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    Hi All, I am a middle aged male married and pretty new to all this! My wife as she puts it stumble onto the subject of male chastity. She commented after reading the literature it all made sense to her and ten days later I signed a chastity contract and was wearing a cock cage! It was not something I had ever considered doing. With us its just not about her controlling me sexually its more about me growing as a person and also us growing as couple. In the end she is control. Good deeds and actions are rewarded and bad deeds and actions are punished. I have no desire to be spanked but should she decide I should be disciplined I will take my punishment just a I will take any reward I am given. The journey continues. Sexually it is all about her satisfaction as I am they to serve her when called upon. Its is actually hotter than any fantasy I could dream up.

    Wife lead relationship is the life for me. Hopefully I can talk to other like minded people.
     
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    Welcome, your experience is very similar to ours I can definitely relate to you guys
     
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    Hello and welcome
     
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    So nice to see another like minded couple!
     
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    My wife fell in love with my cage the first time I showed her it and if we had more time alone I’m sure she’d keep me naked except for my cage lol
     
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    We went shopping together and she also loves me in a cage but more importantly the control she has over me. It has been pretty intense for the both of us.
     
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    We wish we had discovered this lifestyle long ago, do you find now you’ve handed control of yourself that your partner is oh so much more enticing and attractive and that you constantly want her?
     
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    We tried other things but it never lasted long and now male chastity ticks all the boxes. I also constantly want her but her that decides when and what that looks like! Sometimes I am hers to use as she sees fit or its edging her toy and at times both are going on. What ever it is I serve at her pleasure Then there are the days nothing those are hard because if I try tha doesn’t go well>
     
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    Exactly, it really is just what she wants, at first she couldn’t resist unlocking me and we’d have sex but as we’ve progressed she loves the fact that she can demand I make her cum in whatever way she pleases and I tend to stay locked and I’m happy to oblige
     
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    I was told if tried to top from the bottom i would never be released pretty good incentive to be a good husband
     
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    Welcome, it's always great to hear of a couple where the wife initiated chastity, as it's usually the guy that starts it. How long ago did you first lock up? I ask because, even though you are new to this, you seem to have all the right language down already.
     
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    As my wife says i’m a quick learner We also know we have a lot to learn and that there will be bumps in the road. We have agreed to talk through those times but in the end she has final say!
     
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    So how long has it been so far, and what stuff have you done since the first lock? Does she let you out often for play? Does she let you service her often while remaining locked? Have you tried edging and ruineds yet? And what about those spankings, have you been a bad boy???
     
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    when 10 days since the first day of lockdown which pretty much the max under our contract. She of course can change that at her whim. Probably never get to service her without it on and that’s almost a daily occurrence along with repeated edging sessions. I’m going to explode one day. As to spankings non so far don’t like spankings .
     
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    Hello and welcome to Chastity Mansion enjoy your stay here.
     
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    Just a 10-day contract, eh? That's certainly a novel idea, I like it. Daily orgasms for her, plus edging for you, well, in my opinion you're doing this perfectly, lots to enjoy there. Have fun and enjoy the ride, it gets better!
     
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    Welcome to our community. I hope you find it useful and entertaining.
     
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    Thanks
     
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    Excellent! Good to have another married couple here working on improving their relationship. I hope you realize how lucky you are that she has taken control. Let her lead, but dont think it's not going to change. The lockups will probably get longer and her control deeper. Most wives say they should have done this years ago.
     
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    Looking forward to the journey!
     
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    She sure is. She knows that she is more enticing and attractive to me and that I constantly want her. She uses that like a carrot and stick or not at all because in the end. it’s what she wants is important and that I serve her.
     
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    It would help if you could develop a taste for "being spanked," as you put it. The first time my wife beat me with a riding crop it was weird and not pleasurable, but I'd been asking for it (out of curiosity). And I grew to love it, as she seemed to take to it, fairly quickly.

    Good luck with everything.
     
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    Not allowed to asked her. It is all up to her.
     
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