Maintenance whippings

That's hot!
While on vacation 2 years ago, I left our hotel room and headed down the hall for ice for our cooler. As I walked past this one room I heard someone getting punished by (I think) a paddle or strap. I heard muffled moans and another whack. I stood there frozen listening to the moans and whacking...not sure if it was a guy or girl getting the session but it was very hot to listen to. I counted in the short time I was there 18 hits with moans after each hit.
I came back to our room and told my wife. Of course we travel with our leather strap and canes and some other items.. She said you want to join the moaning....No thank you!

 

Maintenance whippings are an excellent idea for me. I get really needy when in the cage after a couple of weeks. Being whipped (in my case with a flogger or riding crop) helps me by giving me attention and makes me appreciate my wife/mistress all the more.

 

What Hotel did you say that was? Oops that could have been Us LoL

 

My Queen has often had me come into her house and given me a whipping before we headed out for the day .
She says it keeps me in tune ,and she knows I will respond to her every order without question or delay.

She always enjoys the power she exerts over me , and a morning whipping gets us both in a good state of mind to enjoy a days outing.

 

Mash we were at a hotel off Hwy 1 in Cali.

 

Maintenance whippings are fortnightly in our relationship. Its an opportunity for D to enjoy that side of her personality and having an orgasm afterward. It is also very much appreciated from my point of view as it takes the edge off the frustration of being in permanent chastity and lets me handle the next 2 weeks.
I crave the whippings a couple of days before hand because of the relief it brings. I can become very annoyed if something delays our maintenance schedule. Which can then lead to punishment whippings if I don't control my temper.

 

Takes the edge off the frustration -- love this insight. I think of it as reconfirming why I am in chastity.

 

I don't get whippings but I feel the same way about my wifes bb sessions. Definitely helps with being in chastity and submissive.

 

In a previous relationship, my domina would schedule time every Sunday evening to review my behavior during the previous week, discuss my attitude and willingness to follow her instructions, and then review the notes she made on my housekeeping.

These conversations were held with me over her lap, panties down around my ankles. Once she was ready i was given twenty-five swats with the paddle which was very painful and made an impression. If my behavior in the previous week was not up to her standards then additional corporal punishment was administered with her crop or a leather belt she enjoyed using for the purpose.

I found it to be an incredibly intimate way of re-establishing my place in our relationship and since the sessions were held weekly, I remained focused and obedient and she rarely had to punish me for a failure during the week.. Afterwards, I was sent to my corner, with my panties still down around my ankles, and expected to meditate on what she had told me and how I would make my service more valuable.

After twenty or thirty minutes she would come and get me and usually want to be pleasured.

That was my experience with maintenance whippings!

 

Sounds perfect, just what I need.

 

my Focus seems to be more intense when Mistress provides me with maintenance for sure. Our current living situation makes it difficult to do this daily but I can see how this could help keep me inline.

 

The use of maintenance whipping or the like always makes me question my attitude and actions to make sure I am being the perfect husband or to the best of my ability.
We missed the last session due to life getting in the way and my attitude was not what it should have been, I was reminded that it was not her fault and to smarten up and get my attitude in line or the maintenance would turn to punishment with 10 full force stokes of her riding crop. After only 1 punishment stroke in our last session I changed my stance immediately.

 

Well at first is was beimg punished. But then after i learned my true place, it became her way of having fun. I like to play X-BOX different CALL OF DUTY GAMES and was always getting killed. She said you need to concentrate better. So every time i would get killed i had to mark it down for 1 paddle stroke. Yes we were both playong the game. So she enjoys it.

 

It's up to each couple. For some the answer is no but for us the answer is yes. Mine makes my canings part of being rewarded for good behavior all week. I get five strokes if I've earned them, more like 15 if I misbehave.

 

Women may question the why. My answer is regular sessions will ensure that default patriarchal societal training and assumptions will ensure that men learn to be respectful, compliant, and patient with their partner. For women who hate it or don't desire to do it, it will teach them to empower and strengthen their inner masculine spirit. Learn hierarchal tradition and execution as the defacto leader, and allow a deeper understanding of power and control without guilt.

If the man learns his place, i.e. doesn't talk back, has a good attitude, the intervals can be expanded from short times to longer ... think from every 2-3 days to week, to month to quarter to year etc. For women that "desire" a strong man, she can also temper the guilt with the knowledge that the training of pain (like a period for a woman every month) will reinforce an edge that says ... honey. I want you to be compliant; however, I also am interested in you desiring me and wanting me and taking me with respect.

 

Christ.

 

My wife does all sorts of corporal punishments to me on a very regular basis. I have a love/hate relationship with my situation. I do get a feeling of lightness from enduring her penances. It is like being absolved of guilt and after so many years it is normal to crave the resultant feeling.