Welcome to the group, I see you’ve already met a few. Sounds like you have a wonderful relationship with your wive and constant communication will keep you on the right path. Keep it up, it just gets better
Perhaps you're not allowed to ask for anything. Thankfully, I am, and sometimes my wife asks me to suggest games or treatments I am to receive (most gratefully). For us, this is all a happy exploration.
Although she hasn’t spanked me yet she has taken to biting me and today she was researching shibari who knows what that will lead to. Time will tell
So far it has been great! We haven’t been this happy and in love for some time. zIt is good to also see lust in her eyes. I love pleasuring her even if it means being locked up.
Hey @taped2 could you expand on how you went from not really enjoying it to loving it, I'm very interested in the transformation.
Good luck and welcome! I introduced chastity and dominance to her. She wasn’t into it but said she would give it a go because she liked me a lot (we were dating, we are married now). After a month, she fell in love with it and doubt she would ever agree to be anything less than in charge, in and out of the bedroom. I don’t think it has crossed her mind once in 5plus years that I would ever be unlocked for any significant length of time.
In my case it was the other way around and she took to it like a duck to water. Never been happier nor has she in a long time. I foresee in time if she wants I can see a day not having to wear a cage as she will be the cage.
A new cage came yesterday which was like graduating from training wheels. Definitely more restrictive but my wife loves it and that’s what’s important. To celebrate I was immediately locked into it had my hands ties together and my servicing and pleasuring her began. The new cage definitely kept me focused on the task at hand. As always I serve at her pleasure.
It’s called the Red Resin Chastity Cage from Chastity Box. I like the fit but eventually will get a much better cage. I was instructed to look for a cage. She was happy with my decision but I thing she would be happy with anything as long as my cock was locked up and i was under her control which I am. She what’ us to go to Montreal to be custom fitted at ://www.steelwerksextreme.com I am sure she will enjoy watching the fitting.
Just in case you're interested, there is another guy here who was put in chastity by his wife and he's documented his story. It's a fascinating read: https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...ot-mine-so-why-is-it-so-damn-effective.41121/