Longest You’ve Gone Without?

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    I’ve been locked for a year now but last night Mistress and I had a talk about how she really wants to amp up the denial/torture since my “training” has been lagging. Now I’m starting to get nervous…

    With that, what’s the longest you’ve gone without ANY release/cumming? I include no ruined O’s, no caged O’s, no O’s at all.
     
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    86 days as of today.
     
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    2.75 miwilion years, give or take several bazziliinion parsecs.

    My 17 mistresses who each own a hundred hot female bollywood actresses, have denied me access to a library for so long that I cannot remember how to spell the word Gullible.

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    Did you feel or notice any differences during the days after 30?
     
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    I’d like to add to my post:

    For those over 35 days (longest I’ve gone), did you notice or feel any significant differences in yourself? I’m keeping the question broad because I’d like to know all what I’m in for…
     
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    286 days since an ejacultaion or orgasm.

    I still lack a reliable spullchucker.
     
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    Yes. At about 45 it became nearly unbearable. You have to muscle through that period of about 15 days every once in. Awhile.
     
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    As of now 236 days
     
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    I think I had attained peak constant hornyness by 35 days, that hasn't declined any thereafter, but has been stable.

    Around 60 days I really started to accept and feel good about really wanting my wife's needs to be paramount. I'd already developed much deeper feelings for her, but it took until then for me to stop thinking about my own needs ahead of her's.

    I still have kinks I'd like to explore, but now I'm happy to leave that entirely in her hands without any pressure from me.
     
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    This is the biggest deal for us. Although I try really hard to focus on her, I still struggle with being sexually selfish. I desperately want to break this barrier so your comment brings me hope.
     
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    I’m at six months now. I get lots of teasing, don’t really miss the lack of orgasms.
     
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    IMO Anything up to 6 weeks weeks is easier with edging or any kind of unlocking at all. Things change if the cage doesn't come off for any reason.
     
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    148 days. I then managed 7 thrusts into my fleshlight before losing it.
     
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    It’s 288 days since I last had any kind of O (excluding two wet dreams over 240 days ago)

    After the first 90 days it’s pretty easy in my experience - I don’t even really miss it
     
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    Congratulations to all you long timers, I've only really gone 31 days longest, but many times, i used to get a release on the 1st of each month for years, so it depended on the month, 31, 30 or 28, i seem to get them a bit more random nowadays.
     
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    Masturbation and orgasm denied since January 20/2021.
    Thankfully Goddess allows prostrate milkings about every three months. Otherwise I don’t know how I would manage.
     
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    94 days , no releases no orgasms no teasing no playtime. That was the longest 3 months for sure.
     
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    35 days for me, that's maybe 2 years ago now. Since restarting chastity it's been 2-3 weeks between orgasms. Mrs Sen is getting more comfortable denying me, but not sure we'll ever be long timers.
     
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    91 days - No O's for me of any type. Similarly to @MaggotNub, I started focusing more heavily on her pleasure and O's. I really started to learn her body even more than before, her rhythms, her likes and dislikes, etc. She has alwsys told me that I was always sensitive to making sure sex was mutually pleasurable. But I learned so much more about her body and mind so that she no longer gets bored with sex more than every week or two. Now we're physically intimate almost daily and sexually intimate about every other day. Chastity, orgasm denial / control, and a 90 day lockup changed everything. And our sexual intimacy didn't diminish during that lengthy denial period. She had been deprived for so many years of our marriage, she didn't want to go without any longer. Now that she was in control of our sexuality, she took full advantage of it.

    One thing I will warn you about: time slows down dramatically. The calendar moves like a tortoise!
     
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    Our intimacy also didn't decrease during denial, it increased exponentially. Last year we probably had no more than 12 orgasms together.

    In the last month she's had one on average every two days. Of course, I've had none, but the intimacy, omg.
     
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    I don't have an exact day count. But around 6 months no orgasms. I did have 3 wet dreams in that period. So longest time without ejaculations at all would have been around 2.5 months.

    Teasing or playtime every few days. After about a month, I did not miss orgasm. Actually preferred the feeling of being left on edge. After about 4 months, I started to feel as though I had forgotten the feeling of an orgasm.

    I don't know at what point it started, but eventually, she could touch me once or twice and it felt as though I was going to cum, but at the same time, felt as though I knew I wouldn't. It was like the actual act of an orgasm had become foreign and difficult to find completely. Anyone have similar experiences?
     
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    I set myself a goal of a month without an orgasm. the first week is my torment. I'm trying to distract myself from the thought of orgasm with all sorts of household chores. The second week has started..
     
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    The first week is easy for me. I actually enjoy the freedom of not having to worry about being so horny during week one. Week two is the hardest. That’s when I hit what I call peak horny. It seems like all I can think about during that second week is sex. After two weeks my body has adjusted and not cumming is just normal. I’m still horny but not 100% all the time.
     
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    maybe playing with anal distracts from orgasm?
     
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