I am responsible for washing and putting away dishes, glasses and cutlery etc. I do have a bad habit of leaving cupboards & drawers partially open while i am washing dishes and / or cooking. But once i am done in the kitchen and turn off the lights i make sure the cupboard doors & drawers are closed. Lady Kat will often come in the kitchen and make a comment about this and i will defend my actions. Today she asked me to find out what other subs would do in this situation. Are others allow to answer back, to defend their actions or just stfu, apologize and follow the orders to the letter.