We are a 20+ year happily married couple who are new to using chastity. Looking for advise as to how to enjoy further. Using chastity to enhance our sex life.
Same for me and my KH/wife. This site has been a wonderful education and very supportive. Start browsing and following active threads -- there's a wealth of technical info, thoughtful discussion, fantasy ideas...
Welcome to the Mansion. You are embarking on a road that has many turns. Once the door is open you may never be the same. There is so much you can learn from each other and find out desires that you may had never thought about. I know, after 42+ years together you never stop learning. Enjoy your time here and welcome to the family.;-)
Welcome. Love to hear how you started down this path, after being together for such a time. Hope you are really enjoying yourselves.
Welcome. Many of us have started out the same way after many years of marriage. Certainly adds a whole new dimension to your relationship. Let us know how the evolution progresses!
Welcome “Your so young” having been married for only 20 years. We started our Chastity adventure after 25 years, which will be 9 years ago this summer. A little behind @Allen1987 at 42 but as he says “Your never to old to learn new things “. Chastity has been the greatest change we ever made in our marriage, it’s brought us closer together and kept the spark in our lives. We don’t even have a thought of going back to a life of me not being locked. The interaction and knowledge that we’ve gained from The people here has helped a lot to get us to where we are today. Embrace your new life together.
We started chastity play at year 3 of being married. The first device was actually my anniversary present to my wife that year. It was a path of a few hours around the house, to that first time going for dinner, to attempting to sleep, and finally moving into multiple days. Close to 10 years later now we do lockups with no planned end, having gone as much as 8 months straight through. My interest at in being in bondage and other fetishes continues and is a regular part of our personal life in and out of lockup periods. Chastity has allowed my creativity to be used to find ways to please get while still getting the satisfaction of my preferences, such as when I built a queening stool designed to be used when I am in my sleepwalk and she wants to work on her computer. The point is, use chastity for the pleasure it can being both of you and let it be a way to find other ways to be pleasured for both as well.
Welcome. There are plenty of married loving husbands who are locked up at CM. It's a huge opportunity you have -- make it about her and let her lead and you'll end up in the right place.
Thank you for the warm reception. To answer a few questions: I bought the devise and asked her to use it on me. In our short period of chastity I agree this is a VERY special adventure that we both enjoy.