby's smart phone away from him quite some time ago. He now has only a simple cell phone, designed for a small child. These are available online or at big-box stores at very reasonable prices.

    This simple phone has no internet access, and can only receive and place calls from a few pre-selected phone numbers which I control. Right now they are limited to me, my sister, and a close GF of mine, also 911 in case of any emergency.

    This child's phone also has a tracking feature which I can monitor if I wish to find out his location, but since he is a full-time stay-at-home sissy maid I seldom need to utilize that feature.
     
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    Nope that's is a line not to be crossed I'm caged to stop self satisfying she holds the keys she's not touching the phone
     
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    Indeed!.
    My KH may control the content I can see, less porn etc but I'm not going back to the late eighties with a phone with only can make a phone call. It's my private phone and I need it also at work to look for home addresses to deliver freight.
    Thank God the phone is in service of me, and not that I'm in service of the cell phone! :)
    Further It doesn't matter so much to me.
     
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    that what i sayed to him. :)
     
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    So if someone put a racy picture on this thread, you wouldn't be able to see it anymore?
     
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    Idk. I think it's based off the website title? It's not perfect and it's not like I'm trying to cheat or anything. But like I literally haven't found any porn that gets through it so there's that
     
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    Can you make a few pictures of the settings? I did search for it and ended up resetting my IPhone because all the apps were in disorder….
     
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    I can't because I don't have the screen time passcode so I can't open them :,(
     
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    She has no control over my phone contents either
     
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    That’s too bad. I would love to see the settings on this one.

    can you ask you’re Mistress so she can make the pictures?
     
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    OMG! I love this Idea! I have to look into this, Thanks for sharing Brooke
     
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    Good luck with it
     
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    I just have to ask permission to use my phone in her presence, We don’t really do social media on a big way, I have a look on Instagram mainly fetish content and I have here, and madam has her vegan forums. Madam has all my passwords/codes so I cannot hide anything from her, and madams happy for me to talk to others as long as I’m telling them how much she owns and controls me!
     
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