Locked daytime only? (Free during nights)

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    I would appreciate hearing from anyone who practices chastity tube wearing ONLY during the day, but removes their device at night while sleeping.

    Either publicly or privately is fine.

    I am pondering such a scenario, so wonder how well it works.

    Thank you in advance.

    Laz
     
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    I only wear it during the daytime, seems to be no problem at all. I shot you a message as well!!!
     
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    Thanks! Do you feel this allows you to wear for many more days in a row?
     
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    I have found wearing day and night has been better for me. Recently I used a medium sized cage and went 12 days without taking it off at all. Then I took a break and tried again, but only wore it during the day and I barely made it a week before I had to remove it because of chafing. Now I am in a much smaller cage and I am wearing it all day without any issues at all (besides a lack of erections...). I'm hoping to make it through October if I can.
     
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    Interesting, I did not expect that result.....
     
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    Neither did I! Smaller may be better in my case!
     
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    just to be clear, you have LESS chafing if you wear 24/7 vs letting it rest over night?
     
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    I wouldn't be allowed to sleep unlocked! I'm so used to being locked all the time I'm not sure I would like it!:)
     
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    Seems that way, as funny as it sounds. Perhaps staying caged helps me to forget the desire to become erect and it is easier as a result. Also the smaller cage is helping a lot I think. The one before was at least 2 inches long and the current one is 1.25 inches and really prevents any growth from starting. I'm loving it whatever the reason, and my wife likes me being on "timeout".
     
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    I agree with those about being locked all the time. It’s much easier to stay locked (with a snug cage) and my wife/kh likes it better that way as well.
     
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    For SURE my wife would prefer me locked 24/7.......but even with my comfy Cherry Keeper, after about 6 days I have skin issues.....not matter how careful my hygiene.
     
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    Some people just can't manage overnight. As long as you remain chaste it's absolutely fine. Our kink is about chastity, not wearing a cage. That's an incidental.
     
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    As Lester says whatever works for you is best. For me I find it is easier to wear it as much as possible as it seems as though the skin gets used to it as otherwise I find the skin around the testicles is more sensitive. Having said that some nights I won’t wear it if we have to be up early for example and we prefer no risk that I wake in the middle of the night and get a disrupted sleep. So it really is whatever works for you. If you haven’t done it overnight then you should try it a few nights in a row perhaps to see if you get used it and try not to drink too much just before sleeping.
     
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    I've been locked permanently since May last year. At first it was difficult, especially in the mornings and there was some discomfort and soreness with the ring but over time that has gone
     
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    I normally don't sleep in mine, but I can. I found a smaller cage works best, you notice it less, rolling over etc.
     
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    I think whatever works for you is better. I have worn mine partial days, all day, all day for multiple consecutive days, or not at all. But remained chaste in any situation. Actually once i got over psychological hurdle, wearing it overnight is easiest as it isn't hanging down or being confined. Morning erections can be a nuisance, but they remind me of the commitment to avoid orgasms. So find what works for you, and your KH if you have one. Good luck and enjoy.
     
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    I do not wear mine at work so only during the day because I work night shift. I do wear it while sleeping during the day. I put it on when I return in the morning and take it off late evening before work. It seems to work just fine, especially since I got a better/tighter fitting cage.
     
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    I don't understand. If I wear a smaller cage, the penis still grow and pushing my balls foreward and looks silly...
     
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    Then she'd have to either keep an eye on your or restrain you during the nights. Otherwise, since you're chaste and frustrated, a few seconds is all it takes.
     
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    My wife likes me to be unlocked when we sleep. She likes me dry-humping her ass when we wake up in the morning as part of a daily tease. But during the day, I’m caged. Works great.
     
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    Thank you all for the thoughtful comments. I like what Lester said most: it's about chastity, the device is incidental.

    For the record: I'd PREFER to be locked 24/7. I can manage to sleep in it.....although not as well. My biggest problem is that no matter how meticulous my hygiene, I eventually have skin problems associated with 24/7 wear.
     
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    When we first started chastity, I only wore it during the daytime. Before my morning shower, I use to put the cage on to start the day. After my evening shower and just prior to bed, I was allowed to remove the cage. Then it switched to wearing it more on weekends when the wife wanted to fool around. Sometimes I was allowed out and sometimes she denied me, but it continued to evolve. Eventually, we started to go more 24x7 unless she let me out.

    the big thing was slowly increasing duration in the cage, not just wearing immediately all the time.
     
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    As I said in a previous post, chastity is down to the individual, it’s personal, and it’s what works for you! Don’t worry about what other people do! If it works for then it works! Just have fun and enjoy your journey! All the best on your path!
     
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    I wear it all day, and when going to bed. At night when it gets to much, i wake up and take it off with the keys ready on the nightstand. First thing in the morning is to put it back on. I'm training to be able to wear it all night, but it takes some time. We've been using the cage for play for a few years now. But we have come to a point were my wife likes it when i wear it during the day. I don't have the keys with me, never. If needed it can be cut with pliers easy(plastic/holy trainer) if in an emergency.
     
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    For me and my wife only wearing it daytime also seems to be the best fit. She likes me uncaged while being in bed with her.
    Unfortunately I have troubles to find the right cage at the moment. I've gotten PA piercing that she enjoys a lot. So a cage with an integrated piercing isn't an option. I would have to take the cage off every night and put the piercing in....and in the morning the same thing. So I'm searching for a cage that is very open at the tip so that I can just leave the PA piercing on. Unfortunately the chinese one I've ordered first is crooked as hell and simply too short.

    Any hints are welcome!
     
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