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    #126 maxsecurity4sub, Nov 12, 2021
    What about blowjobs only when locked in chastity, if one has/wears a cage style device?

    Or how about numbing cream only on the head of the cock, then a condom rolled down only over the head/tip of the cock. Thus, only the shaft of the cock gets licked/sucked, and most men are nowhere near as senstive or get half as much pleasure from a "shaft only" blowjob.
     
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    #127 Crowe, Nov 13, 2021
    I haven't had a full BJ til finish since before I met my wife 14 years ago. The first one she gave me, she said if I let go in her mouth, it would be the last one I'll ever get. Even before we discovered chastity, she'd get me right to the edge and stop and finish me by hand, but now that I have been locked there is no finish at all. I love it and hate it all at once!
     
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    #128 bondinchas, Nov 14, 2021
    That strikes me as decidedly "I want my cake and to eat it!"
     
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    #129 ChasteHubby2015, Nov 16, 2021
    Occasionally I’ll get a very brief bj with the cage locked on while I’m chained down to the bed, she says it’s the only circumstance in which her mouth will ever get close to my penis again. It’s very frustrating to feel her tongue through the bars and not be able to get fully erect. I begged her to take it off once and she got upset and said, “no, I’m not taking it off!”, then proceeded to strap on a ball gag to my mouth and continue with her teasing.
     
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    #130 Byron2002, Apr 1, 2022
    My wife of 20 years has never given me a blowjob. I used to hint at them but she would not do it. Now that I am in chastity is even less likely to ever happen.
     
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    #131 true42, Apr 1, 2022
    Same here.
     
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    #132 Rectrix, Apr 1, 2022
    Same here. And the reason is right in your statement: you "used to hint" at them. Do you think real men hint? Real men get blowjobs because they require them, and women know that real men require them and so give them. Us beta males hint around and our wives know that we don't deserve them. And for various reasons we end up in chastity cages where we belong.
     
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    #133 HusbandInTraining, Apr 1, 2022
    Early in (and prior to) our marriage Goddess went down on me a few times (a VERY few times in 10+ years), but I always stopped her and tried to reciprocate instead. BJs have never really interested me, I'd much rather give her oral than receive it myself. Now I'm kinda craving it, and I don't believe I'll ever have it again.
     
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    #134 Guest 6019, Apr 2, 2022
    I asked about a BJ tonight, and was told "Well your birthday is coming up soon" a minute of groaning from me.

    She then started talking about something else disturbing my sububble. So I tried to bring it back.

    "Tell me more about this BJ I might get"

    "I might change my mind if you ask me again"
     
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    #135 bondinchas, Apr 2, 2022
    My wife does give me blow jobs, she knows I love them, but only a few times a year, and when she does it's never to completion, she loves leaving me hanging there.
    I don't know what's worse, never being able to have it, or actually having it and then having it taken away from you at the last minute.
    She thinks I love being denied, but I have no idea where she got that idea from?
     
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    #136 Lazlo Toth, Apr 2, 2022
    For the record:

    Lifetime: Only a couple of foreplay type blow jobs. Never to completion. Never allowed in anus. Never allowed to ejaculation inside of vagina.

    Currently: Not allowed inside at all.

    So blow jobs are less likely than the proverbial lightning strike.
     
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    #137 b_quark, Apr 6, 2022
    Same for me with blowjobs. I would say in all our years of marriage my penis has been in her mouth maybe 5-10 times, never for more than a few seconds, never to completion, and now not for a very long time.

    I only ever ejaculated in her vagina without a condom when we were trying to get pregnant. Otherwise it was with a condom, or mostly not allowed at all. For the vast majority of our marriage, until I was no longer allowed PIV sex at all, I was only sometimes allowed to put my little penis inside her after I had pleased her with the huge dildo.

    Oddly enough, she has talked recently about letting me put it in her anus, because she enjoys having my tongue and fingers there, and my penis is not much bigger.
     
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    #138 Hig4s, Apr 6, 2022
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    Never had a problem, wife doesn't do oral often, but it happens several times a year. As much as I enjoy it, oral almost never makes me finish.
     
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    #139 DonnaSue, Apr 6, 2022
    What's a Blowjob?
     
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    #140 Rectrix, Apr 7, 2022
    Reading comments since mine above I realized there was a clarity/definitional issue. When I said my wife had never given me a blowjob i meant to completion. She used to suck me as foreplay for PIV without getting too close, but she doesn't do that anymore either, no oral from her at all since chastity started.
     
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    #141 WillieBDenied, Apr 7, 2022
    Just stay in a vanilla marriage long enough, the blowjobs will dry up.
     
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    #142 Kat9s toy, Apr 7, 2022
    That's what I was going to say! LOL (It's been a very, very, very long time.)
     
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    #143 Evan Gore, Apr 7, 2022
    I'd just rather give oral to Princess I know exactly how she likes it. So satisfying
     
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    #144 Guest 3291, Apr 8, 2022
    I Love oral…:love:
     
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    #145 Guest 3291, Apr 8, 2022
    It taste good if guys are eating pineapples :love:!!
     
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    #146 Matthew989, Apr 8, 2022
    I think I had one about four months ago but it’s a very distant memory
     
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    #147 Kylara, Apr 22, 2022
    before chastity she does BJ as a mark of equilibrium between sex on man and woman, it was a part of woemn role to do it.
    the day we try chastity she fully abandon it. Some time I have a very small one (30 seconds) but it is all, BJ are now for me a thing of the past since last 5 years.

    And she seems very happy of it.
     
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    #148 bethanise, Apr 22, 2022
    I thought blow jobs were a thing of the past for me, as well. But it turns out they're not! It's just that I see them from a whole different angle now. Usually on my knees, looking up.
     
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    #149 Jail Bird, Apr 22, 2022
    LOL
     
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    #150 Andy88, Apr 29, 2022
    Some of u guys r lucky.. but most of us as shared here can only dream of regular sex.. let alone a bj. My wife would never suck a sub male.., let alone a dick that is confined to a tube in reminding him of his status. She decided i shd even giv up on d male orgasm.. its over for me as she takes a more assertive role…
     
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