Messed up and discovered

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  1. grntruck
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    Messed up this morning. I had an ultrasound scheduled to check for kidney stones. My bride left for work before i got up and took the key with her. Didn't think to much of it as i've had these before and dont require disrobing or examination. Procedure has changed a bit and this time they checked my bladder as well to see if it was filling properly. The tech rested her arm as she was working and the cage. She got kinda of a funny look at first then asked if it was steel or plastic. OH my did i turn red. I apologized profusely, explaining it was not my intention to expose anyone to that. She smirked, said it was okay and not the first she'd come across. Went right back to what she was doing. When i left she told me not to worry and take care.

    Good news is I don't have a big stone and not blockage. Bad news is I'm still embarrassed and feeling really guilty. i wonder if there will be a note in my chart now? This falls under medical privacy stuff i hope. Texted my wife and she said we'll have to come up with a better system so there is a key available for stuff like this. I'm thinking tamper proof tape or something of that sort. Should I make an effort to apologize again or just drop it?
     
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    Sounds like it was handled professionally.
    Wonder how often they come across this or similar.
     
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    The impression i got was more than a couple of times. Yes professional. I dont think she was embarrassed at all which i am grateful for. Likely in her position she has seen nearly everything. She must know something of the kink with the question she asked. My guess is it will be gossiped about later. I'd have canceled if i thought that was going to happen.
     
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    Funny story. My lady would have laughed her butt off about it. Just have your wife hide a key around the house.
     
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    Sounds like no harm done. You didn't deliberately leave yourself open to "discovery of your secret". That's the important thing, we don't force our lifestyle on others. She behaved professionally as indeed you would expect and you politely apologised so all is OK!
     
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    We use plastic numbered tags if u have to remove it in an emergency you can. I think it's more secure no cutting a spare key or picking a lock. If the tag number doesn't match the diary note game over.
    My keyholder is a health worker and sees guys with cock rings and piercings regularly actually must ask if she's come across any one locked
     
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    And to be honest if she did share it with a friend, partner or colleague and had a giggle, as long as no name is used then what's the problem!
     
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    No need to apologise. Medical professionals probably see all sorts. They're trained for it, and yours behaved in a very professional way. Forget it.

    After all, it's not really something to be embarrassed about, when you think about it properly. It's a lifestyle choice. We all make them. This is yours.
     
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    You're a good person for caring but it sounds fine.
     
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    Had a similar situation at the dermatologist for a skin check. My usual doctor would have me take my shirt off, but not my pants. When I went in this time there was a female PA and she told me to strip to my underwear. Thank god I wasn't wearing panties that day. She had me standing and was checking my thighs when her hand accidentally hit the cage slightly. Enough to know it was something hard. She paused and gave me a look, but said nothing and continued the exam. At the time I was mortified. Later I realized she was the one touching my junk and should probably be embarrassed herself. In your case the question "is it steel or plastic" tells you she's knowledgeable on male chastity. You don't learn the composition of devices simply by having a few patients show up in them. I think you're fine and wouldn't sweat it.
     
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    I am with @LesterBallard on this one. She obviously knows what a male chastity device is if she asked if it were metal or plastic. What inquiring minds want to know is did you answer her question about what material it is?
    You should feel proud of the fact that you have made this commitment to your wife/KH and relationship.
     
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    Embarrassing situation that appears to have been handled most professionally. I wouldn't be concerned about anybody else finding out as that clearly falls under the HIPPA privacy laws, which all medical professionals strictly adhere to. Of course that doesn't mean that you weren't completely humiliated, does it?
     
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    I told her it was stainless. Nothing else was said as she told me to roll on my side to check the other kidney.
     
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    We all know there are plenty of keyholders out there, It sounds like she was quite knowledgable, and the smirk makes me think maybe she is a KH in a current or past relationship.

    She was obviously aware of your embarrassment so handled it professionally. There's no need to apologise when you next see her, but if you do and you're not embarrassed then, it might lead to a conversation...
     
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    Count on medical workers seen a lot and a belt will not really disturb them except it prevent needed access
     
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    Once is enough. You are good. Interesting that the tech was aware of MCDs though. Since most of us remove them before medical exams/ procedures (based on my reading of forum posts) the fact she'd seen some ( a very small percentage) then there must be more of us wearing MCDs than one might think.
     
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    i do hope you did answer the "steel or plastic" question too?
     
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    My Bride is an RN and She would have laughed her rear end off quietly. I try to always leave my cage at home when dealing with the medical establishment, unless I'm going to the eye doctor or a dentist perhaps.. The good news is she didn't call the psych. dept., and acted professionally, so I wouldn't sweat it. Life is good.
     
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    Good for you @grntruck you handled a delicate situation like a Professional. It's interesting that she would ask about it being plastic or steel. That shows she's into chastity or its a lot more popular than many of us think.

    We all walk around on a day to day bases and never know how many people we see in a mall or even at work that may be locked. It's good to hear positive results from when cages have been exposed. Maybe someday it will become as excepted as wearing underwear that isn't white, or cotton ;)
     
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    Now there's a thought! Maybe blokes not wearing a chastity device are the minority! Don't think I'll try asking my collogues at work if they have their cocks locked though! :)
     
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    Ha. Ha that probably wouldn't be the best wat to get invited out for a beer with the boys. But in maybe say 10 years from Now. A lot can change, I can remember when the First Cell phone came out. Now their everywhere. I also still own an 8 track. Ha
     
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    I had a medical today of a type I've had before. Previously I've not had to remove my pants but checking the lower abdomen is close and in view of experiences like those above I got permission for cage removal just before I went along. Well surprise, the lovely female doctor this time wanted to check my testicles and prostate. While I was having my testicles checked out I realised that I was hairless down there with the usual quite clear ring marks and sore patches from the base ring very obvious on my scrotum. It must have been very obvious to the doc, but she just commented that all was fine, and then moved on to my digital prostate exam. Let's say this was very thorough and quite long-lasting and after several weeks of orgasm denial it was exquisite agony. After she finished she commented that it is nice to have no inhibitions about such intimate examination and for her the nearest equivalent was giving birth. Well she was great and made the whole experience surprisingly enjoyable.
     
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    I was very pleased about how professional she was. Your post is timely. I received an email from my doc yesterday saying it was time for my annual physical. Haven't scheduled yet as my bride thinks i should stay locked after how the ultrasound went. Even if i am allowed to unlock i am well trimmed and have marks from the ring as well. No sores though. :) While kinda exciting in a humiliating way i'm going to do my best to get my bride to unlock me.
     
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    I gave a show at a hospital 2 years ago got into a mortorcy accident and they cut my clothes off someone cover me fast but sure everyone in the room got a look. Then ran me down for a bunch of exrays thank good nice my wife got there before surgery to unlock me
     
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    That is a fear of mine. But then figure if i'm in an emergency room the last thing i'll be worried about is my cage.
     
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